I[32F] found out I’m pregnant with boyfriend[30M] and I’m terrified this is a huge mistake

Me\[32\] him \[30\]Sorry if this sounds immature because it probably is and I’m coming out of fear. I just found out I’m pregnant because I missed my period despite being on contraceptive. I haven’t told my boyfriend yet. I’m absolutely terrified and in shock. We’ve talked about having a kid but in 2-4 years thing. We’ve only been in a relationship for a year and live together and we love each other and are spending we each day so happily together.

I feel like we’re in such a happy and loving time with each other, I really don’t want this pregnancy to ruin everything. And the next time we enjoy this type of freedom and bliss would be in 15 years when we’re old and burnt out. And I look at my dad’s pictures and it’s so depressing when I see his happy picture when he was handsome while I was a baby and deep frowns building up in his face throughout the years. It’s so depressing thinking of bearing a child, though I’ve been wanting one but only after I feel like “weve done it all and now we’re a bit bored”.

I’m just sad thinking of seeing my boyfriend buried in frowns and white hair and me too. And reminiscing and regretting having a kid so soon and not have enjoyed our golden years and honeymoon a bit more. And in the other hand, I’m scared of aborting too , because I do feel like I’m killing a life inside me. I’m so torn.

**Tl;dr I’m extremely scared of having a kid and regretting in the future about this kid.**

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 16 hours ago

I just found out I’m pregnant and I’m extremely scared of having this child and ruining our relationship

Me[32] him [30]Sorry if this sounds immature because it probably is and I’m coming out of fear. I just found out I’m pregnant because I missed my period despite being on contraceptive. I haven’t told my boyfriend yet. I’m absolutely terrified and in shock. We’ve talked about having a kid but in 2-4 years thing. We’ve only been in a relationship for a year and live together and we love each other and are spending we each day so happily together.

I feel like we’re in such a happy and loving time with each other, I really don’t want this pregnancy to ruin everything. And the next time we enjoy this type of freedom and bliss would be in 15 years when we’re old and burnt out. And I look at my dad’s pictures and it’s so depressing when I see his happy picture when he was handsome while I was a baby and deep frowns building up in his face throughout the years. It’s so depressing thinking of bearing a child, though I’ve been wanting one but only after I feel like “weve done it all and now we’re a bit bored”.

And also it will be so hard having this kid. We’re tied to a pretty small one bedroom lease, my parents are in another country. We didn’t save up that much neither.

I’m just sad thinking of seeing my boyfriend buried in frowns and white hair and me too. And reminiscing and regretting having a kid so soon and not have enjoyed our golden years and honeymoon a bit more. And in the other hand, I’m scared of aborting too , because I do feel like I’m killing a life inside me. I’m so torn.

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 24 hours ago

I[32F] found out I’m pregnant with boyfriend[30M] and I’m terrified this is a huge mistake

Me[32] him [30]Sorry if this sounds immature because it probably is and I’m coming out of fear. I just found out I’m pregnant because I missed my period despite being on contraceptive. I haven’t told my boyfriend yet. I’m absolutely terrified and in shock. We’ve talked about having a kid but in 2-4 years thing. We’ve only been in a relationship for a year and live together and we love each other and are spending we each day so happily together.

I feel like we’re in such a happy and loving time with each other, I really don’t want this pregnancy to ruin everything. And the next time we enjoy this type of freedom and bliss would be in 15 years when we’re old and burnt out. And I look at my dad’s pictures and it’s so depressing when I see his happy picture when he was handsome while I was a baby and deep frowns building up in his face throughout the years. It’s so depressing thinking of bearing a child, though I’ve been wanting one but only after I feel like “weve done it all and now we’re a bit bored”.

I’m just sad thinking of seeing my boyfriend buried in frowns and white hair and me too. And reminiscing and regretting having a kid so soon and not have enjoyed our golden years and honeymoon a bit more. And in the other hand, I’m scared of aborting too , because I do feel like I’m killing a life inside me. I’m so torn.

