24M Chronically Online and Looking for Someone to Become My Favorite Notification

Europe only

24M | INFJ-T 1w2 | Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising

I'm looking for one person I can genuinely get close to and build a deep, lasting friendship with.

I'm probably a little too chronically online, especially right now. I'm currently on my summer break, which should last for another month or two at most, so I have a lot of free time at the moment and honestly want to give a big part of it to getting to know someone properly.

I'd rather find one person I really click with and put my energy into that friendship instead of talking to ten different people at once. I'm not looking to collect new friendships or have a dozen conversations going at the same time. I'm looking for one person to build a friendship with and stick with. I don't want this to turn into another conversation that lasts three days and disappears.

I'm also pretty clingy and talkative myself, so I'd love to meet someone who matches that energy. Someone who actually enjoys talking throughout the day, randomly messages me because they thought of something, sends me things they find funny or interesting, wants to tell me about their day and genuinely wants to know what's going on in my head too.

Obviously, we both have our own lives, responsibilities and things going on and I'm not expecting someone to be available every second of every day. That's completely normal. My availability will probably change once I start working, too. What matters to me is that the interest is actually there. Even when life gets busier, I want us to still make time for each other and naturally come back to each other instead of letting the connection slowly disappear.

I'm honestly tired of conversations where both people seem interested for a day or two and then suddenly neither person knows what happened. I don't want another friendship that starts with "you seem really cool!" and disappears three days later. If we're going to get to know each other, I'd like both of us to actually put some effort into it.

Once I care about someone, I tend to get really invested in them. I'm open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental, and I usually try to understand people before judging them. I'm naturally curious about what's going on inside people's heads, what shaped them, why they think the way they do and what makes them who they are. If I become close with someone, I want to know the little things too, not just the big stuff.

I'm also someone who values emotional intelligence quite a lot. I appreciate people who can communicate openly, talk about their feelings, reflect on themselves and genuinely try to understand the other person. I don't expect anyone to be perfect or to always know exactly what they're feeling. I just want someone who is willing to communicate instead of shutting down or making assumptions.

Because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to feel more natural to me in that dynamic, so I generally prefer female friendships. That said, personality and compatibility matter much more to me than simply being a certain gender.

As for things I actually enjoy, I'm really into anime, psychology, personality and MBTI, astrology, self-discovery and games. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you play, that's definitely a huge bonus.

Voice calls are also pretty important to me. I enjoy texting, but eventually I'd much rather be able to sit in a call with someone for hours, talk about absolutely nothing, have random conversations, laugh at stupid things and occasionally end up discussing something way too deep at 3 AM. Voice chat just makes a friendship feel much more real to me.

A little while ago, I lost someone I had become extremely close with and that experience made me realize just how much I value having that kind of connection with someone. I'm not looking to replace that person. If anything, it made me more certain that I want to build something meaningful again, naturally, with someone new.

I'm not expecting us to instantly become best friends. We won't know whether we're compatible until we actually talk. Maybe we'll click immediately, maybe it'll take some time, or maybe we'll realize we're not a good match. That's completely fine. I'd just like to meet someone who is genuinely willing to find out.

Ideally, I'd love for this to become the kind of friendship where we're each other's favorite person to talk to. Where we can share basically anything, where both of us genuinely look forward to hearing from the other, where we can be a little clingy without feeling like we're "too much" and where both people genuinely want the other person to be a part of their everyday life.

If you're naturally talkative, emotionally intelligent, curious, a little clingy yourself, and you're also looking for one genuinely close friendship rather than another temporary Reddit conversation, feel free to message me.

Even after everything I have said in this lengthy introduction I feel like so many things are left unsaid... That's why I would like to get to know you (person who's reading this) and see how it goes first! Things that are maybe left unsaid are things like that I really value intellectual talks and curiosity for example! I am a very curious person myself. So every bit of curiosity will be appreciated! I don't need to find a perfect match of a friend for me, but the closer that person is to me, the better!

