On the apps everyone just wants to crack. If i happen to meet someone it has to be out and about. If i dont find him then oh well i will never experience romance
I wanna date but i dont even get a chance because no one is willing to. I have only used the apps because irl im kinda shy so i wont approach a man. On dating apps when a guy rarely even starts a converstation with me we will talk for abit and after i suggest meeting he will lose interest. I once went to hangout with a guy but he ghosted me after. I dont know whats wrong. It cant be my appearance because i still see that many guys look at me when im outside. At least when i look at someone its because i find them attractive so i assume they are like that too or am i wrong? I just feel so sad because i dont know where the problem is. I am a bit boring person tbh but thts just how i am. Is that the problem?
I have been talking to this guy and at first everythings seemed normal he was nice. Well then he started suggesting going to his place and making suggestive jokes. I dont know what i did wrong. I flirted alot but i didnt mean anything sexual. Did he make assumption about me that im only for hookup and went with it? I want a long term relationship tho. I do find him really attractive so if he doesnt want anything else then i could do it too. Im just a bit lost now.
I feel like im just that kind of person when i get excited i cant hold back lmao will it scare the guy away
I have never dated anyone and i know the biggest reason for that is my unrealistic standards. But i just refuse to settle for less. I have a great family and friends and my life is good im happy. I just dont see the point in dating if i dont find the man attractive enough. Im an introvert aswell and i looveee my own company. I have my own interests and hobbies that keep me going. Of course if i happen to meet a guy and we click then sure but i just dont feel the need to be on dating apps. The swiping is so boring since i rarely see a guy there who im truly interested in. I dont like the smalltalk that goes nowhere. I dont like the awkward silence on dates. I dont like how anxious i get before the first date. I also think i have nothing to offer really. Im just existing. I just feel like im so weird because everyone around me is dating and im here content with being a virgin and never even had my first kiss.
Should i just adopt or do ivf on my own?
I read that gpa has to be at least 2 and mine is like 2,5. Does it matter that much should it be higher?
I just want a man to pursue and yearn for me. I want his heart to only be mine. I want that happy and innocent love thats mutual and comes naturally. A man thats not gonna let me down and will do anything to have me. I doubt its gonna happen for me though😔
Met on tinder and he was really respectful we were just getting to know eachother first. And i mean he went out his way and traveled the long distance aswell. I kinda even feel bad for him if i didnt make his time enjoyable to come so far
So i have never been in a relationship before and never dated so i went on my first ever date with this guy. We were just getting to know eachother as friends first i guess. I noticed i didnt know what to talk about with him. Going on a date made me so nervous and i just dont know how to act. I dont know what to talk about. Everything just starts feeling so much pressure and i stop liking it. I have many friends but i talk to them maybe once in 2 months i cant imagine being in a relationship with a guy and needing to conversate with him all the time i would go insane
I went on a date with a guy and i really liked him we had been messaging for 3 days and we talked alot through messages. He traveled 150km to meet me but i was so nervous and i maybe said something wrong or talked wrong i dont know. I might have gotten carried away sometimes talking about my interests. But he talked alot too and i asked him many questions and reacted to them. Now he ghosted me and i have been crying alot i dont know. We were quite similar to eachother as we were both reserved and introverted. We didnt hug or even touch eachother and sometimes even eyecontact was difficult. I was just so nervous i dont know. After a while i got more comfortable tho. But still because of my nervousness my mind was sometimes all over the place but i tried my best to listen and converstate attentively. Also it might play a part that we didnt know eachothers language and i needed to use my energy more to talk in english. Maybe the converstation wasnt that natural. But it was the ifrst date if i were given a second one i would be way more comfortable😓
I always feel uncomfortable talking about sexual things with a stanger through text but the guys converstation always goes there😭 is there something wrong with me? Is this why i still dont have a boyfriend?
I care about personality too but i just want a really hot guy you get me.
Its just luck which people we meet in our lives. Of course the chances can be increased if i go out more. Even if i did put myself out there i dont think i would meet the handsome guy who i want its only a low chance. Through school, work or friends is the most realistic way i think but the chances of meeting someone i find attractive is low. I tried the dating apps and i realized most men there are looking for sex only especially the most attractive men who i would want. Casual is fine too but i would prefer to know the person first for safety. Most of them want everything too fast so thats a no.
Maybe this is a mental disorder i shouldnt care about appearance this much. Maybe its the old anorexia which i recovered from years ago talking inside my mind i dont know
Im not looking for validation im just genuienly curious. The men i match on tinder with keep ignoring my messages so i wonder why. Should i lower my standards? But then no i rather be single then lower my standards
23f and I know its uncommon but i qenuienly cant live alone i get too lonely and no i dont have a partner and im not looking for one right now. My parents say its fine if i live with them forever and i love my parents its nice to live with them. Many of my friends have moved out long ago so i guess im just a little different…
Maybe its an obsession or delusion i dont care. People might think im weird but i find happiness in fangirling over kpop boygroups and watching kdramas