u/MacaronWithAName

Hi everyone my partner is having a rough last few weeks and I really want to treat her for some oysters which is her favorite. I was wondering if there are good but affordable oyster places in Toronto? Some buck-a-shuck deals on weekends? Haven't really had oysters in a while because of how rough things have been.

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Hoping to get some recommendations. Thank you!

I'm dating someone who doesn't care as much as I do. Who doesn't appreciate art, nature, and life as much as I do. Who doesn't pursue or enjoys learning like I do. Who doesn't analyze and think as much of their thoughts and feelings as much as I do.

I don't know if these are INFJ traits because I'm not as well versed with the types(God forbid I meet another one who rejects to interact with other people who aren't the same type as they are) but Im still someone who doesn't have to be 100% in sync with a person.

Regardless of what I mentioned in the first paragraph, I still care for this person. I was just wondering how other INFJ's do it or have you all dated with only exclusively with INFJ'S or nearly INFJ'S

Good morning everyone I was trying to look for places to have lobster supper today. I forgot that it's a holiday today and not all places are open. Wanted to go to PEI because I always heard great things about the island and the good people.

If there's any other places you would recommended that would be great too. I'm also looking into eating some good shellfish too if possible.

Thank you everyone!

Pretty much this. I love Ikea so much and I need a new bed. Was hoping for advice from people who got it. Which IKEA beds and mattrsses have you liked so far? I want like a firm one due to back pain and some extra space on the bedrame. Thank you everyone!! ☺️☺️☺️

I need to buy a new matrress from Ikea like a few years back and now I'm moving to a new place and thought about getting another Ikea one but Im worried if the quality is still good or did the quality decline a lot?

If there's a good mattress though, which ones would you recommend? I'm looking for a firm one because I have bad lower back pain

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I have a friend who's into MBTI and doesn't believe that I'm an INFJ because my social skills have grown significantly than who I was before and she now thinks I'm an ENFJ. I just met this person a week ago.

I used to be an incredibly shy and introverted person who hates going outside and crowds. I could never spark up a conversation now at all with anybody and I would just focus on myself and my own world. I'm exhausted whenever I talk to people or with crowds and rather be alone and recharge at home or wherever Im alone.

However 15-20 years later, I developed those inferior social skills or social functions? I kinda learned how to adapt. How to be able to socialize and expand my social battery. Like I still get drained and all but I guess my stamina is higher now? Like I'd still rather be at home right now and most of my days. I literally deal with clients on a daily basis whether phone call or in person. Managing relationships with 1 on 1 meetings. It feels surreal talking about it.

She said that I'm not an actual INFJ because I'm able to go to cafes or even concerts. My response is that I literally mentally block everything out in a way? Like if I'm in a cafe I'm like in my own bubble. If I'm in a concert, I literally just focus on the band and the music like how you go to the theatre and when the lights go down I feel like it's just me.

Am I reading this wrong? Honestly her mistaking me for an ENFJ because I'm sociable now feels quite validating that my effort in developing my social skills has been so successful. Like I'm not even mad. Idk let me know too if I'm wrong or not.

Are there examples of INFJ figures or individuals who get mistaken to be ENFJ?