Tell me a little about yourself when you do. I'd much rather get an actual introduction than just a "hey."

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 2 days ago
▲ 5 r/huion

How good is Huion Kamvas 13 actually?

I watched many videos about Huion Kamvas 13 and there are many opinions that are completely differrent from one another. There are people who tested it for a week or so and they were extremely happy, and there are people who have used Huion Kamvas 13 for a year or more and almost all of them are unhappy and report like 100 different problems they had with that tablet. I know that many digital artists will say "it's only 200-300 euros display tablet, it's cheap so it's understandable", but for me that amount of money is definitely not cheap and I wouldn't like to spend that much money on smth that has this many potential problems...
I thought of buying this display tablet myself, but after watching so many reviews I am not sure what to think anymore.

In my country I dont have many options to choose from but I am considering to buy smth cheaper like pen tablet if Huion Kamvas 13 is not so reliable long term

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 2 days ago

How good is Huion Kamvas 13 actually?

I watched many videos about Huion Kamvas 13 and there are many opinions that are completely differrent from one another. There are people who tested it for a week or so and they were extremely happy, and there are people who have used Huion Kamvas 13 for a year or more and almost all of them are unhappy and report like 100 different problems they had with that tablet. I know that many digital artists will say "it's only 200-300 euros display tablet, it's cheap so it's understandable", but for me that amount of money is definitely not cheap and I wouldn't like to spend that much money on smth that has this many potential problems...
I thought of buying this display tablet myself, but after watching so many reviews I am not sure what to think anymore.

In my country I dont have many options to choose from but I am considering to buy smth cheaper like pen tablet if Huion Kamvas 13 is not so reliable long term

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 3 days ago

24M Chronically Online and Looking for Someone to Become My Favorite Notification

Europe only

24M | INFJ-T 1w2 | Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising

I'm looking for one person I can genuinely get close to and build a deep, lasting friendship with.

I'm probably a little too chronically online, especially right now. I'm currently on my summer break, which should last for another month or two at most, so I have a lot of free time at the moment and honestly want to give a big part of it to getting to know someone properly.

I'd rather find one person I really click with and put my energy into that friendship instead of talking to ten different people at once. I'm not looking to collect new friendships or have a dozen conversations going at the same time. I'm looking for one person to build a friendship with and stick with. I don't want this to turn into another conversation that lasts three days and disappears.

I'm also pretty clingy and talkative myself, so I'd love to meet someone who matches that energy. Someone who actually enjoys talking throughout the day, randomly messages me because they thought of something, sends me things they find funny or interesting, wants to tell me about their day and genuinely wants to know what's going on in my head too.

Obviously, we both have our own lives, responsibilities and things going on and I'm not expecting someone to be available every second of every day. That's completely normal. My availability will probably change once I start working, too. What matters to me is that the interest is actually there. Even when life gets busier, I want us to still make time for each other and naturally come back to each other instead of letting the connection slowly disappear.

I'm honestly tired of conversations where both people seem interested for a day or two and then suddenly neither person knows what happened. I don't want another friendship that starts with "you seem really cool!" and disappears three days later. If we're going to get to know each other, I'd like both of us to actually put some effort into it.

Once I care about someone, I tend to get really invested in them. I'm open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental, and I usually try to understand people before judging them. I'm naturally curious about what's going on inside people's heads, what shaped them, why they think the way they do and what makes them who they are. If I become close with someone, I want to know the little things too, not just the big stuff.

I'm also someone who values emotional intelligence quite a lot. I appreciate people who can communicate openly, talk about their feelings, reflect on themselves and genuinely try to understand the other person. I don't expect anyone to be perfect or to always know exactly what they're feeling. I just want someone who is willing to communicate instead of shutting down or making assumptions.

Because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to feel more natural to me in that dynamic, so I generally prefer female friendships. That said, personality and compatibility matter much more to me than simply being a certain gender.

As for things I actually enjoy, I'm really into anime, psychology, personality and MBTI, astrology, self-discovery and games. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you play, that's definitely a huge bonus.

