u/FlamingMetalSystems

Having good genetics, a good facial bone structure, defined facial features, good body proportions, a graceful head to body size ratio, etc 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝗲𝗻. Let this statement sink in for a moment.

In the dating scene, a man straight out of bed needs to look comfortably better than a woman who took 2 hours to get ready and is wearing full makeup and a hairdo. He needs to be a foot taller than her wearing high heels.

Absurd isn't it?

I see too many Pakistani men settled in US, UK or Europe who are seeking a wife from Pakistan

I just want to warn them about the mentality of Pakistani women they'll most likely end up with

Millions of Pakistani women are desperate to get out of the country because its a failed economy, pretty much a failed state by now and there's no future here for 90% of humans. They just want to use you as a stepping stone into a Western country

These women would not even piss/spit on you if they were in that country on their own and were seeking a boyfriend, relationship or even a husband. Their mindset when marrying you would be "Waqt anay par gadhay ko bhi baap banana parrta hai"

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I found this post on a Pakistani diaspora women's group on Facebook and the comments are absolutely disgusting and shows their rotten mentality

A Pakistani man who is fully independent and established in the US, UK, or Europe marries a woman, brings her over, creates a path for her citizenship, and helps her stand on her own feet by investing in her education and career.

On the other hand, just look at what his wife is thinking

Mind you, these are the thoughts of Pakistani women who are 'happily married' because they're lazy, don't want to work or divorce due to family pressure.

Because Half of them will divorce you after getting papers and standing on their own feet and do what they really wanted - Live a hedonistic, wild, colorful life, wear what they want, date and hookup with good looking, tall, hot men of different ethnicities and just enjoy a colorful single liberated life.

Meanwhile 1/4th of them will cheat while staying married to you

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Khuda ke liay Husband bano, Boyfriend bano, baap nahi.

Asteen ke saanp nahi palo

A 23-year old guy is in his absolute physical prime has an aging 55-year-old mother. And somehow she has 50x more dating, sexual, and romantic options than him.

Gen Z is the first generation to experience this because they became adults right as social media, dating apps, and the normalization of casual dating and hookups had just fundamentally reshaped the gender dynamics.

She's way below average in looks, middle aged, short, Asian woman.

According to her the standards for male beauty are very low

So does she think her male version / looks-match would be considered a hot guy in US?

This shocking study was done in 2017 (linked below)

Photos of male and female subjects were rated by opposite-sex judges on a 9-point attractiveness scale.

In men, facial attractiveness significantly predicted number of sexual partners. More attractive men reported roughly 𝟭.𝟳𝟱 𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗽𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀-𝗽𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 !!

In women, attractiveness had no effect on number of sexual partners at all.

If the biological purpose of physical beauty is to attract sexual partners, isn’t it shocking that it seems to serve no purpose for women?

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5319324/

So I have accepted that dating isn't for me. I don't have the face, head, body, height, superficial charm and lifestyle required for dating women

And that's ok. I really want to accept this and move on with life. I really want to find coping mechanisms and find fulfillment in other things. I don't want to hate women for being more selective than men. I really want to accept this biological reality. There's absolutely no entitlement at this point. Its totally my problem, not theirs.

But barely a day goes by without being bombarded by messaging from women that:

• The bar for men has never been lower - (The bar has never been higher for looks and height. The bar is only low for men they find physically attractive).
• There's a male loneliness epidemic and men like me are single because we worship Andrew Tate, Joe Rogan, Elon, or Trump - (Even though we've been like this long before the manosphere or Tate surfaced).
• We're probably unsafe, threatening, potential abusers - (even though men who are actively dating and having sex are far more likely to harm women than single, celibate men and I've never harmed a woman in my life).
• We give off bad energy that women can smell from miles away - (even though we have no issues interacting with women in non-romantic, non-sexual contexts).
• We have unwashed asses, lack hygiene, smell bad, and have bad teeth and breath. - (A claim so ironic given that they found these issues in men they literally dated and who weren't incels by that definition. Meanwhile most of us have very good hygiene, our jobs require it and its something we have always considered a given)
• We're man-children who are unemployed, play video games all day, and are financially lagging - (even though many of us have decent careers and are otherwise disciplined in life).
• We're looking for a mommy, can't do household chores, and need a bangmaid and chef - (even though many of us have been living on our own for years and are completely self-sufficient in chores, cooking, cleaning, etc).
• That we lack emotional intelligence, kindness, empathy - (things that only matter when you're someone's type and a relationship is established)
• that we're right-wing, neo-n*zi, far-right etc (I didn't vote for Trump)
• That we're porn-brained (even though I've never progressed to the point where I could've expressed such desires)

So is there any possibility I can admit and speak my reality without being ridiculed, pathologized, or turned into a cartoon villain?

Or is there a deeper, more sinister philosophy behind this that we're missing? One whereby the "defeated" should not be allowed a catharsis? One that is built around schadenfreude?

They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones They truly do hate men, well, the ugly ones

This woman beautifully explains the 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗿𝘂𝗺 for young women

Even if you're average or below-average in looks as a young woman, you can easily date, hookup, and have short-term physical relationships with very good-looking, tall, handsome, fit, charming men way above your league.

But as soon as you want something serious, long-term or want to get married, you'll realize those good-looking, attractive men you could so easily hookup with have vanished or even if they're seeking commitment and marriage, they expect someone equally good-looking and at their own level status and lifestyle wise.

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𝗜'𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀, specially women who are average and below average in looks

1. Are you consciously aware of the fact that attractive men have VASTLY different standards for casual hookups vs marriage?
2. If you're casually dating a very handsome, tall, good looking guy, are you aware that someday you will have to marry a guy who looks nothing like him and is just average / mediocre in looks just like yourself?
3. Do you let yourself be disappointed, frustrated when you can't get the same type of men for marriage or is it something you always expected and can compartmentalize easily in your mind?

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Specially to young boys who think they are ugly, short, unfit, fat, scrawny, have low self-esteem, no confidence etc

Please don't get addicted to the spiral of having casual hookups with attractive women.
Casual sex and hookups are so easily available nowadays it can make young men easily addicted to it

This may boost your confidence temporarily, but it will not fix the underlying issues