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Like you may encounter a girl who accepts you and your lack of sexual experience but in the back of your head you may be paranoid and fearful that someday she's gonna find an excuse to say you're no longer good enough and leave you.

Has that ever crossed your mind and could that be a subconscious reason why not trying at all sounds more appealing?

Let's say you reached a point where you admit defeat and decide to lose your virginity to a sex worker, once you get past the regret and emptiness and try pursuing an actual partner and it looks like you might actually get sexual consent and she asks you when's the last time you had sex would you be honest about it??

If so what do you think the reaction would be if you told her you used sex workers to get laid???

In the old days it was very easy to get away with this before cellphones because there was legit no way to know for sure how busy someone is since contacting people required them to be at home.

But with cellphones and their feature to let you know when someone has seen your texts you can't get away with that so easily and yet people still think you can just ghost people with ease.

Wouldn't it just be easier to just outright say you're not in the mood to talk or even just point blank make it clear you find someone's attempts to talk annoying and to just leave you alone???

Why are people now against just being direct and honest?

(a simple casual light hearted topic for once)

I dunno if girls place as much importance on their partners meeting their parents nowadays and Granted it seems like most girls don't have the typical healthy parents that are still happily together dynamic(and maybe that could be why it's not common to meet the parents.) but in the event that they still do, how do you think that experience would be like?

For starters what even are the chances of a virgin guy to meet a girl who likes you AND KNOWS you're a virgin yet she's still willing to have you meet her parents?

What could even be a conversation between the guy and the father cause I would imagine the father would be able to immediately clock a fellow mans inexperience on the spot. 🤣

The Video game version of the Sonic characters are presently older than the ones in the game. I believe Sonic in the movies is like 12 or 13, Tails would be around 6 years old, Knuckles is 13 or 14.

Does anyone else think it would be interesting to have a cross over between the two universes?

Personally I find the idea of game Tails meeting a version of himself that HE is older than and you just Know Game Sonic would want to compare speeds and their stories together.

As you get older it feels people start looking for excuses to dismiss you in favor of others who provide what they want that you don't, and if you don't behave specifically in ways that they would like it increases the chances even further.

What causes this?

There is always ALWAYS exceptions to every rule let's not kid ourselves here, but encountering the women who are open and accepting of male virgins ESPECIALLY with casual sex are really really low, plus the more physically attractive the woman is the less likely she is of being accepting.

What is usually the cut off point when men and women stop caring about the romantic sides of relationships and just focus more on what each other can provide from each other?

And what advice can you give to the men who's never had romantic relationships after the cut off point?

What is it with people nowadays being so bent on trying to insist that men and women are equal in our behaviors and other traits?

Why are people so against the idea that men and women can be different and still compliment off of each other?

It seems Alot of subreddits are full of mods that are looking for excuses to delete and ban posts especially if there's a potential of anyone being a little offended.

Let's not beat around the bush you're going to feel some regrets losing it at an advanced age and lying to yourself about it won't cover that.

My regret is due to having COVID in the past my sense of smell never fully recovered so I won't be able to enjoy the pheromones from sex in the way I could have if my sense of smell was normal.

Like it seems like you post about something that could POTENTIALLY be even a little sensitive or have a chance of being offensive to someone mods are quick to assume you're trying to start drama and just delete anything and everything.

Is it unreasonable to want to see your partners medical records to check for Stds before having sex with someone?

It's easier for women to have sex which means they're more likely to contract Stds, women are also sensitive, but I'm wondering if before having sex that asking to see their STD test results is reasonable or not.

Like instead of the tired song and dance of jumping through hoops to get a yes all while being in the palm of a woman's hand and in a position for them to use you, a guy can just be direct, not beat around the bush and just ASK a girl.

I mean irl girls typically can't stand it when a guy is obvious with their sexual intent which makes no sense to me because every women with common sense knows a guy is likely to have that desire in their head so why are men expected to just pretend?

It would have been the absolute perfect opportunity to do so back when the Reboot game was about to be released. Like the game was spreading nostalgia high which in turn got Alot of people's hopes up for it, but upon seeing the new art style and gameplay style it understandably caused fans to be weary.

To counter that they could have made sure to release Sakura wars 1 - 5, hell maybe include the Hanagumi columns games along with both the Gameboy color games with the collection for the modern console. It would have also been a PERFECT time to release all the games in the states as well

This way once people got the full nostalgia in their systems by replaying all of the games and hopefully still find enjoyment in them it would cause them to be more accepting of the new approach in the reboot and willing to at least support the game and ensure its success so they could do improvements with future installments.

But nope Sega foolishly thought just nostalgia based on just a small hope would be enough to cause people to overlook the changes they did and as a result it didn't do so well and they tried to salvage momentum with a mobile game which also failed QUICK.....

Like they released a remastered edition of valkyria chronicles and Shenmue 1 and 2 before their new installments came out but for some reason Sega decided not to do that for Sakura wars.....like why?

YES female virgins don't have the same harsh struggles that virgin men go through, Yes, female virgins have easier ease of access to men who would happily take their virginity, yes what they go through doesn't compare to how devastating it can be for male virgins but the struggles female virgins have are still valid no?

You would assume that both genders would be equal cause they both mean someone who has not been sexually involved with anyone as far as penetration goes.

Yet there seems to be a double standard, men are generally more open to accepting a woman who's a virgin no matter what while women once they reach certain age are less likely to be accepting of a male virgin if they have options this also has the negative consequences of causing virgin men to hesitate on being honest in their pursuits of women.

Logically what is with this double standard?

Not transactional from a financial point of view I mean transactional from a "you need to have some kind of benefit for me to associate with you" kind of thing