me and my ex loved eachother a lot. we broke up but never stopped talking or sleeping together or anything. still hung out everyday. she wanted a “friendship with loyalty romance and sex”. She went on a family trip recently and I got these texts from her. definitely a last straw. not gonna see her when she’s back much to her disappointment
for context we broke up stopped talking and she’s a terrible person
(fair warning this one’s long )for context i’m young 20m. I moved to arizona alone last year for school and a couple months after moving I was broken up with by my colorado gf. It hurt a lot and I felt lonely. sure I made my college friends but nothing felt full until I met her. the first night we hung out I made it clear I only wanted to be friends and she totally agreed and we just clicked as bsfs. we ended up getting super super close and one night we ended up cuddling together but no commitment. at this time I started talking to a new girl who I felt like would be more than friends.
One night as me and my bsf were watching a movie she pushed away and said yk this doesn’t feel friendly what’s going on. I said dw and showed her that I was talking to this new girl and we both kinda just were quiet for the rest of the night. things continued as normal until one night she asked if she could come over and watch a movie as she felt sad and I agreed. soon 9pm turned into 11pm turned into 2am and we were holding each other until our lips touched. this changed everything.
we ended up hanging out a lot more almost everyday of the week until I finally said we’re supposed to be friends and she agreed. bring back the girl I was talking to. me and her decided to start dating and when I told my bsf that we decided to stop doing stuff and just be friends. easy right? their was no commitment just fooling around. two months later me and the gf didn’t work out and my bsf and me fell right back into the same habits. until she met a guy. he was cool and all three of us hung out. soon he took a liking to her and she did to him. not an issue and then one day he asked what they wanted to be and said he was uncomfy with me being around cause of everything. she said she understood but couldn’t let me go and how we were strictly platonic now. he eventually said she would have to choose between him or me. they started dating so he thought she would choose him but instead she blocked him and said she couldn’t let me go. fast forward me and her started saying how it had gone too far and we needed to just be friends with no more jealousy. This led to us laughing when we said we were just friends and agreed to no commitment and if one of us found someone else we’d be okay. i started getting confused when she would take my phone when we would hangout cause why am i texting other girls with her. and then play it off as a joke. deep down though i liked the jealousy in a weird way. this was until the gf from before came back into my life and my bsf noticed it. then one night when i fell asleep she looked through my phone and saw me and my ex texting about meeting up again and how we missed eachother she blew up on me and said how if I don’t block her she was gone. how i lied to her and said I broke her entire trust. then the next day she texted asking if it was even right for her to be upset since we agreed on no commitment and we were only fwb. I blocked my ex for her and we still continue to have sex cuddle everynigt watch movies and everything. We never talk about what we are cause we only upset ourselves. it feels so wrong to call us friends but so wrong to be anymore. i’m so confused
(fair warning this one’s long )for context i’m young 20m. I moved to arizona alone last year for school and a couple months after moving I was broken up with by my colorado gf. It hurt a lot and I felt lonely. sure I made my college friends but nothing felt full until I met her. the first night we hung out I made it clear I only wanted to be friends and she totally agreed and we just clicked as bsfs. we ended up getting super super close and one night we ended up cuddling together but no commitment. at this time I started talking to a new girl who I felt like would be more than friends. One night as me and my bsf were watching a movie she pushed away and said yk this doesn’t feel friendly what’s going on. I said dw and showed her that I was talking to this new girl and we both kinda just were quiet for the rest of the night. things continued as normal until one night she asked if she could come over and watch a movie as she felt sad and I agreed. soon 9pm turned into 11pm turned into 2am and we were holding each other until our lips touched. this changed everything. we ended up hanging out a lot more almost everyday of the week until I finally said we’re supposed to be friends and she agreed. bring back the girl I was talking to. me and her decided to start dating and when I told my bsf that we decided to stop doing stuff and just be friends. easy right?
