Please do not wait for the time that susuko na ang tao sayo. Be an open communicator.
I just feel bad for my supervisor at work. May rendering kami na staff and these past few days kahit rendering days nya sana, absent siya. I'm talking absent as in 5 days absent for the WHOLE WEEK. Sakitin yun, and we're trying to understand. Everyday, naga ask kami na kung kamusta siya and kung papasok siya. Okay, so that's given.
Pero there are some times na hindi nya sabihin sa amin ng supervisor kung papasok sya or hindi. She does this often. For this week, she only informed the person na papalit sa kanya. So kami ni supervisor, syempre, di na kami na aware.
Our supervisor got fed up and sent a long message to her about this pattern of behavior and how she's sick of it. How we also deserve to know as her higher colleagues,etc.
She told me,
"Alam mo, I'm slowly starting not to care anymore. I'm being a friend, I'm being a good supervisor. I only want her to be well. But I'm not looking forward to the despedida next payday anymore."
Kaya ayun, don't wait for someone to give up. Communication can be crucial.