u/Delicious-Orchid-952

Mom has been a widow for a very long time and I basically grew up without a dad. She was, and still is, extremely demanding and expects the best from me. Academically I should always excel, behavior wise I’m expected to be a saint, etc.

Things were okay when I was a student and away for school but the problem is I ended up in an extremely demanding field with very long hours. She never really had any friends and her family is very far away. She has a lot of anxieties and cannot drive outside of her immediate surroundings.

I feel stuck, I have no personal life despite always being very likable and popular. My weekends consist of driving 2 hours there and back to her place where I act like a personal consultant for managing the house, getting things fixed, and her everyday problems. Also do this over the phone during the week.

My work hours are so long and my lack of personal life, lack of time + availability of funds leads me to use substances for my only entertainment. How do I manage this situation?

All the hot food is incredibly stepped on and old and gross looking by the time I get off work and get there at 6:30 or 7.

I have a door tamper and a shock tamper that goes off randomly.

I bypass the sensors but every day around the same time they trip the alarm again and un-bypass themselves.

How can I fix this DIY? Bypass them and change the batteries? Does anyone have tips on how to change the batteries or fix these faulty tampers?

Installing some night fission irons (for p320) that are super tight and the back set screw in the middle sticks out obstructing the front sight.

Is that middle set screw necessary to keep the rear sight in place? Or can It be removed. Fit is already tight.