their was no commitment just fooling around. two months later me and the gf didn’t work out and my bsf and me fell right back into the same habits. until she met a guy. he was cool and all three of us hung out. soon he took a liking to her and she did to him. not an issue and then one day he asked what they wanted to be and said he was uncomfy with me being around cause of everything. she said she understood but couldn’t let me go and how we were strictly platonic now. he eventually said she would have to choose between him or me. they started dating so he thought she would choose him but instead she blocked him and said she couldn’t let me go.
fast forward me and her started saying how it had gone too far and we needed to just be friends with no more jealousy. This led to us laughing when we said we were just friends and agreed to no commitment and if one of us found someone else we’d be okay. i started getting confused when she would take my phone when we would hangout cause why am i texting other girls with her. and then play it off as a joke. deep down though i liked the jealousy in a weird way. this was until the gf from before came back into my life and my bsf noticed it. then one night when i fell asleep she looked through my phone and saw me and my ex texting about meeting up again and how we missed eachother she blew up on me and said how if I don’t block her she was gone. how i lied to her and said I broke her entire trust. then the next day she texted asking if it was even right for her to be upset since we agreed on no commitment and we were only fwb.
I blocked my ex for her and we still continue to have sex cuddle everynigt watch movies and everything. We never talk about what we are cause we only upset ourselves. it feels so wrong to call us friends but so wrong to be anymore. i’m so confused
(fair warning this one’s long )for context i’m young 20m. I moved to arizona alone last year for school and a couple months after moving I was broken up with by my colorado gf. It hurt a lot and I felt lonely. sure I made my college friends but nothing felt full until I met her. the first night we hung out I made it clear I only wanted to be friends and she totally agreed and we just clicked as bsfs. we ended up getting super super close and one night we ended up cuddling together but no commitment. at this time I started talking to a new girl who I felt like would be more than friends. One night as me and my bsf were watching a movie she pushed away and said yk this doesn’t feel friendly what’s going on. I said dw and showed her that I was talking to this new girl and we both kinda just were quiet for the rest of the night. things continued as normal until one night she asked if she could come over and watch a movie as she felt sad and I agreed. soon 9pm turned into 11pm turned into 2am and we were holding each other until our lips touched. this changed everything. we ended up hanging out a lot more almost everyday of the week until I finally said we’re supposed to be friends and she agreed. bring back the girl I was talking to. me and her decided to start dating and when I told my bsf that we decided to stop doing stuff and just be friends. easy right? their was no commitment just fooling around. two months later me and the gf didn’t work out and my bsf and me fell right back into the same habits. until she met a guy. he was cool and all three of us hung out. soon he took a liking to her and she did to him. not an issue and then one day he asked what they wanted to be and said he was uncomfy with me being around cause of everything. she said she understood but couldn’t let me go and how we were strictly platonic now. he eventually said she would have to choose between him or me. they started dating so he thought she would choose him but instead she blocked him and said she couldn’t let me go. fast forward me and her started saying how it had gone too far and we needed to just be friends with no more jealousy. This led to us laughing when we said we were just friends and agreed to no commitment and if one of us found someone else we’d be okay. i started getting confused when she would take my phone when we would hangout cause why am i texting other girls with her. and then play it off as a joke. deep down though i liked the jealousy in a weird way. this was until the gf from before came back into my life and my bsf noticed it. then one night when i fell asleep she looked through my phone and saw me and my ex texting about meeting up again and how we missed eachother she blew up on me and said how if I don’t block her she was gone. how i lied to her and said I broke her entire trust. then the next day she texted asking if it was even right for her to be upset since we agreed on no commitment and we were only fwb. I blocked my ex for her and we still continue to have sex cuddle everynigt watch movies and everything. We never talk about what we are cause we only upset ourselves. it feels so wrong to call us friends but so wrong to be anymore. i’m so confused
