u/Agreeable-Rub2319

Hey am a new youtuber have been streaming and posting shorts of my stream since few days.

I know multiple niche channels won't work but if the niche is closed to each other like gaming reactions / let's play / entertainment / movie reviews / anime reviews etc ...

Will it work ? Is it suggested to have this on one channel !

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I'm a guy in my late 20s and I'm struggling to understand what happened.

I was in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. For the first few years, it was honestly amazing. We talked every day, had video calls all the time, planned our future together, exchanged gifts, traveled to meet each other, and I genuinely believed she was the person I was going to spend my life with.

I lost my parents earlier in life, so over time she became more than just my girlfriend. She became my best friend, emotional support system, and the person I shared everything with.

The confusing part is that the relationship didn't end after some huge betrayal or toxic fight. What happened was that over the last year, things slowly changed.

She became more focused on work and career. Calls became shorter. Messages became slower. She stopped initiating conversations as much. She stopped expressing affection the way she used to. We stopped having the same emotional connection and intimacy we once had.

I noticed the distance and instead of pulling away, I tried harder. I reassured her more. I gave her more space when she asked for it. I visited her in person. We talked, spent time together, and even became physically intimate again. I genuinely thought we were working through things.

Then a month later she ended the relationship through messages and blocked me everywhere ( Few weeks before breakup her mom caught us on video call and snatched her phone away for couple of days)

What hurts the most isn't just losing her. It's that after 4 years together, there was no real final conversation. No call. No sitting down and talking things through. Just messages and then silence.

It's been around 2 months now. I've maintained no contact. I'm going to the gym, working, spending time with friends and family, trying to rebuild my life. But some days it still feels like I lost my emotional home.

The thing I keep struggling with is this:

Can someone genuinely love you for years, make all those promises, build a future with you, and then simply discard you like you never even mattered?

And if that's what happened, how do you stop questioning everything?

I'm not looking for validation or for people to tell me she's a bad person. I genuinely want honest perspectives from people who have gone through something similar.

Coz I seriously wished to get old with this girl and no one else. Now I do really feel like an orphan even after being surrounded by my friends and cousins daily

Not putting anyone down it's kind of sad to see how many men/women have been trying to make a genuine connection again and again but not getting one.

I've been observing this sub reddit for a while it kind of makes me sad sometimes as well as a guy who faced a breakup of 4 year relationship which seemed on the way to marriage

Stay strong guys and girls wishing you all the luck 🤞🏻