u/Mental-Clerk

My adult son moved out of our house, and when we tried to update his case for medicaid and apply for snap for him, the person in the new county denied his case because he is no longer at a known address. They demanded to see his name on a lease, but he isn't on the lease, he's staying with friends. They rent the house, he can get mail there just fine. As far as I'm aware, IL allows for 'self-attestment', but they insisted he can't. We moved from our old house and he is not on our lease either, because he doesn't live there. I don't know when/if he will ever get on the lease at the friend's house, but he needs medical care and food and we can't afford to help with either.

I regret taking someone's advice to go to a dispo that's closing down. The flower I got is nearly expired, hard, dry af, not much smell (can't help but think maybe them going out is a good thing if that's what they've been selling). But, I'm dumb and stubborn and have had the weekend from hell so decided to load up my dhv and try it anyway. I noticed very little taste too. In hindsight I wish I'd never gone to that dispensary.

As the high started, it felt very flat. Just high, no warm tingly sensation, no enjoyment, just rocketing right to the stratosphere in a very bad way. I could feel my anxiety building, and I knew it was going to be bad (like forget how to breathe bad), so by some miracle, using sheer willpower I managed to mostly steer my mind away and to a better place. My husband and I got intimate but it was like I was having to keep fighting to stay in the good place, until my mind and body finally connected for what felt like the first time ever. Afterward I infodumped some stuff I wasn't ready to share on my husband and I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm off my rocker now.

I felt like it was finally wearing off but I was wrong. I was high all damn night. I woke up at 2:44am and coming down was rough. I made the decision that I'm cancelling today's plans because I need to recover, I'm feeling extremely anxious and depressed about it and everything leading up to this was already more than enough to cancel my plans but I feel like such an idiot and a failure. I've been too high before but never like this.

Is this what happens using flower past its prime? I've smoked and used edibles, and seem to have a naturally low tolerance but this felt so aggressive and different and not at all what I expected. I've had wedding cake before and it was a really pleasant high, so I assumed another cake strain would have a similar result. This felt like jekyll and hyde.

The strain was platinum cake, supposedly great for anxiety 😭. The brand is Otherside, a budget label for Nez which I kept seeing good things about. I use a lobo and dosing cap, and I kept the temp at 375F.

Hello,

I just got my Lobo today, it's just about done charging. On the quick start guide, it says to run it through three full heating cycles. Is this what I need to do every time I use it, or is this just for the first use?

We recently moved into our house, and with the first warm days, tried to use the a/c because the house got unbearable. Even in the low-80s, the a/c couldn't cool lower than 75. We brought it up with the landlord, and mentioned the upstairs is significantly warmer than downstairs. They brought a few people in, and they ended up replacing the a/c unit entirely due to a leak.

But that doesn't seem to have helped anything. The a/c can't get to 73 without constantly running, and upstairs is still far warmer than downstairs, and the humidity is 66% going by the indoor thermometers I've purchased. Two rooms are in direct sunlight, but even on a cloudy day like today, we get no relief. The guy who replaced the a/c said he didn't do ductwork and to have the LL get someone out to check it, because it could be disconnected somewhere or something similar. The ducts in the basement are all encased in paneling, save the one closest to the furnace, so we can't find dampers to try to see if it's just a routing issue.

The landlord feels as long as air is coming out of the vents, then all is well. But 80 degrees minimum with 66%+ humidity is not acceptable. I don't know what to do/suggest to them to get them to investigate further. We can't use window film because the windows facing the sun are all double glazed.

I had a total hysterectomy and bilateral oophorectomy in Nov. at the age of 44. Since then I've gradually increased to .075 patches, but lately I've been wondering if it's not enough. My anxiety and depression have gotten worse, my joint pain has gotten unbearable (I also have fibro and ankylosing spondilitis so it could be one of those, but the other symptoms seemed to come at the same time as the increased pain), exhaustion and insomnia, and low, low libido.

I'm really struggling, and I don't know if it's worth looking at increasing my dose of e or what. I don't take progesterone since I have no uterus and don't really want to because I also have pmdd. I've also been considering asking about t, but I have pcos too so surely my t is already higher than normal. But the low libido is really bothering me. I am worried it will start to affect my marriage. My husband's been great, but I need sex too.

UPDATE:

He sent an itemized list at 1:41 am this morning.

He's charged us $450 for 'deep cleaning' when I fucking deep cleaned the house and have photographic proof. I don't know whether to be a bitch and push it or if a judge would even agree an hour and 41 mins late is still beyond the 30 days. He also charged us $75 for 'blending and patching' paint.

Hey all, pretty sure I know the answer, but I've never had this situation come up before so want to make sure we get it right.

We moved out of our old place May 3. In IL, the landlord has 30 days to tell us what is being withheld, and to provide receipts and an itemized list, or they can't withhold any part of our deposit.

We've had one message from the landlord, saying he was 'working on his notes' the deposit, and asking what bank details to use. That's it. No list of deductions, no receipts, absolutely zero details of any kind. He has had our forwarding address since we moved out, nothing in the mail, no email, no texts, nothing.

I couldn't find much info googling, but what I did find was something about a landlord being allowed to extend the time if they were waiting on repairs or something, it wasn't very clear, but it did seem like those would have had to have already been mentioned.

I assume since he's not said anything about waiting for repairs, or anything at all other than that he was 'making notes', he's no longer allowed to make any deductions and according to the law in IL, we are owed our full deposit.

I just don't want to get this wrong. Anxiety is a bitch.

I'm using an imac, wireless keyboard and mouse. My cat sat on my keyboard, lots of bings and bongs ensued, now my mouse isn't working. I even tried changing the batteries in case it was a crazy coincidence, but nothing.

I tried opening bluetooth file exchange, it just opens up my documents folder. I also tried pressing the option key 5 times, turning the mouse on and off, and nothing.

I'm wondering if anyone can suggest a more chill modpack than ATM TTS 10. I don't like Apotheosis and the armor shred/piercing which makes armor practically useless until you're super high tier, and I'm not good with config files especially ones that require formulas. I also wasn't sure I could just remove it from the pack without consequences.

I like sky block because I like creating something from nothing (or very little), but most of them seem to lean towards heavy automation (somewhat understandable) and extreme bosses which I have no interest in. I would like something that I can just chill and bring back the world a bit at a time. I like the quests which help me learn the mods, I tend to play modded Minecraft but rarely get into most of the mods I play so trying to switch it up so I actually learn something, but I don't want it to feel like torture (nothing against those who enjoy the really complex stuff, it's just not my cup of tea).

I'm wondering if anyone can suggest a more chill modpack than ATM TTS 10. I don't like Apotheosis and the armor shred/piercing which makes armor practically useless until you're super high tier, and I'm not good with config files especially ones that require formulas. I also wasn't sure I could just remove it from the pack without consequences.

I like sky block because I like creating something from nothing (or very little), but most of them seem to lean towards heavy automation (somewhat understandable) and extreme bosses which I have no interest in. I would like something that I can just chill and bring back the world a bit at a time. I like the quests which help me learn the mods, I tend to play modded Minecraft but rarely get into most of the mods I play so trying to switch it up so I actually learn something, but I don't want it to feel like torture (nothing against those who enjoy the really complex stuff, it's just not my cup of tea).

The comment section is insane. OP is bitching because he got £450/mo more than he was expecting from his INHERITED house, but somehow feels justified saying he should have gotten more, for a property that likely doesn’t even qualify as a 4 bed, and wants help to screw the tenants over, while having proof other properties rented for the lower price.

It’s crazy to me how many are not only defending this, but giving advice on how to dodge the laws. Fuck landlords.