u/Batslaw

Anyone going to his concert?

Me and my friend are, we have the standing tickets, would love to form a bigger group and have fun at the concert!

Hey guys!

Me and my friend are going to the Anirudh concert here at Toronto. We have the standing tickets.

Is anyone else going? Would love to form a large group and go have fun at the concert!

I am having adductor ache in deep squats and butterfly stretch. But no pain in copenhagenns or anything straight legged.

I can sprint at 95% effort painfree in session, maybe some soreness post session. Also I am able to do the adductor machine well at a pretty high weight, but in the deepest stretch there is some achyness.

Being consistent at the adductor machine, with wider ranges is helping, but is there anything else I can do?

Thoughts?

Why am i seeing so many relationship related cries, or worrying about being single, rejection, does this girl like me or not type of comments and posts from men?

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Every other day I see a comment in this sub from a guy saying he wishes he had a girlfriend, he has vaitheruchal seeing couples together, has has deep feelings despite being one sided love, he isn't getting matches on apps, girls are ghosting him etc.

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I have only one answer bro. This situation, this scenario where so many of us guys get ghosted, ignored, feel invisible is actually all because....... of our own fault.

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Think about it, how many women do you see in this sub do you see making such comments? Where she is chasing a guy, where she got rejected, where she is in a one sided love etc? How many? Very less incomparison to the male comments.

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It all stems from our own failures. Failure to establish self esteem and self respect. Not having standards and boundaries. Giving into lust. Loniliness. Resorting to harrasement upon rejection.

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Because of these things, men end up giving away all their attention, for free, to women. And guess what, thats where the game is lost.

Men, you are important, you are valuable, you carry significance. Treat yourself as such.

Your one "I love you" carries way more worth than you expect.

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Just imagine, what if, all men came together, and decided that we are no longer gonna be simps, we will not flood every single woman's inboxes with messages, we will have standards and only talk with those women who match it, we wont double text, beg nor leave out our respect no matter what.

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If all men came together to do this. It would truly make the world a lot better for all of us.

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And what do you think is gonna happen then? Courtship is gonna be more equal. You will see more women ask you out, approach you and engage first. You will feel valuable.....

All because you decided to love yourself first.

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So its easy guys, dont simp, have self respect, dont fear lonliness. Establish a brotherhood, enjoy life with bros.

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To the women here, honestly good for you that you get hundreds of matches, ik it can be hard to pick from the bunch, but thats so much more better than not having many options and having to chase always. So good for you, just a request, whatever you want, please make it clear and communicate always rather than ghosting or ignoring cheaply. With great power comes great responsibility.

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Now I know that this dream ain't gonna come true in my lifetime. Us guys dont have unity unfortunately.

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But I hope at least 1 bro listens to this and tries implementing it. I just want to influence 1 guy. Thats enough.

Edit : Thanks for the supportive DMs guys

Hey guys,

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Im 21M, a university student, currently on a co-op rn, living and working in downtown toronto.

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Looking for people who dont smoke, vape, or do any sort of drugs. People who drink only occasionally would be preferable. Cause i personally don't do any of those.

Im not really religious or anything, just a personal choice.... if it matters.

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I like going to the theatres, pop concerts, watching movies, trying out new restaurants and different cuisines, going on walks, exploring downtown, clicking photos and just discussing about life in general.

Not a party person, nor a big spender.

Im also an athlete, so automatically im into fitness, dieting etc, but unfortunately due to my busy schedule and commitments to my sport I don't have the time nor the energy to play other sports.

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I do have a few more interests too. But why list them all on here lol. Lets catchup over a coffee or something and chat.

Im also brown if it matters. And can speak Tamil

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Hey guys!

Anyone who is Tamil and lives in toronto or nearby? Would love to connect!

I recently shifted to downtown toronto and open to meeting new people.

Ive already met a few tamils from reddit and I've had a positive interactions. We sometimes go out too!

But I still miss the big tamil gang vibes lol.

About me, I'm a 21 year old guy who's in my final year of university and is on a co-op term rn.

I'm an international student and from Chennai btw

Feel free to drop some info about yourselves and let's connect!

Hey guys!

Anyone who is Tamil and lives in toronto or nearby? Would love to connect!

I recently shifted to downtown toronto and open to meeting new people.

Ive already met a few tamils from reddit and I've had a positive interactions. We sometimes go out too!

But I still miss the big tamil gang vibes lol.

About me, I'm a 21 year old guy who's in my final year of university and is on a co-op term rn. I'm international and from Chennai btw

Feel free to drop some info about yourselves and let's connect!

I started my store a while back in 2025. My shop's theme was to sell streetwear clothing worldwide. It was a dropshipping approach, I used to mostly just buy the item once myself, inspect quality etc, and if i like it, I add it to my store. So in this way I don't have to spend on inventory.

I paid fiverr professionals to do some seo in 2025, which actually paid off. One product from my store, went viral. Because a japanese idol fan page had used Google reverse image search to find the idol's dress, and my page popped up first.

This led to me getting around 3K in sales and around 1.6K profit. Along with the sales of the viral product, other products too were selling from my website.

This was when my website was brand new

That's when I decided that I should maybe pursue sales in Japan more.

So recently I have started collaborating more with Asian nano/micro influencers to make reels and post them on my Instagram page (Still only have around 300 IG followers, but majority japanese), I have also hired and agency to run meta ads for me. The influencer content helps us run ads also and test creatives.

For my store, I have recently localized language to japanese now, even currency to yen. The japanese domain of store is decently translated now.

I am missing reviews, and I might add them later. Should I?

My main problem now is, I don't get enough traffic into my store. Its only around 15-30 sessions a day. My ad spend is 10CAD a day.

I did get 1 sale from meta ads when I started 2 weeks ago (pre webpage localization). But thats about it.

My monthly expenditure is around 800-900 CAD including everything. I try to run lean as i am a student still. I need just 25 -30 orders a month to break even and slightly make some profit.

How can I hit these numbers? How can I get more sessions first of all? Maybe without spending more on ads.

Japanese Storefront - nochillco.ca/ja-jp

English storefront- nochillco.ca

I started my store a while back in 2025. My shop's theme was to sell streetwear clothing worldwide. It was a dropshipping approach, I used to mostly just buy the item once myself, inspect quality etc, and if i like it, I add it to my store. So in this way I don't have to spend on inventory.

I paid fiverr professionals to do some seo in 2025, which actually paid off. One product from my store, went viral. Because a japanese idol fan page had used Google reverse image search to find the idol's dress, and my page popped up first.

This led to me getting around 3K in sales and around 1.6K profit. Along with the sales of the viral product, other products too were selling from my website.

This was when my website was brand new

That's when I decided that I should maybe pursue sales in Japan more.

So recently I have started collaborating more with Asian nano/micro influencers to make reels and post them on my Instagram page (Still only have around 300 IG followers, but majority japanese), I have also hired and agency to run meta ads for me. The influencer content helps us run ads also and test creatives.

For my store, I have recently localized language to japanese now, even currency to yen. The japanese domain of store is decently translated now.

I am missing reviews, and I might add them later. Should I?

My main problem now is, I don't get enough traffic into my store. Its only around 15-30 sessions a day. My ad spend is 10CAD a day.

I did get 1 sale from meta ads when I started 2 weeks ago (pre webpage localization). But thats about it.

My monthly expenditure is around 800-900 CAD including everything. I try to run lean as i am a student still. I need just 25 -30 orders a month to break even and slightly make some profit.

How can I hit these numbers? How can I get more sessions first of all? Maybe without spending more on ads.