Tl;dr I’m extremely scared of having a kid and regretting in the future about this kid.

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 24 hours ago

Best supplements for when drinking alcohol and smoking occasionally ?

I know vape and alcohol bad, and I limit to like once every 2 weeks or weekend and only when I have big parties or very social events. what would be the best ways to counter the bad lingering effects of it ?

Currently doing:

- food and water before sleeping after drinking
- Japanese helalyze liver pills
- emergenC vitamin C electrolytes
- NAC
- Vitamin B complex

What else ?

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 24 days ago

Where can I read the complete version of Smile or can someone just spoil it to me

I’m stuck, can only find the Vietnamese version can’t finish it

Or please spoil it to me in DM or here

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 1 month ago

Why did the acting took a hit season 3?

I find the cast very compelling in the first two seasons, obviously exaggerated and all but I feel Bishop, Angel and Rosalia’s acting so weird and off. Especially Bishop who I think is trying to copy Laurie’s monotone acting but it really just looks like they just took a random persons cousin and told him to just look monotone. There’s seriously 0 tension in his acting it’s taking me out.

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 2 months ago

How to enjoy the festival sober and where to find side quests?

I’m in era in my life where I don’t want to chase highs, and chaos but actually enjoy it but I don’t get how you can actually dance for hours while sober ??

Also how do you find or do side quests?

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 2 months ago

I think I cracked the code on how RPDR judges makeover challenges

I've noticed, for season 16 - 17 - 18 and even allstars, they judge most on the confidence and how much CUNT the partner is giving. So it doesn't even matter how good they look or how similar they look, the most confident, and outgoing "drag queen" personality who are playing it extra on the runway usually gets the win as long as they aren't completely botched. I noticed how Jane's partner was getting it DOWN, season 18, Myki's partner was just so confident and strutting (because he had past experience as drag queen), the most charming ones win, while the shier or safer ones dont really steal the show.

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 2 months ago

Dumb question maybe: how do you guys survive on porta potties only for 5 days

Like how would you even sit down to be able to poop ? This seems daunting

And what time crew cleans porta potties ? How can you find that out

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 3 months ago

Cash or Trade is not reliable. Seller tried to scam me.

I found a really good deal but seller acted as if they needed cash in hand first and kept delaying mailing the tickets and finally today after 3 days of dragging along, they marked the tickets as “delivered”, I got charged in my credit card but still haven’t mailed the tickets and said they don’t trust mailing tickets before getting money in hand. Not sure how to get out of this situationc

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 3 months ago

Stock loss tax harvesting

This is a dumb question probably, but I’ve been told that it’s better to sell your losses instead of holding it. For tax loss harvesting (I’m in California)

But is it kind of useless if I’m not selling any wins ? Only selling losses ? It’s also emotionally, I hate to admit that I was wrong and wasted time and money. But that money sitting in the loss stock could be going somewhere better (although I’ll be selling it in 10 years)

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 3 months ago

This is a dumb question probably, but I’ve been told that it’s better to sell your losses instead of holding it. For tax loss harvesting (I’m in California)

But is it kind of useless if I’m not selling any wins ? Only selling losses ? It’s also emotionally, I hate to admit that I was wrong and wasted time and money. But that money sitting in the loss stock could be going somewhere better (although I’ll be selling it in 10 years)

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 3 months ago

I live in Indigo, is it normal that the anemities charge for gas, electricity and water (and sewer, admin, smart home, trash which I guess those are normal) ? And also I have to pay PG&E ?

Just curious

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 4 months ago

Will be camping for 5 days, and I am kind of afrid of using porta potties for all 5 days. Is it worth paying 200$ extra just for bathrooms ? My whole crew is going GA so I won't even be using the other sections.

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u/ComprehensiveAd8804 — 4 months ago