Voice calls are also pretty important to me. I enjoy texting, but eventually I'd much rather be able to sit in a call with someone for hours, talk about absolutely nothing, have random conversations, laugh at stupid things and occasionally end up discussing something way too deep at 3 AM. Voice chat just makes a friendship feel much more real to me.

A little while ago, I lost someone I had become extremely close with and that experience made me realize just how much I value having that kind of connection with someone. I'm not looking to replace that person. If anything, it made me more certain that I want to build something meaningful again, naturally, with someone new.

I'm not expecting us to instantly become best friends. We won't know whether we're compatible until we actually talk. Maybe we'll click immediately, maybe it'll take some time, or maybe we'll realize we're not a good match. That's completely fine. I'd just like to meet someone who is genuinely willing to find out.

Ideally, I'd love for this to become the kind of friendship where we're each other's favorite person to talk to. Where we can share basically anything, where both of us genuinely look forward to hearing from the other, where we can be a little clingy without feeling like we're "too much" and where both people genuinely want the other person to be a part of their everyday life.

If you're naturally talkative, emotionally intelligent, curious, a little clingy yourself, and you're also looking for one genuinely close friendship rather than another temporary Reddit conversation, feel free to message me.

Even after everything I have said in this lengthy introduction I feel like so many things are left unsaid... That's why I would like to get to know you (person who's reading this) and see how it goes first! Things that are maybe left unsaid are things like that I really value intellectual talks and curiosity for example! I am a very curious person myself. So every bit of curiosity will be appreciated! I don't need to find a perfect match of a friend for me, but the closer that person is to me, the better!

Tell me a little about yourself when you do. I'd much rather get an actual introduction than just a "hey."

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 3 days ago

Help me choose my first pen/display tablet

https://preview.redd.it/r7fpynayaojh1.png?width=1687&format=png&auto=webp&s=6eb3a10d616c373759535f1ac825e7d5282a933a

These are the only options I have in my country for pen/display tablets (yea, not so great). My friend has Huion H640P that he could give me for free, he used it only 2-3 times and then he bought Huion Kamva 13 one that can be seen in the picture. But I am not sure if 6 inch tablet would be big enough for me even if I am new to digital drawing... I could buy any tablet from the list above but my only question is "do I really need it?". I mean it's cool to get display tablet but is it really worth 3x price? I heard some people prefer pen tablets bcs you can just look at your monitor and you are in natural sitting position then. But apparently Huion Kamva 13 can also be used in that way if I need it, so it's not really a benefit at all. So maybe I should choose something in between H640P and Kamvas 13? Any recommendations? Which one is the best buy for the money or should I just get H640P from my friend and see after that? But I heard many reviews and a lot of them said 6 inch display is very small, especially if you have a larger monitor (I have 27 inch monitor)

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 4 days ago

24M Looking for someone curious and emotionally intelligent

(Europe Only)
About nine months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with and built a genuinely deep connection over time. Losing that kind of bond left a much bigger impact than I expected. It took time to process, heal and learn to appreciate what we had without trying to replace it. Now I feel ready to build something meaningful again.

I'm not looking for dozens of casual conversations or surface-level friendships. I'd much rather invest my time and energy into getting to know one person well. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences and feelings with and slowly build a connection based on trust, honesty and mutual understanding. I value consistency more than intensity, and I think the strongest friendships are built through the small conversations that happen every day.

I'd describe myself as open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental. I tend to balance logic and emotion depending on the situation and I naturally try to understand people instead of making assumptions about them. Curiosity is a big part of who I am. I enjoy learning how people think, what shaped them, and why they see the world the way they do. Psychology, self-discovery, personality, and meaningful conversations are all things I genuinely enjoy. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if it's simply as another lens for exploring personality and patterns.

One thing that's important to me is emotional intelligence. I value people who can communicate openly, reflect on their feelings and genuinely try to understand others instead of jumping to conclusions. Feeling understood is something I care deeply about and because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to flow more naturally in that dynamic for me, so I generally prefer female friendships.

