u/Lonely-Series601

I 16f and my boyfriend 17m have been together 3 months now and are getting to that stage where sleepovers have been discussed,his parents are totally fine with it my parents on the other hand have said he is not allowed. I think this is unreasonable as I’d much rather be in my house where I am comfortable as I have sleeping problems as it is and anything they think will happen at night can happen in the day aswell.should I be allowed to have sleepovers in the comfort of my own home?

I (17f) broke up with my ex (17m) over 2 months ago it wasn’t along relationship it lasted 3 months due to serious communication problems however we did everything a couple can do we said I love yous,had sex,met families the all of it.Recently I have started talking to a new guy (18m) as I have decided I am ready to move on,he’s a lovely guy and makes me feel great however I can’t help but think it is destined to fail even tho I genuinely like this guy a lot. I just keep thinking of all the worst possibilities and not knowing if he is good for me even tho he ticks most of my boxes in what I would like in a guy.
So am I in the wrong and could you give me some advice on what to do in this situation.

Myself (17f) and my talking stage (18m)
Have been talking for over a month now we have kissed ,hugged and gone on dates ,I have made it clear I would not like to date him for another few months due to a hard break up with my ex and my own personal preference id prefer to not rush into being with him ,he is fine with this and we have had no issues about it.however I have now come to realise I am ready to do more intimate things with him now .But is this okay? I have not really been in this situation before but I feel as if im ready now , I guess im just looking for advice to see if this is ok even if we are not official

Extra context-we have said we love eachother and we are both not talking to anyone else in romantic terms we are “closed off” just not official.

So is this okay?

I have been working in a local cafe for almost 3 years now and I am on minimum wage which for my age group is £8 an hour in the uk.my boss has constantly praised me for my work and how good I am at my job however more recently I have thought about leaving as I do a lot of hours,fill in for people constantly when asked I work more hours than I legally can,I train new staff all for £8 an hour not to mention I don’t get to keep tips(the money is apparently put towards a get together at the end of the year but that has not happened once since I’ve been there)my problem is I like the people I work with but I can’t help but feel used for the effort I put in and im getting the same hourly rate as the newbies.which I don’t think is fair considering I am overworked and underpaid leading me to have minimal time for myself family and friends.
So what do I do ,do I leave or do I stay and stick it out?
And am I the asshole for feeling this way ?

Myself (17 f) and my friend (21f) have been friends for over a year and we’ve never had any trouble we met through work and started hanging out automatically we were fine until 4 months ago when she left work due to health issues which was inevitable ,through that time I checked up on her daily to ask how she was doing as I have similar health problems so i had an idea of how she was feeling . The last few months I have been struggling mentally and tried to take my own life a month ago I am in recovery now and doing better however I was a little upset as she asked if I was okay twice I understood as she has problems of her own so I didn’t think to much into it however I have been checking up on her less due to exams and trying to better my life . However last week I asked if she wanted to go out as I haven’t seen her in almost 2 months and I thought she might need someone to talk to as her grandma passed away recently but she said she wasn’t feeling great which I responded okay hope you feel better soon.then yesterday I asked if she wanted to go out to celebrate my exams finishing and she said she’s to tired which I responded ok ,she then proceeded to tell me how I’ve been a shit friend and put in no effort this past month or two and how I have no idea what she’s going through which I then told her how I’ve felt and she denied everything she had done I then proceeded to tell her how yes I have been there for her less but I have had problems of my own and have been very busy recently dealing with therapy,work and exams and then she proceeded to tell me how I make everything about myself even though these past few months I have done nothing but listen to her about how she hates her life even after my overdose. So what I’m really asking is am I in the wrong for not putting in the same amount of effort ?

AITA
1 f(18) and my bf (19) have been together for about 16 months and we were hanging out round my house when we had sex and then cuddled after and everything was fine I asked if we could go for round two and he said yes but only for a”minute”
Which I agreed to thinking it wouldn’t actually be just a minute.anyway turns out he wasn’t lying and then said let’s stop im gonna go to the gym now which I was then abit upset about . I messaged him about it after as it feels he’s been putting the gym over me for awhile now.
I’m perfectly fine with him going to the gym as I enjoy it to but this time I was at work when he asked if we could hang out and I agreed even tho I have exams soon.
It just feels like im the one compromising at the moment.
AITA