(fair warning this one’s long )for context i’m young 20m. I moved to arizona alone last year for school and a couple months after moving I was broken up with by my colorado gf. It hurt a lot and I felt lonely. sure I made my college friends but nothing felt full until I met her. the first night we hung out I made it clear I only wanted to be friends and she totally agreed and we just clicked as bsfs. we ended up getting super super close and one night we ended up cuddling together but no commitment. at this time I started talking to a new girl who I felt like would be more than friends. One night as me and my bsf were watching a movie she pushed away and said yk this doesn’t feel friendly what’s going on. I said dw and showed her that I was talking to this new girl and we both kinda just were quiet for the rest of the night. things continued as normal until one night she asked if she could come over and watch a movie as she felt sad and I agreed. soon 9pm turned into 11pm turned into 2am and we were holding each other until our lips touched. this changed everything. we ended up hanging out a lot more almost everyday of the week until I finally said we’re supposed to be friends and she agreed. bring back the girl I was talking to. me and her decided to start dating and when I told my bsf that we decided to stop doing stuff and just be friends. easy right? their was no commitment just fooling around. two months later me and the gf didn’t work out and my bsf and me fell right back into the same habits. until she met a guy. he was cool and all three of us hung out. soon he took a liking to her and she did to him. not an issue and then one day he asked what they wanted to be and said he was uncomfy with me being around cause of everything. she said she understood but couldn’t let me go and how we were strictly platonic now. he eventually said she would have to choose between him or me. they started dating so he thought she would choose him but instead she blocked him and said she couldn’t let me go. fast forward me and her started saying how it had gone too far and we needed to just be friends with no more jealousy. This led to us laughing when we said we were just friends and agreed to no commitment and if one of us found someone else we’d be okay. i started getting confused when she would take my phone when we would hangout cause why am i texting other girls with her. and then play it off as a joke. deep down though i liked the jealousy in a weird way. this was until the gf from before came back into my life and my bsf noticed it. then one night when i fell asleep she looked through my phone and saw me and my ex texting about meeting up again and how we missed eachother she blew up on me and said how if I don’t block her she was gone. how i lied to her and said I broke her entire trust. then the next day she texted asking if it was even right for her to be upset since we agreed on no commitment and we were only fwb. I blocked my ex for her and we still continue to have sex cuddle everynigt watch movies and everything. We never talk about what we are cause we only upset ourselves. it feels so wrong to call us friends but so wrong to be anymore. i’m so confused
APS told my roomates if we turn off the A/C during peak hours in arizona we’d save a lot of money but they run the AC at 80 degrees during off peak hours during the day and the house will get up to 92 degrees. are we really saving much money to then have to cool it all the way down back to the 70s for bed. I suggested running it a lot cooler during the day so it doesn’t get so high when we turn it off but they refuse to listen
I am in need of new rear brakes and abs system. I don’t have the tools or resources to do anything myself so that’s out of the question. Shop number one say I will need new rotors and break pads and if they were to shave it that it would be out of spec and quoted me $667 for everything. Shop two said my rotors are at 3.9 and my minimum is 3.3 and that’d id be fine shaving some and only new pads and quoted me $490 for everything. who should I go to and what should I do. Mostly i want to be safe on the road
for context I moved in with these roomates last year. overall I have no issue and in general we’re all friends and hangout together. Here’s the issue we all decided we wanted to resign the lease for next year but I feel like this time around we should pay for the square footage of the rooms. I brought up the idea since my roomate lives in a full master bedroom with his own bathroom toilet shower while I live in a 10 by 8 foot cubicle. When I brought it up one roomate was said it was worth the conversation while the one who lives in the master said that was some dumb shit because most of the furniture in the house is his. Keep in mind we all offered to help with furniture but his grandpa who owns a moving company dropped off a lot of free furniture and there was no more space for us to bring our own. Really need help.
needed to VTO today cause last minute school thing here’s how the conversation went:
“hey is their any vto available today”
“sorry none available today we’re stacked up with flights”
“thank you have a great day!”
*PROCEEDS TO GET ONE OFFLOAD WITH 2 BAGS FOR THE NEXT 7 HOURS and then I call back*
“hey would it be possible to VTO my last hour”
“None we have a lot of diversions coming in”
proceeded to get no assignments for the rest of the day. Just miss the days when VTO was easy