u/Cool-Fun-5028

where do I even begin….long story short I went to the barber today to get a TRIM. my mom reassured me that I was only going to get a trim. when I sat down my barber told me I should cut more hair or else there’s no point in this walk in session, but I adamantly said I wanted only a trim. I loved my long hair and prom is in a week, and I had my long hair in mind to match my dress. my mom also agreed with the barber that I should cut more, and he ended up cutting so much (more than half my hair gone, from my waist to a bit further from my shoulders). I was so pissed and I kept on saying “this is too much” but he wouldn’t listen to me. I ended being in such shock that I couldn’t move and just sat there and took it all. after it was done, I felt horrified and I am currently in SO much pain. the cut looks hideous and made my face look rounder and bigger and my hair became puffier due to being shorter. I am in so, so, so much pain. I cried all day because I felt so hopeless.

does anyone have good recommendations for AFFORDABLE yet REALISTIC and good quality hair extensions on Amazon? my mom doesn’t want to spend much to fix my hair so that means I can’t go to a professional hair extension salon, nor do I want to cut it more to try to salvage it. I genuinely feel so heartbroken, and prom is in a literal week. please do not tell me to iust accept it either, I really really cannot.

any and I mean any advice is appreciated. thank you so much 😭😭🙏

where do I even begin….long story short I went to the barber today to get a TRIM. my mom reassured me that I was only going to get a trim. when I sat down my barber told me I should cut more hair or else there’s no point in this walk in session, but I adamantly said I wanted only a trim. I loved my long hair and prom is in a week, and I had my long hair in mind to match my dress. my mom also agreed with the barber that I should cut more, and he ended up cutting so much (more than half my hair gone, from my waist to a bit further from my shoulders). I was so pissed and I kept on saying “this is too much” but he wouldn’t listen to me. I ended being in such shock that I couldn’t move and just sat there and took it all. after it was done, I felt horrified and I am currently in SO much pain. the cut looks hideous and made my face look rounder and bigger and my hair became puffier due to being shorter. I am in so, so, so much pain. I cried all day because I felt so hopeless.

does anyone have good recommendations for AFFORDABLE yet REALISTIC and good quality hair extensions on Amazon? my mom doesn’t want to spend much to fix my hair so that means I can’t go to a professional hair extension salon, nor do I want to cut it more to try to salvage it. I genuinely feel so heartbroken, and prom is in a literal week. please do not tell me to iust accept it either, I really really cannot.

any and I mean any advice is appreciated. thank you so much 😭😭🙏

where do I even begin….long story short I went to the barber today to get a TRIM. my mom reassured me that I was only going to get a trim. when I sat down my barber told me I should cut more hair or else there’s no point in this walk in session, but I adamantly said I wanted only a trim. I loved my long hair and prom is in a week, and I had my long hair in mind to match my dress. my mom also agreed with the barber that I should cut more, and he ended up cutting so much (more than half my hair gone, from my waist to a bit further from my shoulders). I was so pissed and I kept on saying “this is too much” but he wouldn’t listen to me. I ended being in such shock that I couldn’t move and just sat there and took it all. after it was done, I felt horrified and I am currently in SO much pain. the cut looks hideous and made my face look rounder and bigger and my hair became puffier due to being shorter. I am in so, so, so much pain. I cried all day because I felt so hopeless.

does anyone have good recommendations for AFFORDABLE yet REALISTIC and good quality hair extensions on Amazon? my mom doesn’t want to spend much to fix my hair so that means I can’t go to a professional hair extension salon, nor do I want to cut it more to try to salvage it. I genuinely feel so heartbroken, and prom is in a literal week. please do not tell me to iust accept it either, I really really cannot.

any and I mean any advice is appreciated. thank you so much 😭😭🙏

where do I even begin….long story short I went to the barber today to get a TRIM. my mom reassured me that I was only going to get a trim. when I sat down my barber told me I should cut more hair or else there’s no point in this walk in session, but I adamantly said I wanted only a trim. I loved my long hair and prom is in a week, and I had my long hair in mind to match my dress. my mom also agreed with the barber that I should cut more, and he ended up cutting so much (more than half my hair gone, from my waist to a bit further from my shoulders). I was so pissed and I kept on saying “this is too much” but he wouldn’t listen to me. I ended being in such shock that I couldn’t move and just sat there and took it all. after it was done, I felt horrified and I am currently in SO much pain. the cut looks hideous and made my face look rounder and bigger and my hair became puffier due to being shorter. I am in so, so, so much pain. I cried all day because I felt so hopeless.

