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Anytime I start playing the guitar and sing at the same either one of two things happen I play the strumming pattern or the chords wrong or I sing the lyrics wrongly for those who are able to play guitar and sing at the same time any tips on how you are able to do that thanks

Like myself, being a Gen Z, a lot of people in my generation have this obsession with generations. Like, it annoys the shit out of me. Boomer this, Gen X that, millennial... and it gets even more annoying. There are subreddits of older Gen Z, middle Gen Z, early Gen Z, this, that. Like, shut the fuck up for a moment. I don't give a damn what generation you are from. Can't we just give up the label? Is it really that important what generation I'm from? Is there anyone like me tired of generation labels?

Basically, the title. Money is always the main factor for many people, including myself. I can barely afford to take care of myself. But even if I could afford it, I would still choose not to have kids. Personally, I came from a dysfunctional conservative asian family that didn’t know how to love properly. Conflict was treated like a personal battle: screaming matches, silent treatment, and a lot of trauma. It was always “respect your elders,” “stop crying,” or “I’ll give you something to cry about,” instead of actually resolving problems in a healthy way. Growing up, I always knew I would have to leave my family of origin one day and i went no contact with them.when i turned 18 and never looked back i created a family of my own with friends who cared more than my family of origin ever did. My family of origin is the biggest reminder of why I should never have children. I feel like the responsibility is on me to break the cycle. It ends with me. And being childfree is the second life I never had as a kid I still have to reparent myself I was wondering, besides financial reasons and money, what are the other biggest reasons why you don’t want kids?

Maybe it’s just me, but I have always been a story mode guy and don’t have any interest in GTA 6 Online like i cant imagine working another job grinding and interacting with people after a long day at work. I only want to play the story mode and am interested in the campaign and just messing with the cops, like getting chased in a six star wanted level as Jason and Lucia and just killing NPCs and cops blowing up planes with rpg for fun just like in gta 5 messing up npc and cops with trevor. Anyone here too who does not care about the online version of GTA 6 and will just be playing the story mode?

I always heard from people in general that kidney stones are one of the worst physical pain a human can experience and recently My uncle(43) had a 9mm kidney stone, he who is a physically fit guy and a blue-collar worker with a pretty high tolerance for pain, has been in a couple of accidents: a motorcycle crash, a cycling injury, a slipped disc, and a torn ligament and ACL where he injured his hand. According to him, nothing hurt more than a kidney stone. He described it as another level of pain—an out-of-this-world kind of pain that can’t be described until you experience it yourself and feel how truly horrible and agonizing it is. He truly felt like he was about to die.He was screaming nonstop at the hospital; it was pretty scary. A nurse in her 50s said to me that she also happened to have had kidney stones before, and she has four adult children. She said she would rather choose to have another child herself than have to experience a kidney stone again.For men who have had kidney stones before, how did it feel for you? Is it true for you as well that they are the most painful physical pain you’ve ever had in your life?like on aa scale of one to ten how much is it?

From depression and other mental health issues, I am talking mainly about depression. It cannot be a coincidence that many Singaporeans are depressed because of the environment. Singapore is small, and the weather is so hot every day, and there is an insane competitive rat race in a capitalistic society. Of course, I am not saying everyone’s depression is the same, but it cannot be a coincidence. And that leads me to another point. I am sure many of you who have sought mental health help know what I am talking about. Psychiatrists, psychologists, and therapists, especially the ones at from public route not only does it take months before you get a appointment at government hospitals especially IMH, they will rarely or completely not talk about the obvious root causes of how the job market, cost of living, and money impact our mental health. While our salary has stayed the same, it has for decades, many psychiatrists just prescribe you medications and do not talk about how social and economic factors like money and jobs are tied to mental health. They frame depression as your fault, as your personal problem and just , and not the way the environment around you is making you depressed, if that makes sense. Like, they want you to go back to work and contribute to the rat race thats why they prescribe you antidepressants, if that makes sense. Does anyone also think the Singapore mental health industry is so unhelpful? Like, they do not address the root cause, which is the hypercompetitive nature of Singapore, no work life balance, low paying jobs, and high cost of living. And in my opinion like the way how mental health professionals in singapore dont talk about how money is tied to mental health issues when the whole system our whole country is built on wealth and rat race from the obsession of grades and chasing paper qualifications to get a good job and a high paying salary and obsession with wealth if that makes sense and that is what frustrates me the most Just my two cents. Anyone here also feel this way?

