u/Accomplished_Use5268

I been away from everyone for like 8 months? A lot of time, because of a depression. When I came back all was good, they told me they understood and they were still me friends. This was recent. We hanged out like 2 times, and they talked about an event that was going to happen and for we to go together. I accepted to go. Now the event would be​ happening today but no one said anything. I feel things are different are more distant. I texted one of them asking about the event, like 1:30h remaining, and he told me "yes at 16h on my house!" But If I haven't texted him no one would invite me. Also another of them told me that she wasn't talking much with a girl and now I seen a story of them together.

Am I just overreacting? Anyways, I told him "forget it, have fun you guys!" And he still haven't replied, 30 ​min ago. I think my friends doesn't see me as their close friend anymore and they don't want my company anymore because I've been almost an year without talking with no one because of a depression. even this girl was my best friend and now I don't know anymore.

TL;DR my friends talked about this event when we hanged out but no one told me anything today, I texted and he said for me to go there at x hour, but If I haven't texted they wouldn't tell me​ nothing? I said to forget it and for them to have fun, until now no reply (30m ago)

I been away from everyone for like 8 months? A lot of time, because of a depression. When I came back all was good, they told me they understood and they were still me friends. This was recent. We hanged out like 2 times, and they talked about an event that was going to happen and for we to go together. I accepted to go. Now the event would be​ happening today but no one said anything. I feel things are different are more distant. I texted one of them asking about the event, like 1:30h remaining, and he told me "yes at 16h on my house!" But If I haven't texted him no one would invite me. Also another of them told me that she wasn't talking much with a girl and now I seen a story of them together.

Am I just overreacting? Anyways, I told him "forget it, have fun you guys!" And he still haven't replied, 14 min ago. I think my friends doesn't see me as their close friend anymore and they don't want my company anymore because I've been almost an year without talking with no one because of a depression. even this girl was my best friend and now I don't know anymore.

I know most people here disagree, because every time I call someone out for being rude to me, I got down voted, ​and I was even banned once. But that’s still my opinion. I’m worth the same as everyone else, and I have the right to defend myself. Why can others be rude without facing the same consequences? It’s wild.

I posted a depressive post in the "depression" sub and got banned. Laughing to not cry. How can I talk to Reddit admins?

So, am I always wrong on this website? Am I dumb? No one likes me? Everyone rejects me? I got 18 down votes for saying that the lower body temperature makes you more susceptible of getting sick (I checked and proof the veracity and more down votes were earned), and I get another down votes on another post ​because people were saying I said something I didn't. I explained myself and got down voted again, and more. What is wrong with me?​ I'm serious. I'm really sad, I'm too sensitive ​and world doesn't like sensitive people...

This doesn't happen on real life, at least definitely not this way, there's always people that agree with me. English is not my first language either but I think I explain myself good? So what is wrong with me?

I'm just curious about the answers!

Don't give me another -18 down votes without reason again. I just want some motivation help. Pretty please

(currently 2-3 months daily walking 2km per day)

Is our IQ or intelligence fixed, for example? (Simplified explanation version in one line). Mindset, by Carol Dweck

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I have appointments with a big brain homeopath and we both always discuss this things (she ends up not even doing the treatment to me and having to do it by video call lmao).

She was a big scientist engineering who worked on one of the bests universities. Then she had a BIG life experience who made her drop her career and focus on homeopathy and healing people. Her philosophy is that our brain isn't no limitation at all, like 100% this point of view, she dropped her logical scientific views of world and now she only believes on our mind power.

I'm more of an adapt open minded person. Imo, yes we have a big brain power and the society knows too little yet , mainly about the brain, to know what are our real capacity and to define the convencional medicine as an 100% only font of trust. However, I'm also on the side of the biology, since a person with a broken leg logically wouldn't be able to walk. I think that me and all of us should believe more on a strong capacity of mind of dictate us, more than on our scientific logical point of view. Because this can be stopping you from moving forward by putting yourself into this limits. My homeopath usually tells me this, no matter how many times I say to her that I agree to her, but isn't something that easy to do, since I am a person who naturally question things and their why in a way to know concrete stuff instead on just "believing" like, "fake it till you make it" , it's hard, and I think it's human, we all always look to know the explanations, the why, the "palpable". It's like, I know what I should believe, but I'm still a 50/50.

This also shows if you are a fixed mindset person, of a growth mindset person. I'm a fixed mindset yet. And you, what's your position here? PS I'm not gifted and yes I know what is homeopathy

I have appointments with a big brain homeopath and we both always discuss this things (she ends up not even doing the treatment to me and having to do it by video call lmao).

