u/user007420

I've been looking for a genuine friend on reddit since 1-2 years and have tried all the possible subreddits available but they all are filled with people who just want to be there for a little while. I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone in real life and that's why I was too dependent on apps like reddit, ig, snapchat and what not but nowhere I could get that one single person who is still with me, talking, and having a real friendship to this day. this isn't just loneliness. I now have fully understood that it's some kind of curse I've been given to suffer from. but somewhere in me still have a faith in having someone forever.

hi, if you need someone non judgemental, to listen to you, and just be there then you can message me and yes I'm strictly against ghosting so dw I won't turn into one

mine goes from 10hrs to sometimes 13hrs i guess bro... well tell me yours. and yeah loneliness be for real

is there any person who is getting a treatment? I want to know what is the total cost including blood tests, the diagnosis, treatment and the medicine in the initial process? also if you're from maharashtra, that'll be much helpful

are you there? like me, always there, online, desperate to talk and share whatever thoughts going on in your mind, tired of others who stays for a while and gone the next day right? desperately wake up to see if there are any notifications from someone, waits forever to get a message, nobody understands your blabbering, always afraid of going back to the square one and the dark void?, stuck in a undoable loophole of wanting someone you can rely on, someone just like your copy. with no fake promises. right? so where are you? because I'm here. finally!

hi, I've been trying other subs to find a best friend I can talk to actively and share funny reels or memes with, since I'm available most of the time. I don't attend college regularly and I'm home a lot, so I have plenty of time to spend online. I don't currently have any real friends to talk to or share my life with.

I don't have many hobbies, but I like watching youtube videos and movies, and listening to music whenever I feel lonely. I play chess and brawl stars, but I'm happy to play whatever game you're into. I can talk a lot at times, but I'm also a great listener, and I'd love to have voice chats or calls. I'm open minded and can talk about pretty much anything.

honestly, I'm just looking for someone who's also struggling to find a person who understands them, because that's exactly how I feel. I don't want a ton of friends just someone who won't drop the conversation after a couple of days. I'm strictly looking for a genuine, long term friendship, so please only message me if you're serious about it.

loneliness does worse to me and I can't seem to stop it.

I'm always alone and that ends up doing lot of ma*turbating and just doomscroling. I've been trying to connect with people but it always ends up dry. I actually enjoy it but also feel regretted. does anyone also feel the same way? not just guys but also females? I know trying something, or doing something helps distract but it isn't always the option.

why someone suffer something they are fully aware of yet experiencing same all over again. I'm talking about masturbation. I can't help myself stop doing it. I have never been loved nor had any friends in my life and it makes me feel so worse. I'm always fucking desperate for female connection to have normal conversations and sexting. I always respect what the person decides. I never bothered or disturbed anyone to make myself feel happy and satisfied. I read what happens to people and I hate to be one of those creeps but I'm too suffering from the things and its really hard to find an understanding one. I have had made many connections and i thanks to everyone who have been kind to me. I miss some of them and crave for the same. I hope life gets better soon. I'm 26 and a male.

I'm just desperate guy for a person who's fun and consistent with ups and downs. be from anywhere i don't mind. I'm kind, honest and open minded person looking for the same kind. I would really love if there will be no barrier of any kind and just fun and interesting chats. hope you see this and send me a message.

I just read a post of someone saying they went for an adhd diagnosis and came out with anxiety and depression. SAME THING HAPPENED WITH ME but I went to a civil hospital where there were many doctors sitting like if we were having a dinner so I was being questioned and diagnose by one lady doctor and I told things like I don't feel like doing anything regardless of how hard I try to, whether or not I get suicidal thoughts which I don't, and other questions which I forgot and then she prescribed me an antidepressants...

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what should I even do now? that girl most probably went to a good private hospital and still same thing happened. it's not that easy for some people to change a doctor that quickly because it costs too much and I personally forget to repeat things to a new doctor

I worked at ekart (flipkart) as a delivery executive for 3 months from aug 2024 - oct 2024 on a contractual basis. I was hired by the avsar hr services. I was getting my salary from avsar with salary slips for each month and around 2,000 pf deduction for every month. my contract was about to end so I checked my epfo and there was no pf credit so I called avsar and they told me to email so I did. I did not get any response so I called again, mailed again and again for multiple times and after many tries in march 2026 I got a message from epfo about pf credit of rupees 1808 which isn't even a single month pf so I called them again and emailed but since then I have got no response and they are not even answering my calls and emails now. I also have emailed and raised grievance to epfo and they are also not helping much and was telling to contact the employer.

does exercise, yoga, running or any physical activity helps in adhd? I want to know which kind of activities can help the most and the duration doing it particularly home based because going out isn't really my thing. home workout is good I have tried it before and can tell it works but I want to know more so please if you have any tips or advice do comment.

I don't know what to do. everyday is same shit. wake up, do nothing, sleep and repeat. I wanted nothing but a bit happiness in my life how hard it could be?

please I'm seriously in need of help because I'm so confused. I'm confused because I don't want to go and talk about everything with a doctor it feels so hard for me and I have been coping with it since 2-3 years now. I feel brain fog, physically low, mentally poor. since I'm so self reliant, I keep thinking that nothing will help me and everything is useless. I know this is stupid but that's just it. it's like it is happening deliberately and I can't stop it. does anyone feels the same? I hope someone will understand me because this is strange. nobody will keep living without working on it. I have done basic checkups and it was fine. slightly deficit to vitamin b12 and I did get the injection for it. nothing improved. I don't do work so there's no serious physical activity. I'm thinking about doing a home workout and meditation. if you resonate to this or have any advice for me please do. thank you

I never went to any real psychiatrist in my life because I feel overwhelmed maybe so I want to chat or befriend with a psychiatrist to talk about my problems and how I can fix them

I never went to any real psychiatrist in my life because I feel overwhelmed maybe so I want to chat or befriend with a psychiatrist to talk about my problems and how I can fix them

I wish I had many many contacts in my phone of like minded people, friends and so I could put whatsapp statuses with my favourite songs, the photos I took and could get their reaction on it or just could get as many as views on my status to feel seen maybe?. I wish it was possible I wish I had friends, cool friends who'd maybe show a little appreciation for what I least like or do. maybe life would be different. long time didn't post so hi and thanks for reading this

turned 26 but it's scary :(

symptoms from past 5-6 years and struggles:

difficult to focus while reading

difficult to understand anything theoretical

inflammation on the back side of the brain post over stimulation, at night

anxiousness/anxiety

low mood, low motivation 24/7

fear of getting older and future responsibilities

haven't accomplished anything in life yet/stopped studying after 2018/no college degree or anything

don't like full time jobs because a day/12hr feels so long and exhausting to pass through

don't like to talk or share anything with anyone not even parents/always quiet, mute

distrust/ everything feels unrealiabe/manipulative

have never done any diagnosis or a screening

have never been on antidepressants/ don't like them

can fall asleep normally around 11pm but waking up is hard

morning chess pressure, physical fatigue

I know this is not a hospital but I just wanted to share and get some advice or suggestions on what should I do. I can't remember whenever I'm supposed to so is it a good idea to show this to a doctor?