From depression and other mental health issues, I am talking mainly about depression. It cannot be a coincidence that many Singaporeans are depressed because of the environment. Singapore is small, and the weather is so hot every day, and there is an insane competitive rat race in a capitalistic society. Of course, I am not saying everyone’s depression is the same, but it cannot be a coincidence. And that leads me to another point. I am sure many of you who have sought mental health help know what I am talking about. Psychiatrists, psychologists, and therapists, especially the ones at from public route not only does it take months before you get a appointment at government hospitals especially IMH, they will rarely or completely not talk about the obvious root causes of how the job market, cost of living, and money impact our mental health. While our salary has stayed the same, it has for decades, many psychiatrists just prescribe you medications and do not talk about how social and economic factors like money and jobs are tied to mental health. They frame depression as your fault, as your personal problem and just , and not the way the environment around you is making you depressed, if that makes sense. Like, they want you to go back to work and contribute to the rat race thats why they prescribe you antidepressants, if that makes sense. Does anyone also think the Singapore mental health industry is so unhelpful? Like, they do not address the root cause, which is the hypercompetitive nature of Singapore, no work life balance, low paying jobs, and high cost of living. And in my opinion like the way how mental health professionals in singapore dont talk about how money is tied to mental health issues when the whole system our whole country is built on wealth and rat race from the obsession of grades and chasing paper qualifications to get a good job and a high paying salary and obsession with wealth if that makes sense and that is what frustrates me the most Just my two cents. Anyone here also feel this way?

This is a opinion i have with the old people although Im just 28 but this is one of my biggest pet peeves of all time it can ruin my day when an asshole play music out loud in trains and buses and watch videos without headphones its more commonly after the pandemic especially in older people but gen z too seriously this is literally one of the biggest pet peeves of all time fuck them i seriously cant understand why some people cant just put on earbuds or headphones.

Edit Seriously fuck people who play music and watch videos on public spaces without headphones

I always find men who are libra and scorpio they tend to be the most good looking and handsome of the zodiac for me personally I find libra man more handsome like having a sibling a brother who is a libra he looks so good without trying like even in shorts and shirt with crocs and male friends who are libras too they are some of the most good looking guys i ever seen.what about you guys are scorpio or libra males more handsome in your opinion?

Anytime you go to a mental health professional be it a psychiatrist psychologist or a therapist that you're deprsssed? The first thing they do is to put you on medications and frame it as your fault. So you’re depressed because you’re broke and can’t afford a house and healthcare is unaffordable and work more than 40 hours a week? Oh, that’s your problem sounds like you're really depressed some chemical imbalance. Here, I’m prescribing you: take Zoloft, CBT, DBT. Just pretend everything is okay pull up your fucking bootstraps think positive thoughts practice gratitude go to the gym more. I’m sure a lot of you here know what I’m talking about. Mental health professionals rarely talk about how socioeconomic factors, money, and poverty are connected to mental health. Many won’t even let you talk about how it affects your mental health and will shut you up for talking about stressing about bills and rent, and some will even have the audacity to tell you, “Money isn’t everything,” “Money won’t make you happy,” while they drive a Porsche to their offices. I had a few therapists like that, and many of them came from privileged backgrounds themselves. The whole mental health system is just abusive because it doesn’t address that most of our depression and anxiety is not an isolated case(of course there are definitely people with a chemical imbalance type of depression that can be benefitted with medication and therapy), but majority like millions of people's depressions is a normal response to how the world is: late stage capitaliam low-wage jobs, the rich get richer while the poor get poorer, while many of us Americans couldn’t afford a house anytime soon. I guarantee you no mental health professionals will allow you to talk about this. Some will even shut you up and laugh at you for being weak. I have. The best form of therapy, at least for me personally, was when I stopped worrying about bills, was able to pay rent, and had financial stability and a stable income.