Outside of that, I'm a huge anime fan, especially psychological, romance, isekai and adventure series. It would honestly be amazing to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share reactions, theories, and favorite moments. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you already play, or would be willing to learn together, that's definitely a bonus. I also really enjoy voice calls because they make conversations feel much more genuine than endless texting.

I already have friends, so I'm not trying to fill loneliness. What I'm looking for is different. I want one person I can genuinely prioritize and build a close, lasting friendship with. A friendship where neither person feels like they're "too much", where honesty is appreciated, where curiosity goes both ways and where we both feel comfortable being ourselves without overthinking every conversation.

If you're someone who's naturally curious, emotionally intelligent, enjoys meaningful conversations and is looking for a genuine connection instead of another casual chat, I'd love to hear from you. Just send me a short introduction about yourself and we'll see where things go.

Bonus

  • Personality Type: INFJ-T
  • Big Three: Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising
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u/MissionUpper8876 — 4 days ago
▲ 1 r/chat

24M | CEST | If you're curious and emotionally intelligent, let's talk (it's 3 AM)

It's somehow 3 AM here, which is usually when my brain decides this is a great time to reflect and post something like this.

About nine months ago, I lost a friendship that meant a lot to me. We talked every day, shared everything and built a connection that took a long time to grow. It took me a while to process that loss, but it also reminded me how meaningful it is to truly understand another person. Now I feel ready to build that kind of genuine connection again.

I'm someone who values depth over small talk. I love conversations that naturally drift into psychology, self-discovery, personality, life experiences, or simply exploring why people think and feel the way they do. Curiosity is probably one of the qualities I appreciate most in both myself and others.

I'm also really into anime, especially psychological, romance, isekai and adventure series. I've been playing League of Legends for over ten years and I find MBTI and astrology interesting too, even if it's just another way of looking at personality. None of those are requirements, of course, but having shared interests always gives us something fun to talk about.

More than anything, I'd love to talk to someone who's genuinely curious and emotionally intelligent. Someone who enjoys asking questions, communicating openly, reflecting on themselves and trying to understand people rather than making assumptions. I think the best conversations happen when both people are equally interested in learning about each other.

I'm open-minded, honest, loyal and pretty expressive. I love to yap just as much as I love listening, so conversations with me usually end up being a healthy mix of both. If we click, don't be surprised if one topic somehow turns into a three-hour conversation.

If you're also awake during this quiet night and any of this resonates with you, I'd genuinely enjoy hearing your story. Tell me a little about yourself, what you're passionate about, or even just what's been on your mind lately.

Bonus

  • Personality Type: INFJ-T
  • Big Three: Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising
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u/MissionUpper8876 — 13 days ago

24M Looking for someone curious and emotionally intelligent

(Europe Only)
About nine months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with and built a genuinely deep connection over time. Losing that kind of bond left a much bigger impact than I expected. It took time to process, heal and learn to appreciate what we had without trying to replace it. Now I feel ready to build something meaningful again.

I'm not looking for dozens of casual conversations or surface-level friendships. I'd much rather invest my time and energy into getting to know one person well. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences and feelings with and slowly build a connection based on trust, honesty and mutual understanding. I value consistency more than intensity, and I think the strongest friendships are built through the small conversations that happen every day.

I'd describe myself as open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental. I tend to balance logic and emotion depending on the situation and I naturally try to understand people instead of making assumptions about them. Curiosity is a big part of who I am. I enjoy learning how people think, what shaped them, and why they see the world the way they do. Psychology, self-discovery, personality, and meaningful conversations are all things I genuinely enjoy. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if it's simply as another lens for exploring personality and patterns.

One thing that's important to me is emotional intelligence. I value people who can communicate openly, reflect on their feelings and genuinely try to understand others instead of jumping to conclusions. Feeling understood is something I care deeply about and because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to flow more naturally in that dynamic for me, so I generally prefer female friendships.

