u/GeologistIcy4136

As the title suggests, I seem to be experiencing slight pain because my foreskin feels tight. Throughout my life, I had never pulled my foreskin back completely.

I recently visited a urologist, who examined me and suddenly pulled my foreskin back without any difficulty. I didn't feel any pain at all. He even retracted it further and asked me what the problem was. In my mind, I was thinking, "I've struggled to pull my foreskin back all these years, but you were able to do it so easily!"

I explained to him that I experience slight pain during sexual intercourse. He asked me whether I experienced any pain while urinating or had noticed any tears or bleeding during intercourse. I said no, and he replied, "You're good to go. Don't overthink this; otherwise, you might have difficulty getting an erection because of your anxiety."

I then asked him what I should do if my foreskin tears. He told me to apply pressure for 30–45 minutes to stop the bleeding and come back the next day for a check-up.

I also asked him what would happen if my foreskin got stuck behind the head of my penis and I couldn't pull it forward again. He said that I should manually pull it forward to return it to its normal position.

At that moment, I felt relieved because I thought I didn't have phimosis or any other problem. However, whenever I have s*x end up worrying about the possibility of my foreskin getting stuck behind the head of my penis and causing paraphimosis.

I'm genuinely afraid that this might happen to me. When I Googled it, I read that if the foreskin gets stuck behind the head of the penis, it can restrict blood flow and requires immediate medical attention. Reading this made me even more anxious.
Even though my urologist reassured me, I still can't stop worrying about it during sex. I'm afraid that something might go wrong, and this fear is making it difficult for me to relax and enjoy the experience.

As the title suggests, I’m getting married in a week, and I want to give my fiancee something special as a wedding gift.

My budget is around - ₹6,000.

A couple of things i have already ruled out:

-> She already has jewels, so I don’t think another piece would feel very special.

-> I’ve already given her photo frames/photo-related gifts, so I’d like to avoid those as well.

I am looking for something thoughtful and meaningful and doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive. Something she can keep for a long time or something that would remind her of this phase of our lives would be great.

Would love to hear what you guys have gifted your partners or what you think would make a good wedding gift within this budget.

Please drop your suggestions! 🙏

I am about to get married in 2 weeks and it looks like I have phimosis. I went to a urologist in my area and he mentioned that I have partial phimosis, meaning I cannot pull the foreskin back completely. he tried and it only comes 50%. After that, i got some pain. But I am not even able to pull it back 20% on my own because I am afraid of the pain. He suggested that I can undergo circumcision, but it is optional and ultimately my choice.

Since my marriage is already fixed and is only 2 weeks away, I cannot get circumcision done now. I am having this fear every day. I should have consulted a doctor earlier, but I missed the chance. Now, what if I experience pain during s*x? I have read that if you pull the foreskin back aggressively, it can lead to paraphimosis, which can be very painful and serious.

In this situation, I don't know what to do. Men who have had phimosis and got it cured, or those who still have it but have no issues how has your experience been? Did you have any problems during s*x or were you able to have children without any issues?

I would really appreciate your valuable input and experiences. help this soul.

Particularly for hair related queries and treatment. TIA

guys, chennai la around tambaram or around that area la best urologist doctor/ Hospital suggestion required.

if not from that area, suggest anyother area with best doctors in Chennai

Guys, M26, finally, I am going to get married in 3 months, but I feel scared since my parents talk about marriage. ( Its been a year )

I am huge introvert (you never would have imagined such a person like me ), i never had any interactions with female ( as friend ) in my entire life. i don't have female friends. From online, i chatted with few girls as a language exchange partner, but i never went for any personal, it is fully focused on practice alone, i don't even know their faces. These all i did my entire life.

My parents have been overprotective since my childhood to college, so, i never had any exposure to going outside much and talking to people. Even ipo vella pogi enala vegetables or fruits kooda pick panna theriyathu, bank la pogi yarta pesanum, government offices la epdi behave pannanum ( Like how to sort out things you came for ). I don't know how to bargain with people, keta amount ah apdiye koduthutu vantruven, edachum soliduvangalo nu bayam.

I don't know how to drive car, i know how to drive geared bike in my hometown, but chennai la bike ota bayama iruku, what if i get into an accident.. Ipdi laam bayam varum apo apo.

My dad is very good at these things. He built everything for family and have a plan for everything, but enala atleast 50% kooda keep up pana mudiyala.

Pros:
comes
I don't drink alcohol, don't smoke, Having a job in IT company with good salary so far.

But marriage ku ena pana porom, what if my life partner hates my once she came to know if i don't even know basic things. Please help me out this poor soul guys.

I have both Jio and Airtel. Airtel is in SIM 1, and Jio is in SIM 2 (ESIM). I am using an iPhone.

Whenever I make a call using Airtel, the Jio network automatically disconnects and I am unable to use Jio data during the call. Is this a settings issue, or can it be resolved?

FYI: Airtel is for calls, Using JIO for Mobile data alone.

I have been using Dr-Reddy's Mintop Forte 5% for around 5+ months, but didn't see any results. What is wrong?

Usage: 1ml daily at night. 2 times alternative days.

What is wrong with it? Shall go with another brand or increase the percentage from 5 to 10?

Has anybody here got results using Mintop Forte?

As title suggests, I mistakenly opened Groww app instead of Zerodha, I verified kyc and every verifications are over.

Now, i am learning about the mutual funds and stock, 9/10 people using Zerodha only. Looks like Zerodha has additional feature or clear UI or something.

I didn’t invested to anything. Is it possible for me to delete this account and open in zerodha? Will this cause any issue while opening zerodha Demat account??

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