Anytime you go to a mental health professional be it a psychiatrist psychologist or a therapist that you're deprsssed? The first thing they do is to put you on medications and frame it as your fault. So you’re depressed because you’re broke and can’t afford a house and healthcare is unaffordable and work more than 40 hours a week? Oh, that’s your problem sounds like you're really depressed some chemical imbalance. Here, I’m prescribing you: take Zoloft, CBT, DBT. Just pretend everything is okay pull up your fucking bootstraps think positive thoughts practice gratitude go to the gym more. I’m sure a lot of you here know what I’m talking about. Mental health professionals rarely talk about how socioeconomic factors, money, and poverty are connected to mental health. Many won’t even let you talk about how it affects your mental health and will shut you up for talking about stressing about bills and rent, and some will even have the audacity to tell you, “Money isn’t everything,” “Money won’t make you happy,” while they drive a Porsche to their offices. I had a few therapists like that, and many of them came from privileged backgrounds themselves. The whole mental health system is just abusive because it doesn’t address that most of our depression and anxiety is not an isolated case(of course there are definitely people with a chemical imbalance type of depression that can be treated with medication and therapy), but majority like millions of people's depressions is a normal response to how the world is: late stage capitaliam low-wage jobs, the rich get richer while the poor get poorer, while many of us Americans couldn’t afford a house anytime soon. I guarantee you no mental health professionals will allow you to talk about this. Some will even shut you up and laugh at you for being weak. I have. The best form of therapy, at least for me personally, was when I stopped worrying about bills, was able to pay rent, and had financial stability and a stable income.and a stable income.

Anytime you are depressed , the first thing mental health professionals do is to put you on medications and frame it as your fault. So you’re depressed because you’re broke and can’t afford a house and work more than 40 hours a week? Oh, that’s your problem. Here, I’m prescribing you: take Zoloft, CBT, DBT. Just pretend everything is okay pull up your fucking bootstraps think positive thoughts. I’m sure a lot of you here know what I’m talking about. Mental health professionals rarely talk about how socioeconomic factors, money, and poverty are connected to mental health. Many won’t even let you talk about how it affects your mental health and will shut you up for talking about stressing about bills and rent, and some will even have the audacity to tell you, “Money isn’t everything,” “Money won’t make you happy,” while they drive a Porsche to their offices. I had a few therapists like that, and many of them came from privileged backgrounds themselves. The whole mental health system is just abusive because it doesn’t address that most of our depression and anxiety is not an isolated case, but rather a response to how the world is: low-wage jobs, the rich get richer while the poor get poorer, while many of us Americans couldn’t afford a house anytime soon. I guarantee you no mental health professionals will allow you to talk about this. Some will even shut you up and laugh at you for being weak. I have. The best form of therapy, at least for me personally, was when I stopped worrying about bills, was able to pay rent, and had financial stability and a stable income.

Anytime you go to a mental health professional be it a psychiatrist psychologist or a therapist that you're deprsssed? The first thing they do is to put you on medications and frame it as your fault. So you’re depressed because you’re broke and can’t afford a house and work more than 40 hours a week? Oh, that’s your problem. Here, I’m prescribing you: take Zoloft, CBT, DBT. Just pretend everything is okay pull up your fucking bootstraps think positive thoughts practice gratitude go to the gym more. I’m sure a lot of you here know what I’m talking about. Mental health professionals rarely talk about how socioeconomic factors, money, and poverty are connected to mental health. Many won’t even let you talk about how it affects your mental health and will shut you up for talking about stressing about bills and rent, and some will even have the audacity to tell you, “Money isn’t everything,” “Money won’t make you happy,” while they drive a Porsche to their offices. I had a few therapists like that, and many of them came from privileged backgrounds themselves. The whole mental health system is just abusive because it doesn’t address that most of our depression and anxiety is not an isolated case, but rather a response to how the world is: late stage capitaliam low-wage jobs, the rich get richer while the poor get poorer, while many of us Americans couldn’t afford a house anytime soon. I guarantee you no mental health professionals will allow you to talk about this. Some will even shut you up and laugh at you for being weak. I have. The best form of therapy, at least for me personally, was when I stopped worrying about bills, was able to pay rent, and had financial stability and a stable income.