Outside of that, I'm a huge anime fan, especially psychological, romance, isekai and adventure series. It would honestly be amazing to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share reactions, theories, and favorite moments. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you already play, or would be willing to learn together, that's definitely a bonus. I also really enjoy voice calls because they make conversations feel much more genuine than endless texting.

I already have friends, so I'm not trying to fill loneliness. What I'm looking for is different. I want one person I can genuinely prioritize and build a close, lasting friendship with. A friendship where neither person feels like they're "too much", where honesty is appreciated, where curiosity goes both ways and where we both feel comfortable being ourselves without overthinking every conversation.

If you're someone who's naturally curious, emotionally intelligent, enjoys meaningful conversations and is looking for a genuine connection instead of another casual chat, I'd love to hear from you. Just send me a short introduction about yourself and we'll see where things go.

Bonus

  • Personality Type: INFJ-T
  • Big Three: Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising
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u/MissionUpper8876 — 14 days ago

24M Looking for someone curious and emotionally intelligent

(Europe Only)
About nine months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with and built a genuinely deep connection over time. Losing that kind of bond left a much bigger impact than I expected. It took time to process, heal and learn to appreciate what we had without trying to replace it. Now I feel ready to build something meaningful again.

I'm not looking for dozens of casual conversations or surface-level friendships. I'd much rather invest my time and energy into getting to know one person well. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences and feelings with and slowly build a connection based on trust, honesty and mutual understanding. I value consistency more than intensity, and I think the strongest friendships are built through the small conversations that happen every day.

I'd describe myself as open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental. I tend to balance logic and emotion depending on the situation and I naturally try to understand people instead of making assumptions about them. Curiosity is a big part of who I am. I enjoy learning how people think, what shaped them, and why they see the world the way they do. Psychology, self-discovery, personality, and meaningful conversations are all things I genuinely enjoy. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if it's simply as another lens for exploring personality and patterns.

One thing that's important to me is emotional intelligence. I value people who can communicate openly, reflect on their feelings and genuinely try to understand others instead of jumping to conclusions. Feeling understood is something I care deeply about and because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to flow more naturally in that dynamic for me, so I generally prefer female friendships.

Outside of that, I'm a huge anime fan, especially psychological, romance, isekai and adventure series. It would honestly be amazing to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share reactions, theories, and favorite moments. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you already play, or would be willing to learn together, that's definitely a bonus. I also really enjoy voice calls because they make conversations feel much more genuine than endless texting.

I already have friends, so I'm not trying to fill loneliness. What I'm looking for is different. I want one person I can genuinely prioritize and build a close, lasting friendship with. A friendship where neither person feels like they're "too much", where honesty is appreciated, where curiosity goes both ways and where we both feel comfortable being ourselves without overthinking every conversation.

If you're someone who's naturally curious, emotionally intelligent, enjoys meaningful conversations and is looking for a genuine connection instead of another casual chat, I'd love to hear from you. Just send me a short introduction about yourself and we'll see where things go.

Bonus

  • Personality Type: INFJ-T
  • Big Three: Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising
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u/MissionUpper8876 — 15 days ago

What's my Enneagram type? There is no numerical representation and I can't see what is my Enneagram type because of that

I am an INFJ and when i was reading about about these Enneagram types even 6 made a lot of sense to me but according to this chart that should not be my type I guess? So what do you guys think is my Enneagram type? I guess it's 1w2? Could someone also tell me what my result tells about me

u/MissionUpper8876 — 23 days ago
▲ 4 r/LeoAstrology+3 crossposts

What kind of a person am I according to my natal chart + what kind of person/partner would suit me the best?

Hi everyone! I've been trying to learn more about astrology and would love some outside perspectives on my natal chart.

