u/Miserablie

Someone broke into my car and took the lil garbage bag I had and threw it everywhere. Left the center console open, glove box open and there was a few bucks in the center console. They didn't even take it. Just trashed my car

I am really trying to process what happened. My boyfriend was already laying in bed because he works a few hours before I do. I joined later, and all of a sudden he turns and starts grabbing at me and I don't respond because it happens quickly. He pulls down my shorts and I just let it all happen and I don't know why I didn't say a word I just was there like a dead deer. I am guilty for not speaking up and saying it isn't what I wanted. I am usually someone who loves sex, but idk this felt different and scary and I shut down. He couldn't get it in no matter what he tried and I just planked kind of ouching him off of me. Which I feel like to him should have been a sign because that isn't our normal. . Then he did whatever he felt he had to between my thighs while i just laid there and cried lmao. I left the bedroom right after. I feel disgusting. I feel stupid. I have always wondered why girls don't stop shit from happening because usually I stick up for myself, but i just let him treat me like a fucking blow up doll. I am so stupid for allowing this

Where should I go to for nipple piercings?

I have come to terms with it. When we were first getting to know each other, he wad an amazimg sweet guy. We discussed all our wants and what had happened to us in past relationships, and instantly connected on mutal agreements. We dated and everything was nice until we moved in together. I think he somehow hid his past transactions and made me believe he was ready to live with someone. I cover so much stuff now. My birthday weekend I bought everything just so I could enjoy my day. I find him to be a loser , I told him I will not cover anything anymore. I am a fool and paid for a lot. I admit to not being wise for sticking around. But we still live together.

This is really ridiculous 🤣. My sister recently got married I got them wedding gifts at the wedding, but while they were on vacation I sent her a John Pork baby blanket and only addressed it to her. I left a gift note saying it was for her first baby, and didn't address it to her husband because I figured he would find a way to take offense... well I ruined their day because he thinks it is satanic. I swear I always do something like this, luckily my sister found it absolutely hilarious but sometimes I think I can't read the room.

I have been giggling all week thinking about her getting it, I feel dumb

This past year has been hell. Nursing school, car accident, died got sick and died. Had to drop out of school. Had to move out and find a place to live because my mom moved into his house (they were married legally even tho they seperated when I was in 2nd grade), found out my bf was cheating on me the entire relationship even while my dad was dying. Had to find a new place to live again. I had to manage my sister's wedding right after all this. Car I bought used hit the hay. Had to get a new car. No PTO, no time off. No break. I am on survival mode I am so tired. I worked late so I could take time off for my birthday, then the wildfires happened and all my plans got canceled so I wasted my days off. I am tired. I am debating on finding a new job and having a week gap so I can breath. I am going off the rails

My life is one bad event after the other and I keep moving. I have been told if I didn't have bad luck I wouldn't have luck at all.

Today is my birthday, I took today off and worked late everyday to make up the hours soo I could go paddleboarding at sunrise and then head to my favorite amusement park. It is also 8 months without my dad today. I really wanted to keep myself distracted. I feel selfish that I am sitting here crying because my plans failed for my birthday while other people have lost their homes and worse. I couldn't even see the lake to paddleboard, the amusement park closed for air quality. Idk what to do today now, I wish I didn't take today off because now I am miserable thinking of my dad. Having a summer birthday means every year is unpredictable. The weather is always awful on my birthday, it is apart of my curse. I am going to sit around and feel sorry for myself for a bit then get the fuck over it haha as you need to.

Was planning for weeks to wake up and go for a sunrise paddle at presque isle and a bike ride. Then was going to go to waldameer after, now I think it will be too rough out. What other activites in erie are there to do? I am sad, this kinda thing happens every year on my birthday (ik it is way worse for the people who are directly impacted).

Other than buffets

I have kayaked many times and even have kayaked down rapids. I am not a beginner on the water, but I am terrified to get out on my paddleboard.

I just bought an ABBoard extra wide inflatable board, it comes with everything including a seat. I plan on sitting 99 % of the time and standing if I get ballsy.

I am so afraid it's going to pop. I have an irrational fear (I am sure I am not alone) that it will pop and I will be going down a river with a life jacket on. Has anyone here every popped a board? What if I was in the middle of a lake and I felt it deflating, would there be enough time to patch it?

