u/Charyetto
Não sei o que fazer em relação à uma pessoa que tem interesse em mim, mas tem expectativa de vida de só mais 10 anos
Quero começar dizendo que sei que é um tópico sensível, mas eu realmente não sei o que fazer. A gente se conheceu no tinder tem umas duas semanas, e ele me contou que possui fibrose cistica, com expectativa de vida de mais uns 15 ou 10 anos.
Eu acho que a gente pode dar certo, ele parece um cara legal e é bem fofinho, arrumado. Mas esse negócio de sempre ir pro hospital, passar mal, pouca expectativa de vida... sei lá. Ao mesmo tempo que eu queria dar uma chance, eu tenho receios. Namorar alguém que pode morrer do nada é assustador e acho que não é nada legal. Mas também me parece "capacitista" eu não dar uma chance por isso, apesar de ser outro tipo de situação eu acho aqui.
Queria algum conselho de como agir sobre isso. Ele parece estar com muito interesse em mim e quer sair pra ir pro shopping dar uma volta. Mas tenho receio de me envolver. Não sei o que fazer.
Next partner spread (spread on 2°pic)
This reading feels like I’m finally opening myself to love again, even while still learning how to balance my emotions and stop overthinking connections. It says my next relationship comes through honesty and emotional openness, with someone mature, grounded and emotionally secure entering my life in a very romantic and unexpected way. The connection feels intense and transformative, but ultimately healing, helping me move forward and leave painful emotional cycles behind (my ex i guess?)
I have a really hard time trying to read pages, knights, kings and aces for some reason. I'm also kinda seeing the 7W as some kind of "teasing" relationship dynamic, which i totally love. Being able to tease your partner by calling them bad words or just being playful in general. But not sure if that would fit the 7W.
Next partner spread (spread in 2°pic)
This reading feels like I’m finally opening myself to love again, even while still learning how to balance my emotions and stop overthinking connections. It says my next relationship comes through honesty and emotional openness, with someone mature, grounded and emotionally secure entering my life in a very romantic and unexpected way. The connection feels intense and transformative, but ultimately healing, helping me move forward and leave painful emotional cycles behind (my ex i guess?)
I have a really hard time trying to read pages, knights, kings and aces for some reason. I'm also kinda seeing the 7W as some kind of "teasing" relationship dynamic, which i totally love. Being able to tease your partner by calling them bad words or just being playful in general. But not sure if that would fit the 7W.
Should i go to this party tonight? Could really use some help quickly!
If I go to the party, I may face uncomfortable emotions at first, but it could lead to an important turning point, closure, or a meaningful experience afterward.
If I don’t go, I’ll probably keep overthinking it and suppressing my feelings, leaving things unresolved instead of truly at peace i guess?
How will this week be for me?
Imo, my week looks emotionally transitional. There may be fun social moments and reconnecting with people, but also some low motivation or emotional hesitation. I'll be trying to balance your feelings and daily life carefully.
In love, there's something i haven't moved on yet, which is my ex, but i think it's moving toward clarity, honesty, and emotional fulfillment. I guess some healing, understanding, and the possibility of feeling emotionally at peace again.
The advice for my week is to stay patient and balanced, so i won’t rush emotions or overthink everything.
Ja percebi isso:
Começo a conhecer alguém -> a gente bate em questão de gostos, tudo parece ir bem -> a gente ri bastante -> vai se conhecendo -> do nada a pessoa demora mais pra responder -> vira ghosting
Porra ta um saco isso, parece q todo mundo acaba dando ghosting uma hora, ja foi 3 em seguida. É muito azar? Eles não prestam? Eu não presto? Que caralhos, o mundo lgbt ta uma merda