u/yeppeunikkaa

asking because my boyfriend of 5 months asked me why i loved him. i said i loved him because it’s him & that i love the way he treats me, + all his positive traits that i love about him.

then i asked him back the same question.

he said he loves my pretty eyes.

it’s not a wrong answer but i was expecting a non-physical answer 🤣

just curious on why do you love your partner..!

hi! i’d like to know some details for the entire hiring process!

does it go like this?

AD ➡️ GC + DOJ (announced at the same time) ➡️ Confirmation (contract??) ➡️ Tickets to Relocate?

thank you!

singaporean here and i’m weighing out the pros and cons. okay to relocate. but i’m not sure which should i choose…

hi, i applied online for emirates on the first week of june this year because on the website it states that “Don’t see your city? Apply online and we’ll inform you when we’re visiting nearby.”

my current application is still “under review”, which is expected since they won’t contact me unless they’re coming to/near my country. but now, i’m trying to apply for an invite-only but i can’t, since i have a current online application. what can i do now?

hi, i applied online for emirates on the first week of june this year because on the website it states that “Don’t see your city? Apply online and we’ll inform you when we’re visiting nearby.”

my current application is still “under review”, which is expected since they won’t contact me unless they’re coming to/near my country. but now, i’m trying to apply for an invite-only but i can’t, since i have a current online application. what can i do now?

im afraid of saying things that might get me rejected, what are some answers that can be used? thank you!

I (23F) came from an abusive (yes, emotionally, verbally, physically) family and i’ve learnt to be independent and not rely on anyone. my dad made jokes even when i said that i wanted to k/m*s when i was 15. i’ve been making my own money since 15, but after graduating from high school, i obviously did not have the funds to go to university, so i had to start working full time.

i feel so sad everytime i think of my situation. comparing my situation to everyone else. people who even get the chance to study abroad without worrying about anything else. i also want to finish my studies like everyone else, but i was just unlucky. i know that i can go after i saved enough but being so burnt out from work, i dont even want to study or live anymore…

not just that, because of my family situation, i had to move out for the sake of my mental health. the cost of rental is also eating a huge part of my salary. i am unable to save as much as i want to even if i cut down on food. also, i kind of cut ties with my family since they don’t really care or check up on me either. i don’t have a strong family support or someone i can really vent to so… i’m really sad…

i also met a really nice guy and we’ve been dating for around 6 months. i’m someone who likes to share my thoughts and sadness rather than keeping it to myself until i burst out in tears. i’m afraid that i’m letting out too much from my personal issue to him and also being too clingy. i understand that he has his own time with his family as well but i get sad when he doesnt text me as often as before.

i don’t usually go on this subreddit but i feel like life is just so unfair and not easy. felt a sudden surge of sadness because my parents doesn’t know how to be parents. life still goes on anyway.

i’m my boyfriend’s first and he is my second. i didn’t really do much during my sex with my first cause my ex was the one that was doing everything.

but when i met my current bf, he wanted me to initiate more like riding, doing more things like deep throat, cumming in my mouth, which i didn’t mind and i genuinely enjoy sex more with my current bf. (also tmi but my sex drive is super high so i can accomodate well and i feel like my bf is the same but he said my drive is higher than his 🤣)

but i somehow feel that my bf might be comparing too much of our sex to porn. (also to add on i have nothing against him watching porn cause i watch it too and we’re LDR now)
he compares
1. his dick length 2. squirting 3. my ass

he kept comparing and said his dick is smaller. his size is perfect and i feel good when he hits the right spots. also i don’t know how to squirt and have never squirt before. someone shared tips to drink lots of tea/water before doing the deed; does anyone have any tips? and he said he cant make me squirt as easily cause his dick is not that big….. (?????) so he is sad. thirdly he kept saying my ass doesn’t have enough fats so when he does doggy it hurts. both of us are quite skinny so i get why he said that.

so he indirectly asks me to be healthy and grow my glutes by going to the gym and eating healthily etc and i did do all those but to some point i felt like he is trying to satisfy his needs more than mine.

for instance, i always asks him to finger me while giving him blowjob cuz i wanna feel good too,, but he said putting it in without fingering feels tighter. another instance is he keeps wanting to cum in my mouth every single time (but thrice a day for 5 days straight is a bit too much isn’t it….). personally my gag reflex is bad so i keep gagging at the texture and thought of it so…… and he understands and didn’t force but i just feels bad ㅠㅠ

am i thinking too much or is it valid for me to feel this way?

I’m (25F) currently on LDR with my bf (22M), got together when I was an exchange student but recently left korea and came back to my country.

Initially, everything was good even when we talked about LDR in the future (though, it was very vague). Today, he asked me in dept about when will we be able to settle down together and our future plans.

For some context, i’m an aspiring 승무원 and my initial plan was to pass training and start flying, and the airline that i’m applying for goes to Seoul multiple times a week. (edit: i do know my flights are assigned and not guaranteed) I did tell him that and he was okay with it. But only today I told him that it might take me another 8 years to save before I can quit my job and settle down in Korea. (I’m okay to relocate anywhere just to add on!)

He said “I might not be able to endure for 8 years” because 1. He doesn’t want to waste his 20s without being able to meet his partner as often 2. That is toooooo long. But I mean — If I have to settle down in another country (staying with him or not) I have to save alot of money because I don’t even know what job I can continue to work in Korea after quitting my 승무원 job.

Also, he is still in university and plans to take his masters. He also mentioned something about 전세 rental apartment which i’m not really clear about. Even to pay the 전세 보증금(?) I still have to have a huge sum saved..

