u/Minute_Shallot_5369

I am 23F , treated so badly my whole life . So a group of boys invited me to hang out with them. I didn't believe first then I went but I was having anxiety and nervousness and it showed on my body language and behaviour.

I think I made 1 or 2 sarcastic jokes with them and didn't really participate in conversations and enjoyed them. I think now I am excluded. I had a chance I thibk I ruined it . And th3y no longer want me. They told me we gonna do that again this weekend, but I am not sure they dont seem excited like the previous time. I thibk I fucked up .

I think they no longer consider me :( ... how to recover this ?

I gained weight jn 2 years and got extremely conscious and insecure.

I can't vibe and fun just thinking about my weight all the time , and I stay silent most of the time

I made new friends they are v. Cool but I am uncollest, when I talk my voice shivers , and they are all boys , and they want me to have fun with them but I am so insecure the moment I raise my arm I thibk they might be watching my fat arm 🧚 it makes them uncomfortable too

How do I make them feel that I am worth being around and not a side character due to my silence and being so insecure.

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I am a chubby looking girl 👧 but I get compliments on my face , 23, and I never had really male interaction and I was just living my life ,

So in my class there's 4 boys group who are helpful sounds nice, I never paid attention to people anymore coz mostly girls who are overweight they just subconsciously know if a guy is looking at me he is surely not thinking she is cute😅anyway, so these 4 guys texted me and invited me to hangout with them , and they have no other female friend at all

I went, and we did weed together smoked and just chill , and now they invited me again, and they told me

You are one of us now , you are our bro now . You are part of our brand now?we chose u? , and it felt like I've got adopted😅 , so I will hang with them for now on but I am so nervous around them , they are literally so cute and so cool , I wonder why me ,? How ? I mean I am not even pretty

So now they became my main friend group , they help me in studies , we weed together, hang and they are v.comfortable having amd sleeping mw in their houses too , and

They even invited me to overseas trip with them looooool idk what I am feeling suddenly I am part of group? But how Is it too good to be true ?

23F, So I never had best friend growing up, I was quite lonely in high school, and even in college cos I was never talkative kid.

So now that I am in uni , my group boys invited me for smoke and hangout with them, and I accepted it , I went and smoked with them , one of guy told me it's 3am u shpuld be home till now I was in their appartment I wish I would have taken that a sign but I smoked weed I was high and lonely I wanted to have company bit more , I didn't go I sat with them

We all were talking with each other and one of guy Said to another "ask her to fuck off" that's what I heard felt immediately extremely embarrassed, then I acted like I didn't hear it and they kept talking and I said I am so high i wanna go home and then they formally insisted but I left anyway ,

I feel like it was bcz of my loneliness that I've been in for 3 to 4 years and suddenly I got company and I didn't want to leave it I wish I would have left or done something diffrent 😔 so I didn't had to hear it

23F , I have extremely bad fear of loosing my parents or siblings ,, I use to pray In my teen God take me before everyone else. I don't now but I want to obv..

I really don't want to live , I don't want sympathy, this post had zero intention of sympathy but I have a genuine question why we are forced to live if we don't want to ?,

Let's say , I didn't like the world after coming to my senses now I want to die , why everyone reacts sympathetic and like I am miserable I am not. I just don't want to live anymore I don't want to breath , I don't want to eat ? I don't want to talk and act humanly .

I wonder what do I do so it doesn't seem rumor ke khudkushi kr k Mar gai andr ki baaten to allah hi jaany kia hua hoga ? Ghar me koi msla hoga , lrky k sath chkr hoga baap ne pkr lia hoga , none of its true .

I just want to leave forever quietly without noise , and I don't want others to make noise as well . Is it possible?

I am in med school. I am 23F, so in the beginning, I've had a group of friends they failed school sadly all 🥲 and quite now, I will be in the 4th year with grace of God. So when they left, I got isolated and never thibk of making friends outside my comfort zone .

So in my uni, there's this system of sections, sections A,B,C . I was in section B for 2 years, but now I have changed to section C because I had some of my own nationality people there, and I needed a change of environment. But there is a very big disadvantage people in section C DONT STUDY , THEY CHEAT IN EXAMS and don't come to classes I go alone my whole group absent and then teacher don't take class for me only.

I am thinking of going to seria A. There, everyone is regular , competitive, and very good in studies, and they dont cheat. I wanna STUDY. I don't want to cheat. Should I change myself series to A or not ? But people can talk about me thay she was in section 1st, then she changed to C, and now A , no one accepts her or what. This is the problem

23F , weigh 88 kg , want to reduce weight rapidly , with 10k steps everyday . I want to reduce atleast 10 kgs in 3 months.

I cant find good realistic diet plan on utube . Maybe anyone on cut ?, or diet can help me what they eat each and how to do this dieting stuff 😭

I am meeting a man in an hour now , he seems patient . He is a dentist. What do we do on first meeting? Talk about each other but how do I leave good impression to him about me too ?

In general and in female friendships ?

Like jeans , or shoes even or tops ? Shein or temu?

I have not attended any event conference or did any research yet . I want to go for dermatology . What If like I have no research and publications and attended events during med school I will be unemployed? I won't get spot?

I was raised in v.controllwd environment they use to force for everything even studying as a kid where I adapted thay I thought I must be forced to study 🥲 , but thays now how world works obv I live alone now and I don't study like whole semester and pass somehow prepring on last mints but I wanna be knowledgeable and game up my studies

I just can't untill someone force me this is so weird. What do I do? How do I force myself to study I wanna study all the time I wanna get good grades now not average or pass only

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Hello , I am almost finishing my graduation, and I am looking for a residency option, I want to do residency in romania I am romanian graduate but I am not eu citizen , I don't mind if they don't pay me but I just want to get residency.

Does anyone know any info about this ? And how much is competitive certain fields are like surgery etc ... thank you in advance

..I want to practice I'm certain fields in summar maybe , how do we do it ? Anyone knows

I am bit shy writting this but my long term goal is chasing something big , but mostly I got told to just settle down but" I dont want to literally " , I don't want to have husband but partner yes. I don't want to have lines of babies maybe 1 but I don't want marriage at all , .I don't want to settle for less in my career I don't want to compromise on my mental even 1% ,

I want to be surgeon :(

It's tough goal right? But that's what makes me happy so it doesn't seem tough to me , whenever I tell people I want to be surgeon they say usually people don't pick female surgeons coz males are more precise and patients are male oriented it's so weird to hear.

I wonder why I get so much advices to settle down , settle for less , settle for what I don't want.

I am so messy , hyperactive, if I try to do something it's 10000000% goona be mess .

Can't clean properly? Cant cook properly, can't study properly ,

Like how people who just lay their hands on something and they have kind of adults hands ? Idk and things turn out perfect. ?