24M Chronically Online and Looking for Someone to Become My Favorite Notification
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24M | INFJ-T 1w2 | Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising
I'm looking for one person I can genuinely get close to and build a deep, lasting friendship with.
I'm probably a little too chronically online, especially right now. I'm currently on my summer break, which should last for another month or two at most, so I have a lot of free time at the moment and honestly want to give a big part of it to getting to know someone properly.
I'd rather find one person I really click with and put my energy into that friendship instead of talking to ten different people at once. I'm not looking to collect new friendships or have a dozen conversations going at the same time. I'm looking for one person to build a friendship with and stick with. I don't want this to turn into another conversation that lasts three days and disappears.
I'm also pretty clingy and talkative myself, so I'd love to meet someone who matches that energy. Someone who actually enjoys talking throughout the day, randomly messages me because they thought of something, sends me things they find funny or interesting, wants to tell me about their day and genuinely wants to know what's going on in my head too.
Obviously, we both have our own lives, responsibilities and things going on and I'm not expecting someone to be available every second of every day. That's completely normal. My availability will probably change once I start working, too. What matters to me is that the interest is actually there. Even when life gets busier, I want us to still make time for each other and naturally come back to each other instead of letting the connection slowly disappear.
I'm honestly tired of conversations where both people seem interested for a day or two and then suddenly neither person knows what happened. I don't want another friendship that starts with "you seem really cool!" and disappears three days later. If we're going to get to know each other, I'd like both of us to actually put some effort into it.
Once I care about someone, I tend to get really invested in them. I'm open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental, and I usually try to understand people before judging them. I'm naturally curious about what's going on inside people's heads, what shaped them, why they think the way they do and what makes them who they are. If I become close with someone, I want to know the little things too, not just the big stuff.
I'm also someone who values emotional intelligence quite a lot. I appreciate people who can communicate openly, talk about their feelings, reflect on themselves and genuinely try to understand the other person. I don't expect anyone to be perfect or to always know exactly what they're feeling. I just want someone who is willing to communicate instead of shutting down or making assumptions.
Because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to feel more natural to me in that dynamic, so I generally prefer female friendships. That said, personality and compatibility matter much more to me than simply being a certain gender.
As for things I actually enjoy, I'm really into anime, psychology, personality and MBTI, astrology, self-discovery and games. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you play, that's definitely a huge bonus.
Voice calls are also pretty important to me. I enjoy texting, but eventually I'd much rather be able to sit in a call with someone for hours, talk about absolutely nothing, have random conversations, laugh at stupid things and occasionally end up discussing something way too deep at 3 AM. Voice chat just makes a friendship feel much more real to me.
A little while ago, I lost someone I had become extremely close with and that experience made me realize just how much I value having that kind of connection with someone. I'm not looking to replace that person. If anything, it made me more certain that I want to build something meaningful again, naturally, with someone new.
I'm not expecting us to instantly become best friends. We won't know whether we're compatible until we actually talk. Maybe we'll click immediately, maybe it'll take some time, or maybe we'll realize we're not a good match. That's completely fine. I'd just like to meet someone who is genuinely willing to find out.
Ideally, I'd love for this to become the kind of friendship where we're each other's favorite person to talk to. Where we can share basically anything, where both of us genuinely look forward to hearing from the other, where we can be a little clingy without feeling like we're "too much" and where both people genuinely want the other person to be a part of their everyday life.
If you're naturally talkative, emotionally intelligent, curious, a little clingy yourself, and you're also looking for one genuinely close friendship rather than another temporary Reddit conversation, feel free to message me.
Even after everything I have said in this lengthy introduction I feel like so many things are left unsaid... That's why I would like to get to know you (person who's reading this) and see how it goes first! Things that are maybe left unsaid are things like that I really value intellectual talks and curiosity for example! I am a very curious person myself. So every bit of curiosity will be appreciated! I don't need to find a perfect match of a friend for me, but the closer that person is to me, the better!
Tell me a little about yourself when you do. I'd much rather get an actual introduction than just a "hey."