I don’t want to break up with him (and he doesn’t want to either), and we’ve to find solutions for this ㅠㅠ Does anyone have and ideas/recommendations/advice or just anything to contribute to our whole issue? Anything will be appreciated ☹️ Thank you!

Edit: Thank you all for your inputs! I read through all of them and had a proper talk with my boyfriend after sorting out my thoughts and we agreed on 5 years. It is long but we’re both planning to fly to each other regardless and meet at least once a month if possible.

For me; my priority is saving money for our future. I don’t know if i’m able to find a job that pays well in korea so I’d prefer to save up and then relocate to korea. 5 years should be sufficient.

For him; he needs 5 more years to finish his studies (3 years university + 2 years masters), so we settled on 5 years :)

does anyone know anything about sq cc hiring process atm? i applied in june with no news and there are others in the same shoe as i am 🥹 are they slowing down the hiring process/candidates because they have sufficient crews now?

Help! My submitted video seems to be laggy and doesn’t have an audio.

I used my iPad because Laptop camera doesn’t work.
Everything went well but website was extremely laggy (it doesn’t lag in my other apps).

Before starting the test, I practiced infront of my iPad camera, recorded it, and replayed and doesn’t have ANY issues. Even with the pre-test camera, mic, and speaker test, there were NO issues.

I finished all 3 assessments anyway, but what can I do now regarding the submitted video with no audio? 🥲

안녕하세요. 저는 한국어를 공부하고 있는 외국인이에요. 저는 한국에서 1년 정도 살다가 이미 귀국했어요. 1년 동안 D4 비자로 어학당에 다녔는데 연습을 꾸준히 안 해서 거의 다 잊어버렸어요..

그런데 귀국하기 전에 목표 좀 정했어요. 저는 토픽 5급을 따려고 토픽 연습 책도 구입했고 말하기도 더 연습하고 싶었는데 귀국한 후부터 지금까지 하나도 안 했어요….. 2개월 지났는데요….

그리고 어학당 4급을 들었을 때 듣기 녹음(?)을 들을 때 진짜 힘들었어요… 아무리 들어도 이해 못 했어요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 한국어 실력이 늘리려고 언어교환도 해 봤는데…. 별로 늘지 않는 것 같애욬ㅋㅋㅋ (언어교환 친구는 저 남친이 됐는데 우리 맨날 영어로 얘기해서여)

아무튼 토픽 연습 책들도 구입했으니까 공부 좀 해야 겠다고 생각하는데 의욕이 진짜 없어요…. 단어 외우기도 힘들고 그냥…. 하고 싶지 않아요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 저랑 공감하시는 분이 있나영?? ㅠㅠ

Hi there, could any cc provide a timeline of each stage from application, video interview, f2f invite, to golden call etc? I just applied last night and i’m so nervous!

I’d also like to ask, for the full body shot that they asked for during application, does it have to be a professional full body shot? I only have a picture that I took with my iPhone.

Thank you in advance!

would it be recommended to

1. not insert an image
2. insert a professional image (any hairstyle)
3. professional image with bun up + red lip stick

please help! thank you!!!💕

hi! I need to take a professional photo for my CV and i’m wondering where i could take them? i searched on google and found photonow.sg for $40 for 15 mins but it’s a self photo booth. would appreciate recommendations! thank you :)

edit: need to take a full body shot too

We’ve been together for around 4 months and started LDR recently. Before this, I was in his country studying as an exchange student. To add on, he is currently serving in the military, so we couldn’t meet as often even then. We talk everyday without fail, and play games together too.

He’ll be discharged in November this year and we’re already planning to call and videocall more often! And our current next meetup will supposedly be in Nov/Dec too~ I can’t wait!

Are there any tips to maintain this LDR? It’ll be our first LDR! I also would loooove to hear successful LDR stories because my ultimate plan would be to settle down together with him in his country 8-10 years later 🥰💕

my grandparents are not able to walk for more than 5 minutes, and we have to take a taxi everywhere. today is day 9 of the trip and i’m running out of places to bring them to.

initially, i was thinking of taking a taxi to n seoul tower and get the cable car up and let them see the view. i’ve went there once but i dont recall how many stairs would there be. it might be difficult for them.

then i was thinking gyeongbukgong palace and give them the korean traditional hanfu experience. but i think the walk from the rental shop to the palace, as well as around the palace would be too tiring.

where else would you guys recommend or think it’s suitable for elderlies? thank you!

I’m in my mid 20s and got out of a 5-year relationship early last year. He’s egoistic and would quarrel back with me even when he is in the wrong. Extremely untidy person. Micro-cheater as well so I broke up with him.

I met someone new this year in January. He isn’t Singaporean, and his main language is not English, and there are times where there’s miscommunications due to language but that’s okay. He has the nicest and most genuine personality ever. Extremely shy guy but family oriented and treats me really well. We started dating after talking for 3-4 month-ish and have been dating for more than 2 months now. Went on a few dates too~

Question is, I really like him and he says he feels the same. But since I was in a long term relationship and haven’t been actively dating, I don’t know how to define love anymore. The feeling of love differs. Do I just really like this new guy or do I love him? What is love to you? When do you start feeling love and say “I love you” to your partner?

Last period: 5 APR - 11 APR
Had unprotected sex: 15 APR
Ate Plan B: 15 APR

After 8 days:
Plan B bleeding: 22 APR - 28 APR (lasted 7 days)

Next predicted period: 3 MAY
Today: 9 MAY with light brown bleeding

I know that plan b will mess up with my cycle, causing it to be earlier/delay or comes as usual and there’s no way to know if the current bleeding is my real period or not but… I regret taking the pill for an ease of mind because this is making me feel the opposite 😑

For my girls going through the same, you are not alone 🫶🏻 Manifesting for our periods to come asap