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SO my dell inspiron i3 laptop (SORRY I DONT KNOW THE EXACT MODEL) finally died after i had been using it for 8-9 years with no battery replacement (i did get the ram increased once but thats all). it is simply not turning on so i can’t check the model details. How should i go about s*lling off this laptop as a girl

I mostly only used the laptop to watch series/movies apart from that I had no other use so im debating whether i should get a new laptop so please suggest a low-price laptop that would be ideal for this use.

(26F) anyone knows how to get rid of fungal foliculitis? its spreading to my chest area now from my shoulders and back of my neck. however it seems to be more severe on the right side of my body.

sooo yeah after my last LO completely broke me and i blocked him from everywhere ive been wanting to fuck someone badly. as a person with a high sex drive its always been a war within myself between wanting love and wanting sex. so ive finally decided to start using men for sex and so far the emotional element (limerence) is not surfacing because im talking to multiple men at once and not taking any of them seriously. is this a good decision or is it gonna backfire like hell? i don’t even miss my LO anymore either because ive realized i only liked him because of the sexual chemistry we had and knowing myself and my sex appeal i could have that chemistry even with A WALL.

also my LO was the person who got me into therapy so im thinking of quitting therapy as well since it’s just gonna remind me of his shitty ass.

i can’t believe in the 26 years of my life, i still haven’t stepped outside my wretched city. i need to go somewhere peaceful now more badly than ever because of the constant burnout and emotional stress in my life, but i just hate the fact that i can’t.

growing up we could never afford to go on family trips. yes, students travel in groups during university life but i never had a friend group that was enthusiastic about travelling and my parents wouldn’t have allowed. being raised by relatively strict parents, constantly being told that i look too scrawny so i could easily be kidnapped, and just the matter of being a woman in general, i’ve never had the confidence to travel by myself or even with a group. even when i do have the money now to pay for myself and my parent, i still can’t go because of some fucked up responsibilities my parent has at home. only option left is to wait to get married, except for the fact that i’m single ASF🥲 i really need a fucking break

there are no words to describe how genuinely tired i am of myself. i need to stop. i need to feel whole within myself. but there’s always a guy. some fucking guy i put all my hopes and dreams onto. and it’s always someone who doesn’t fucking want me. the chase hurts so fucking bad. so i took therapy. i realized it’s because i never let myself move on from getting dumped at 15 years old and kept moving onto the next guy eversince then. im 26 now. same fucking patterns. the cycle never fucking ended. always been a lonely fucking person. never had any real friends. couldn’t confide in family. without a man to validate my existence (even if its sexually) i feel so fucking invisible.

being aware of it all, i still want him. i know i’d be so happy if he just wanted me back. i need to cut him off but i always end up looking like this pathetic needy loser infront of him. im disgusted by the person he makes me. i know im beautiful, attractive, have a stable income yet still he makes me feel like the most worthless human being. just because he doesn’t pay any attention to me but made the mistake of hanging out with me twice. i never want to see his face again. i just want the obsession to end. but i know it will only end if i find another person to consume. because a month ago i was hung up exactly LIKE THIS ON A DIFFERENT FUCKING GUY and now i don’t care whether he lives or dies. i’m not well. i have no purpose of my own. i gave away so much of myself to people that now all i am is a blackhole. i am nothing. just complete darkness. the silence is killing me. i don’t exist. i want to be alone but being alone is so fucking suffocating.

Edit: im so grateful to everyone reading all your comments made me so emotional like something broke this wall in me holding all the tears. i really spent my whole life thinking i was the only one who experienced this so i just feel very seen which has encouraged me to keep going, thank you❤️

there are no words to describe how genuinely tired i am of myself. i need to stop. i need to feel whole within myself. but there’s always a guy. some fucking guy i put all my hopes and dreams onto. and it’s always someone who doesn’t fucking want me. the chase hurts so fucking bad. so i took therapy. i realized it’s because i never let myself move on from getting dumped at 15 years old and kept moving onto the next guy eversince then. im 26 now. same fucking patterns. the cycle never fucking ended. always been a lonely fucking person. never had any real friends. couldn’t confide in family. without a man to validate my existence (even if its sexually) i feel so fucking invisible.

