u/wanderx_astray

Anyone travelling to EFLU from Bhopal or nearby for councelling... dm please...

even if your are passing through Bhopal by train coming from Delhi side or nearby may also connect....

I wanted BA German in JNU but looks like i might not get it, and i think I'll surely get BA chinese in the 3rd list....

but I want to move to some European countries...

also i have applied in EFLU and i might get the admission there..(still not sure will get or not, maybe not )

so what should I do......

I like the exposure of JNU and the campus and city too that i can learn so many things other than my degree course while staying in Delhi...

What should i do........

Heyyy, I'm from Bhopal and I'm passing by train from Balharshah Jn.

I want to some great Vada Pav... if anyone knows the spot, connect with me

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I want to file a legal court complaint against Ola Electric. It's been more than three months, and my scooter (OLA S1PRO 5.2kWh) has not been delivered. I'm really disappointed.

Their costumer care number doesn't works and they are not replying to mail..

They have even disabled my account and I'm not even able to login into their application, i have tried logging in through different mobile phones and pc, but nothing is working... So, unable to cancel it

I want a refund as well as compensation for this, and I no longer want the scooter delivered. So, if anyone has filed a complaint before, please connect with me..

also RTO and vehicle registration is completed on 11th of may but it's 12august and still no response from them. I've paid the full payment of 1.85k+ at once.

and fellow lawyers please guide and help me what should i do

Has anyone filed a legal complaint against Ola Electric?

I want to file a legal court complaint against Ola Electric. It's been more than three months, and my scooter has not been delivered. I'm really disappointed. I want a refund as well as compensation for this, and I no longer want the scooter delivered. So, if anyone has filed a complaint before, please connect with me..

Lookin for some casual meetup, should be of similar age group..

No complications, no issues of privacy or something...

Looking for some lonely F, no strings attached, location will be of your preference... might never meet again...

just one night stand...

Will be respectful and follow your boundaries..

just dm if interested, no need to comment or somethin....

Heyyy, Its mu first time in Kerela and also in southern part of India.... I'm coming to Kochi this evening... I'm from Bhopal, Madhya Pradesh and looking forword to meet with the locals...

I love silent places with not too much rush, and loves to explore the hidden gems and explore the not too much explored places.

Looking for some Kochi localite who can help me in my exploring journey... of understanding how the locals work and eat... I to know about the people, how they think and their perspectives on things...

I'm 21M(student) currently exploring southern India, and looking for a host to host me for a night in Kochi..

Its okay if you can't, and suggestions will be most welcomed...

Thanks 😊

Hii, i want to share my Spotify platinum subscription with 2other people...

Dm if interested...

Hey, i want to learn swimming. Ik basic swimming and can go ~25mtrs in one go in open water..

p.s :- I want to go for Ironman...

I'm M21 and i run sometimes a week, i run ~5kms a day, and have completed 2 half marathons.

i know basic swimming which i have learnt in open water, and can go ~25mtrs in one go..

and never tried cycling dedicatedly...

I'm 5ft 5inch and weighs 63 kgs

please guide me through.......

Using a throwaway because some mutual people follow my main.

A little background first. I'm 21, she turns 21 in about two weeks. We were classmates in school - 9th and 10th grade - but we were just faces in the same class, barely even talked. Then around June last year I made a WhatsApp group for school classmates and we just... started talking. Neither of us planned

it.

It built up really slowly. First it was messages written in just view-once photos and occasional texts. Then normal chatting. Then memes and then after ~months voice notes. Then after ~2 months on phone calls. And then finallly since last week of January we started video calls. And for the last four or so months it's basically turned into, we're on VC most of the day while doing our own stuff, and we sleep on call almost every night. We've talked every single day for close to a year without skipping even single 24hours window once.

We're both in that in-between phase right now - gap year, preparing for exams, figuring out life. So there's a lot of time, but also it's not like we're bored and this is a way to kill time. We talk about everything. Random funny stuff, serious life things, stupid daily updates, future worries, whatever. It's not one-dimensional(that mostly I do, she rarely asks about me).

I know her routines, what she eats, when she sleeps, what stresses her out, everything. We can sit in silence on call for hours and it's not weird at all. We've cried to each other. We've fought like siblings. We care about each other in a way that's hard to describe without sounding dramatic, but it's real.

The one thing that hasn't happened: we haven't actually met in person since reconnecting. We almost did once - there was a setup involving a short train ride - but both of us were mutually awkward about it and it didn't happen. I think we're both a little scared of that step for whatever reason.

So a few weeks ago I asked her something like - should we try to take this forward, like consciously explore whether there's something more here? wasn't asking her to be my girlfriend on the spot. I genuinely meant: we have something unusually close, let's see if it could also be romantic.

I'll be honest - I'm not even 100% sure my own feelings are fully romantic or if it's just deep attachment with the potential for more. I wanted to explore rather than sit with the confusion.