I'm especially curious about:

  • How would you describe my personality overall? What traits stand out the most, what are my biggest strengths and weaknesses, what misconceptions might people have about me, and what parts of my personality are obvious versus hidden?
  • What do you think motivates me most in life? Am I driven more by recognition, stability, freedom, creativity, helping others, mastery, emotions or something else?
  • How do people usually perceive me when they first meet me? Do I seem different from who I actually am? Am I more introverted or extroverted than my chart first suggests, and what role do I naturally take in friendships or social groups?
  • What do you think are the biggest lessons and challenges in my chart? What fears, blind spots or recurring patterns might hold me back, and what should I consciously work on or lean into as I grow?
  • What kind of romantic partner and relationship dynamic would suit me best? What kind of people am I naturally attracted to, who tends to be attracted to me and what qualities would make a relationship thrive or struggle?
  • Based on my chart, how do I approach love, dating, and relationships? How do I show affection, how do I prefer to receive love, what communication style suits me best and what are my biggest strengths and weaknesses as a partner?
  • What relationship patterns or blind spots stand out in my chart? Do I tend to idealize partners or fall for potential instead of reality? Am I more likely to chase excitement or stability in love? What fears or struggles (such as vulnerability, trust, commitment or communication) might affect my relationships, what could cause conflict, what dating blind spots should I be aware of and what kinds of traits would make me lose interest in someone?
  • Do you think I'm someone who ultimately values independence or deep companionship more? Sometimes I genuinely can't tell whether I'd be happiest having lots of personal freedom or spending most of my time with one person. I'd love to hear what my chart suggests.
  • Are there any placements, aspects, or chart patterns that you think deserve special attention? Is there anything particularly unusual, underrated, or especially important that stands out to you?

Optional For Fun Questions:

  • If my chart were a fictional character, who would it be?
  • If my chart belonged to someone in a movie, what role would they play?
u/MissionUpper8876 — 23 days ago

Leos, what's your honest opinion on Libras? Mostly as in relationships but overall experiences/opinions are welcomed too!

I've always heard people describe Leo and Libra as one of those "power couple" pairings, so I wanted to ask other Leos about their experiences with Libras.

Personally, I haven't met many Libras, so I'm definitely not an expert. That said, every Libra I've met has left a really positive impression on me. The energy has always felt very "bombastic" and I've genuinely enjoyed being around them. There just seems to be an easy chemistry that I haven't experienced with many other signs.

At the same time, I also understand why some people don't enjoy being around Leos. We can have pretty big egos, be stubborn, need a lot of attention, and sometimes come across as arrogant or needy. I mostly notice those traits because I'm a Leo myself. So it made me wonder if the Leo and Libra "power couple" reputation is mostly about the initial spark, or if it actually holds up in long-term relationships.

For those of you who have dated, been friends with, or spent a lot of time around Libras, how has it gone? Does the chemistry stay strong over time, or do the differences eventually become too much? Do you feel like Libras genuinely appreciate Leo energy, or does our need for attention eventually become exhausting for them?

I'm also curious what qualities of Libras you find most attractive. Is it their charm, social nature, confidence, or something else? What do you think makes Leo and Libra click so often?

That said, there is one thing I've consistently noticed about Libras that gives me pause, and I've seen quite a few other Leos mention it as well.

My biggest red flag with Libras, or even people with strong Libra placements, is how naturally flirtatious they can be. Almost every Libra I've met loves to flirt. It feels amazing when they're directing that attention toward you... until you realize they seem to interact that way with almost EVERYONE. Then the explanation is usually something like "That's just my personality" or "That's just my sense of humor". Or whatever Libras usually say to "excuse" their uncontrollable urge to do that.

Personally, I find that pretty disrespectful, especially in a relationship. Things like indecisiveness or some of the other stereotypical Libra traits don't really bother me because they don't directly affect me. But flirting with everyone just because it's "fun" is something I have a much harder time accepting.

What makes it even more confusing is that sometimes they genuinely don't seem to realize they're flirting, while other times it almost feels intentional, like they're trying to make you jealous just to see how you'll react.

So I'm curious what other Leos think. Have your experiences with Libras been mostly positive or negative? Have any of you made a Leo and Libra relationship work long-term? And if you've dealt with the flirtatious side of Libra, how did you handle it? Am I overthinking it, or have you noticed the same pattern?