being aware of it all, i still want him. i know i’d be so happy if he just wanted me back. i need to cut him off but i always end up looking like this pathetic needy loser infront of him. im disgusted by the person he makes me. i know im beautiful, attractive, have a stable income yet still he makes me feel like the most worthless human being. just because he doesn’t pay any attention to me but made the mistake of hanging out with me twice. i never want to see his face again. i just want the obsession to end. but i know it will only end if i find another person to consume. because a month ago i was hung up exactly LIKE THIS ON A DIFFERENT FUCKING GUY and now i don’t care whether he lives or dies. i’m not well. i have no purpose of my own. i gave away so much of myself to people that now all i am is a blackhole. i am nothing. just complete darkness. the silence is killing me. i don’t exist. i want to be alone but being alone is so fucking suffocating.

soo i (26F) have a job where i don’t really have anything to do on a lot of days.. and so do alot of other people in my office. yet they still pointlessly keep switching between tabs and windows, how? i, for the life of me cannot pretend to work. i’ll just constantly be on my phone or take long washroom breaks, which i know looks worse so any tips or advice on how to look busy are welcome.

edit: since yall keep asking, my manager is on leaves otherwise i don’t have this MUCH free time.

since it’s the film’s third anniversary i’d just like to say i didn’t get the hype of the film AND its constant comparison to oppenheimer. Oppenheimer was amazing, but i just didn’t get the point of Barbie? like okay it was based on feminism but it just didn’t feel very deep to me, even as a woman myself. maybe i need to rewatch it, but i remember it just kinda fell flat and even felt boring in some parts. i don’t know why people treat the film as some revolutionary groundbreaking story.

soo basically everytime i curl my hair using my straightener they never last after being blasted by outside wind and humidity (which i cant help because i travel in a van) please suggest some ways to make it last. although straightening lasts and so do heatless curls (but not heatless blowouts). also my hair is really thin and bleached + dyed from mid length. ive used got2b hair mousse it made my hair really greasy and hard. i also use dove serum for frizz but i don’t think it really controls the frizz all that much.

26F i have been VERY skinny for most of my life up until this past year i gained a bit of weight and as soon as i did, it started going to my stomach. right now its not as bad if i maintain a good posture etc but i need to start doing something to make it leaner and not get worse. a friend of mine said its probably bloating so any tips to reduce that would be appreciated as well. thx

this is gonna sound wack or corny but yeah.. at this point i’ve seen so many shows and movies that i subconsciously search for those qualities in a person. the reason i havent found anyone even after almost 26 years of my life is because the kind of person i want doesn’t exist. i want a jaded and mysterious man that only has eyes for me because my darkness speaks to his darkness in a way both of us have never experienced before. i want a man that quite literally cannot resist me the way a vampire tries to fight his bloodlust for his woman. a man who only feels seen around me and i around him. i know people say this all the time that they wanna date this or that character but in reality they all do end up finding up someone more ‘realistic’. that hasn’t been the case for me, i don’t think i can let go of my ideals even if they are heavily influenced by fiction.

sit with the hurt. sit with the pain. let it absorb. feel all of it and make sure you reach every height of pain there is. make sure you reach the depths of hell you have thrown your soul into. that rotten place you’ve created inside yourself? go there instead of adding to it. look around. and face the reality that this is your core. this is what all your choices are made of. this is where the ugly brews. you don’t like it? should’ve thought of that when you were making all those choices. should’ve thought of that before spending your soul like a fucking currency. you thought you’d never run out, did you? you thought you could keep picking away at your soul and never run out. you thought you could keep abusing it and that voice will die out eventually. but it didn’t die, it just made you more miserable. it made you unrecognisable to yourself. you thought you could kill your soul, but now your soul is killing you. you thought the scales would never balance and the laws of nature would never catch up to you. you never thought your own soul would pass down karmic justice onto you. but it did. because you still betrayed yourself. more than that man or the other man you feel guilty about betraying, you betrayed yourself. that is how far you have strayed from yourself. funniest part is, you called it self-survival. you thought it was self preservation, you convinced yourself it was your right after how the universe had wronged you because of your own stupid choices. you thought you were being selfish just to him, but you were being selfish to your own soul even more. now look at your tortured soul, truly see it and every wound that you created while ‘having fun’. because at the end, trying to cut off your soul hurts more than having to make the right choices.

please lmk if anyone has any idea from where i can get dog poison to k*ll stray dogs. anyone who is going to bash me in the comments is also free to come adopt them

*SPOILERS* anyone else wished they would’ve just remained together after Nikki’s wish? they seemed so happy for those few seconds (even if their real selves were trapped inside😭). I think that ending would’ve been more twisted and also satisfying for the hopeless romantic in me lol😭