does anyone have good recommendations for AFFORDABLE yet REALISTIC and good quality hair extensions on Amazon? my mom doesn’t want to spend much to fix my hair so that means I can’t go to a professional hair extension salon, nor do I want to cut it more to try to salvage it. I genuinely feel so heartbroken, and prom is in a literal week. please do not tell me to iust accept it either, I really really cannot.

any and I mean any advice is appreciated. thank you so much 😭😭🙏

idk why it annoys me lol it just does for some reason. Like, I get that it's just a variation of "bro" or whatever, but the people around me who uses that language are literally the most annoying people ever. It almost gives the same vibe as calling someone "buddy" when first meeting them. Like you would call your closest friends that but you would also call a random redditor that too. It's just very down putting imo.

Or constantly sharing gossip or drama that they know from their friends but they do not namedrop. Is that considered a red flag...? I'm not so sure.

Or constantly sharing gossip or drama that they know from their friends but they do not namedrop. Is that considered a red flag...? I'm not so sure. Imo if you have issues with one of your close friends, shouldn't that be private and you should work it out on your own to the best you can with them first?

I've just realized after two years (two years!!) that literally whenever I was around this one friend I always had a weird unsettling gut feeling around her. I mean, at first I thought it was normal since I didn't expect to feel comfortable to anyone, but it has gotten to a point. It's a very unpleasant and anxious feeling in my stomach. I have noticed weird behaviors around this friend, but nothing that can be logically explained. I also feel I guess, weirdly almost preyed upon (which is so hard to describe and I know it sounds crazy). It's really hard to pinpoint why, because this friend comes off as very "woke" and "emotionally intelligent" but something ticks me off about her. I am not trying to antagonize her or be mean for no reason, as I have pondered over this for so long and have thought it was a me issue. But as her true character is slowly been revealed (being flaky and showcasing almost jealousy and arrogant behavior), I'm not so sure about anything anymore. I don't know who to trust and talk about this either, so I would really appreciate some feedback on what to do or act in this scenario.

Outwardly hating or acting nasty towards those who we are jealous of are often heard of (celebrities and their haters, for example). But I noticed that sometimes jealousy can be in more discrete forms. I personally have noticed this in myself, as well as observing this in people who are close to me. It seems almost as if when people who are doing well, in their careers for example, such as posting on linkedin of their new job and their "friends" not wanting to mention it or even ignoring their posts and acting disinterested, those who are jealous tend to stay quiet rather than outwardly expressing themselves. Can somebody explain this to me?

Outwardly hating or acting nasty towards those who we are jealous of are often heard of (celebrities and their haters, for example). But I noticed that sometimes jealousy can be in more discrete forms. I personally have noticed this in myself, as well as observing this in people who are close to me. It seems almost as if when people who are doing well, in their careers for example, such as posting on linkedin of their new job and their "friends" not wanting to mention it or even ignoring their posts and acting disinterested, those who are jealous tend to stay quiet rather than outwardly expressing themselves. Can somebody explain this to me?

Outwardly hating or acting nasty towards those who we are jealous of are often heard of (celebrities and their haters, for example). But I noticed that sometimes jealousy can be in more discrete forms. I personally have noticed this in myself, as well as observing this in people who are close to me. It seems almost as if when people who are doing well, in their careers for example, such as posting on linkedin of their new job and their "friends" not wanting to mention it or even ignoring their posts and acting disinterested, those who are jealous tend to stay quiet rather than outwardly expressing themselves. Can somebody explain this to me?

I need some advice...personally I find it weird that whenever I post instagram stories, my friend never watches them, yet texts me daily on instagram. I mean, if you text someone when their pfp shows the pink outline highlighting how they posted a story once in a while, why do you purposely ignore that? It's odd, and it's not like I can bring it up with them because it's a weird topic. What do you guys think?

Edit: I know it seems like a small issue, but for some reason it doesn't really sit well with me. Especially since we are considered "close".