When I asked, she went quiet for a while. Not in a bad way, just like she was actually thinking and she said- "No, kyu hi karna hai, aise bhi to theek hai". Then after a few conversations about it she said - and I'm roughly translating from Hindi here - something like "feelings bhi to waisi wali honi chahiye." Basically: the feelings also need to be that kind(romantic). She cares about me, she said that clearly, but she said the romantic feeling isn't there for her right now.

But then, she didn't just close it. She asked me to give her time. She said she'll give me a proper answer after June 21 once her exams are done. She also said things like "what if I give you false hope," "what if I end up hurting you," "what if trying ruins what we already have." She didn't seem cold. She seemed genuinely scared or conflicted about something (or maybe my delusion).

The other thing, her female best friend since childhood apparently told her, months before I said any of this, that if I ever proposed she should accept. She's told me this now after months passed. And she also told me that now she had again asked her the same question what she should do, her friend told her to accept but she replied her that idk what to do, waisi feeling bhi to ho", I don't know what to do with that information either.

Also worth mentioning: when she first gave reasons for saying no, one of them was family - typical Indian context, caste stuff, the usual complications. But when I actually talked through it, those reasons kind of dissolved on their own. They didn't feel like the real reason anymore.

Using a throwaway because some mutual people follow my main.

A little background first. I'm 21, she turns 21 in about two weeks. We were classmates in school - 9th and 10th grade - but we were just faces in the same class, barely even talked. Then around June last year I made a WhatsApp group for school classmates and we just... started talking. Neither of us planned

it.

It built up really slowly. First it was messages written in just view-once photos and occasional texts. Then normal chatting. Then memes and then after ~months voice notes. Then after ~2 months on phone calls. And then finallly since last week of January we started video calls. And for the last four or so months it's basically turned into, we're on VC most of the day while doing our own stuff, and we sleep on call almost every night. We've talked every single day for close to a year without skipping even single 24hours window once.

We're both in that in-between phase right now - gap year, preparing for exams, figuring out life. So there's a lot of time, but also it's not like we're bored and this is a way to kill time. We talk about everything. Random funny stuff, serious life things, stupid daily updates, future worries, whatever. It's not one-dimensional(that mostly I do, she rarely asks about me).

I know her routines, what she eats, when she sleeps, what stresses her out, everything. We can sit in silence on call for hours and it's not weird at all. We've cried to each other. We've fought like siblings. We care about each other in a way that's hard to describe without sounding dramatic, but it's real.

The one thing that hasn't happened: we haven't actually met in person since reconnecting. We almost did once - there was a setup involving a short train ride - but both of us were mutually awkward about it and it didn't happen. I think we're both a little scared of that step for whatever reason.

So a few weeks ago I asked her something like - should we try to take this forward, like consciously explore whether there's something more here? wasn't asking her to be my girlfriend on the spot. I genuinely meant: we have something unusually close, let's see if it could also be romantic.

I'll be honest - I'm not even 100% sure my own feelings are fully romantic or if it's just deep attachment with the potential for more. I wanted to explore rather than sit with the confusion.

When I asked, she went quiet for a while. Not in a bad way, just like she was actually thinking and she said- "No, kyu hi karna hai, aise bhi to theek hai". Then after a few conversations about it she said - and I'm roughly translating from Hindi here - something like "feelings bhi to waisi wali honi chahiye." Basically: the feelings also need to be that kind(romantic). She cares about me, she said that clearly, but she said the romantic feeling isn't there for her right now.

But then, she didn't just close it. She asked me to give her time. She said she'll give me a proper answer after June 21 once her exams are done. She also said things like "what if I give you false hope," "what if I end up hurting you," "what if trying ruins what we already have." She didn't seem cold. She seemed genuinely scared or conflicted about something (or maybe my delusion).

The other thing, her female best friend since childhood apparently told her, months before I said any of this, that if I ever proposed she should accept. She's told me this now after months passed. And she also told me that now she had again asked her the same question what she should do, her friend told her to accept but she replied her that idk what to do, waisi feeling bhi to ho", I don't know what to do with that information either.

Also worth mentioning: when she first gave reasons for saying no, one of them was family - typical Indian context, caste stuff, the usual complications. But when I actually talked through it, those reasons kind of dissolved on their own. They didn't feel like the real reason anymore.

Is there any place that will screen the UCL final???

or anyone who would like to host can also dm...

Heyy, need a 1 rk for myself.

21M.

I don't drink or smoke or take any kind intoxication..

difficult to find place for male in this arera coz of bad image of male bachelors among landlords hence they only rents girls and families..

I'm an introvert and polite and ready to accept the conditions or the restrictions, really looking for a good place with peaceful environment...

Anyone please help.........

currently living in E-3 Arera Colony, looking to switch...

Please share your experience..