I don't think she realizes it, but she always tears me down while she is being insecure. My older sister is drop dead gorgeous, like 10/10 model. I have been aware of this my entire life, how can you not be aware? I don't think I am ugly by an means, if anything I would say I am rather attractive but not anywhere near perfect as my sister is. So I have always compared myself to her my entire life, I try my best not to be jealous because I have great qualities too and it isn't the end of the world if my sister is gorgeous.

But my mom.. whenever she is around she is always making remarks about how jealous she is and how WE are so jealous. We were at the beach and she said "she's so perfect don't we just hate her?" And I said no, I do not.

At my sister's wedding last week she kept making remarks to me about how beautiful she is and we have so many reasons to be jealous. I have learned to ignore her, but then she said "we are going to look so awful in the photos aren't we? While she looks perfect." I said. "WE? Why are you including me in your negativity?" And walked away. Does she not realize by her mentioning how beautiful my sister is and how we didn't get lucky like her, she is indirectly insulting me. I know my sister is drop dead gorgeous, but man I don't need constant reminders!

My boyfriend and I went out to dinner tonight and we didn't really say anything. I am not one to go on my phone at restaurants, but I felt awkward so I scrolled facebook the whole time. I tried to talk to my bf at first and realized we had nothing to talk about. This honestly made me really sad and made me think, do I really want to be with a man that doesn't even talk or respond at dinner? I felt so alone. I feel like I am always talking to myself in this relationship.

My sister is having a bacherolette party in Buffalo. We do plan on doing the pedal bike tour around town and probably will bar hop/eat out. We are not really sure where else to go or what kinda places we should check out. Is there any rooftop bars that we should stop at? Canalside views? Any recommendations would be great! I tried to see what events were going on that weekend and nothing really.

I am a 27f and my bf who is 28 doesn't ever want to sleep with me. I have brought it up, because at first he was crazy about me and things changed quickly. He wanted sex more for a week then went back to the old ways. He said it was because he was tired, idk always some kind of excuse. Well lately it has been bugging me, because I am a sexual person and I find sex to be extremely important. I have also begun to question if he doesn't find me attractive. I embarrassingly brought it up again, because I am starting to grow an insecurity because of it. This time he said it has been on his mind and he wants to sooo bad he is just awkward, he is tired, he fell asleep, etc, just a ton of different reasons. I said okayy, as long as it isn't because of me..

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Well that was like 5 days ago, he didn't want to even touch me until today. I feel bad because I have been asking for sex, but the way he went about it made me not want it or care anymore. Well I already was starting to give up on caring.. I thought he had fallen asleep already but he didn't. He turned over, grabbed my hand and put it directly on his dick. I nervously giggled and said "is this your way of making a move?" And pulled my hand off.. it just didn't appeal to me at all. I do feel bad because I laughed, but at the same time who thinks that is the way to make a move 🤣 I am not asking for sex again, I am not asking why he doesn't want sex anymore. I don't want him to feel like he has to inorder to make me happy.

I have been having a mental break down because my sister decided I had to wear a white crop top that says maid of honor all day. We will be out all day, on a scenic cruise, bars, the amusement park. I have a large chest and I hate tight fitting clothing. She has never seen me wear a crop top so I don't know why she did this to me. My photo will be taken all day and I will be visibly uncomfortable.

What do you pair it with? I was going to try the Charlotte Tilsbury concealer too.

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My eyes are so sunken in and i just need to accept not getting filler

Is it easy to replace? Would a touch screen work?

My car is getting worked on so I needed a ride home from work. He was in a bad mood from his work and he was already speeding driving angerly and threatened to cut off an old lady because she wasn't going fast enough. We were heading to his bank and the ATM wasn't working and they were closed. He needed money for WEED and started to throw a fit because of it. I said I would pay for it and he could pay me back and this man child was like no. We get home and where we park is a minute walk to the door, he storms to the door way before me unlocks it and shuts it. How embarrassing, because he didn't get weed? I go inside and ask him what I did? And he said "nothing I am taking a shower and going to bed" ICKKKKKKK YOU ARE THROWING THAT BIG OF A FIT BECAUSE YOU CAN'T SMOKE WEED? I am done being with loser men that can't regulate their emotions. Grow the fuck up.