u/DinoDivaa

I’m an Andhra Reddy girl dating a Telangana Mudiraj guy. Both families are doing well, educated, financially stable, ante actual ga major issue emi ledu other than..

First, “Andhra ammayi ayyi Telangana abbayi aa?”

Then, “Mana caste kuda kaadhu.”

And then the one that genuinely fried my brain that even if I picked a Reddy guy, apparently just being Reddy isn’t enough. Adhi kuda mana category, mana background, mana subdivision undali anta.

I’m like Reddy lo subdivisions enti babu

And the most painful part? I was literally told that even if a Reddy guy had no money, appulu unna, family mess unna, that’s still more acceptable.

So values, respect, compatibility, how he treats me anni secondary. Surname and family tree? Adhe main criteria aythe ela. Mana generation ki freedom undi anukuntam but konni family conversations vintunte, 1980s nunchi move avvaledu anipistundi.

My cousin is coming back from the US soon and has a little luggage space left so she asked if I want anything from there

So far I’ve only asked for Naturium smoother body wash Garnier banana hair mask and the NYX fat lip oil

Feels like I might be missing out on better stuff that’s either cheaper there or not easily available here so wanted some recommendations

Looking for skincare body care makeup or haircare anything that you’ve personally used and felt was genuinely worth it

Nothing too expensive ideally but open to good quality picks

Would really appreciate any suggestions