She was a big scientist engineering who worked on one ​of the bests universities. Then she had a BIG life experience who made her drop her career and focus on homeopathy and healing people. Her philosophy is that our brain isn't no limitation at all, like 100% this point of view, she dropped her logical scientific views of world and now she only believes on our mind power. ​

I'm more of an adapt open minded person. Imo, yes we have a big brain power and the society knows too​ little yet , mainly about the brain, ​to know what are our real capacity and to define the convencional medicine as an 100% only font of trust. However, I'm also on the side of the biology, since a person with a broken leg logically wouldn't be able to walk. I think that me and all of us should believe more on a strong capacity of mind of dictate us, more than on our scientific logical ​point of view. ​Because this can be stopping you from moving forward by putting yourself into this limits. My homeopath usually tells me this, no matter how many times I say to her that I agree to her, but isn't​ something that easy to do, since I am a person who naturally question things and their why in a way to know concrete stuff instead on just "believing" like, "fake it till you make it" , it's hard, and I think it's human, we all always look to know the explanations, the why, the "palpable". It's like, I know what I should believe, but I'm still a 50/50.

This also shows if you are a fixed mindset person, of a growth mindset person. I'm a fixed mindset yet. ​And you, what's your position here? PS I'm not gifted

I like rain but I can't get sick. Hoping it stops soon, ​lol

Edit: getting wet and cold lowers your body temperature, which can stress your immune system and make it easier for viruses to infect you. How doesn't everyone knows this?

Also, already made my walking once it stopped raining

Edit2: down vote my comments anyway you want it. I investigated ​before editing this post, so, you guys can believe whatever you want :) being rude with others ​will take you nowhere, pepz. ✌️

I've been playing on my friend's Amazon prime account, but thinking about buying Amazon prime for myself, is it possible to export and insert on another account or do I have to keep using my friend's account and not buy Amazon prime for me?

I have done several accounts on this website. Why? Not because I wanted to, but because I keep getting permanently banned over tiny stuff. This website honestly feels impossible to use sometimes.

I just got permanently banned again from the ADHD sub because I tried to help someone who had a test and forgot their meds. They asked about taking medication from a classmate that they had already been prescribed before and that had worked well for them.

I basically said: their psychiatrist would probably advise against it, but in an urgent situation they could decide to try it, while being aware there could also be bad side effects. And yeah, the mods permanently banned me for that.

Did I tell someone to hurt themselves? Did I insult anyone? No. I was just giving my opinion. If I had previously been prescribed a medication that worked for me, I’d probably consider taking it again in an urgent situation too.

How is that enough reason for a permanent ban with no warning?

I apologized to the mods and explained I was only trying to help, and they permanently muted me.

This kind of thing happens all the time. It feels like I can barely say anything on Reddit because any small mistake or random rule can suddenly get me permanently banned without discussion. And it honestly feels like there’s no real oversight when moderators abuse their power or act unfairly.

Reddit says people shouldn’t make multiple accounts or return to subs they were banned from, but when bans happen over ridiculous things like this, what do they expect people to do? If they don't want it to happen, then take care of the website properly over unfairness! I will keep doing it until I got banned over a good reason. I'm good with technology so it's not a problem to me to be able to use this website over and over and over again. I'm sorry but I'm just so mad right now.

Also, how do some of you keep the same Reddit account for years? Are most people just inactive and afraid to participate?

I always come here asking for help, so now I want to share something helpful too. This may be the first thing I’ve truly managed to get past one thing on ​my ADHD. I still struggle to start tasks and I still can’t study​, but this is my first win after so many years. I basically fell into another depression, and only after finding a good therapist did I start to turn things around. With therapy and my own research, I managed to do this

I am the kind of person who wants everything perfect, like buying sports clothes before even starting exercise, or deciding I had to work out every single morning at 6 a.m. I’m pretty sure ADHD plays a role in that too. But my therapist made me see that even the smallest things still make an impact. Then I looked into it and found that just 5 minutes of walking can already start producing well-being neurotransmitters in the brain.

So I began by just walking to the end of my street and back. That was it. It started helping my depression, and I realized walking was not only giving my brain the reward it likes so much, but also calming me by lowering cort. Now exercise is literally what calms me most. Everyone is different, but maybe many people here would feel the same, because walking can increase dop ​and nor (even ​more than ser), and since we (ADHD) ​are ALWAYS looking for dop, it makes sense logically that exercise helps with calming down or even starting tasks.

Anyways, my motivation to walk now came from not wanting to go through depression again for the fifth time. I’m only 25, come on. It also came from realizing I could do something every day without needing it to be perfect. The motivation came after just walking down the street, you know? With time, it became 5 minutes. Not because I HAD to, but because I WANTED to. Then 10. Then 15. Now I walk 20 minutes every day. No pressure, slowly.

I hope this helps someone else too, because I know most of my struggles are also your struggles.

I'm searching for a book to help me starting studying and starting to get my tasks done. I need to overcome tasks paralysis if I wanna get my degree. I guess you all the best people to understand me about this at this moment right? There's any book that changed your life on this? Any help is welcomed

For those who don't know, RSD is connected to ADHD, is ​a core symptom, but not listed on DSM-5​. Our PC is more immature about regulating our emotions, since our amygdala in our brain speaks loudly, which also results into being highly sensitive

(you can check this information on PMC)

For those who knows and managed to deal with it, how can you understand if you are overreacting or if you are right? How have you managed to stop being bothered over tiny things? I always have fights with my family because I'm highly sensitive over certain comments or actions. They don't understand and they call me childish sometimes, other times they just explain and apologize. But I wonder all the time if I'm right or they are. Only way to know is starting to control it.​​​how can I manage it?