Bonus Question (if someone knows): Is there a subreddit where I can find one Libra I could try interacting with online (chatting/vc'ing)? I have come across various Libra subreddits but I feel like most of them are mostly just for discussions about the Sign Libra and less about connecting with one. So I just want to see if anyone knows where I could try to connect with one?

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 1 month ago

Leo man here - I have few questions for Libras

As a Leo man, I've always heard positive things about Leo–Libra pairings. People on the internet even call it a "power couple," so I wanted to ask about it and hear other people's experiences.

Before I say anything, I'll admit that I haven't met many Libras, so I'm definitely not an expert on the topic. However, I can confirm that every encounter I've had with a Libra has been very positive. The experience always felt very "bombastic" and it was genuinely enjoyable being in their presence. I'd like to think it goes both ways, because Leos can be very generous, warm, and giving at times.

At the same time, Leo is a sign that can be very "dislikable" in certain situations because of the combination of ego, pride, and stubbornness. We can require a lot of attention or simply come across as needy. I'm sure there are plenty of Libras who dislike Leos or have had negative experiences with them. It also makes me wonder if what people describe as the Leo–Libra "power couple" is mostly about the incredible initial spark rather than long-term compatibility.

That brings me to my main question: how do Leo and Libra work in the long run? The initial chemistry clearly exists, at least from what I've experienced, but I'm curious about how well that connection holds up over time. How much do Libras actually enjoy the company of a Leo? Does it ever become suffocating because of a Leo's need for attention, confidence, or even arrogance in some cases?

I mostly notice the negative sides of Leo because I am one myself, and I know it can sometimes be difficult to deal with us, even though we also have many great qualities. So I'm curious, what do you think those attractive qualities are? Is there something about Leo that Libras find especially appealing?

On the other hand, I'll also mention one thing I've noticed about Libras that I personally dislike, and that I've seen other Leos mention as well.

My biggest "red flag" with Libras, or even people with strong Libra placements in their natal chart, is their flirtatious nature. Almost every Libra I've met loves to flirt. It feels amazing when a Libra woman is flirting with you... until you realize she acts the same way with EVERYONE else too. The explanation usually ends up being something like, "That's just my personality" or "That's my sense of humor". Or whatever Libras usually say to "excuse" their uncontrollable urge to do that.

Personally, I find that disrespectful. It's honestly my biggest concern when I think about a long-term relationship with a Libra. The usual criticisms people have of Libras, like indecisiveness or some of their other stereotypical "bad" traits don't really bother me because they don't directly affect me. But openly flirting with anyone who catches your attention just because it's "fun" is something that really doesn't sit well with me as a Leo.

What makes it even more frustrating is that, half the time, they don't even seem to realize they're doing it. The other half, it feels intentional, as if they're trying to make you jealous just to see how you'll react.

All my bad experiences aside I would like to see how it goes with a Libra woman in the future because I think there's definitely something extremely charming about them. Their personality, laughs, jokes are something I really enjoyed and they give Leo exactly what he wants compared to other signs that either need to force it or they don't have it in themselves at all. One of the things that I would like to emphasize again is that I would like to know what Libra women like and dislike about Leo men and what I ,as Leo, could do to make one feel better.

On the end my last question would be is there a place (subreddit) where I can engage and find a Libra I could interact with and learn more? I assume this is not exactly the subreddit for getting to know one and is more about asking questions and having discussions about Libra as a sign. So give me any recommendations if you have any!

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 1 month ago

23M | Lost my special person 9 months ago... | Now looking for one 😔

23M | Europe (Montenegro) | Looking for someone from Europe

Around 9 months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with, and built a really deep connection with over time. Losing that kind of bond affected me more than I expected. It left a gap that isn’t easy to replace, but after taking time to process everything and heal, I feel ready to try and find something meaningful again.

I’m not interested in having a lot of surface level or casual friendships. What I’m really looking for is one person I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences, and feelings with, and build something consistent and meaningful over time. I want to be able to give my attention, care, and effort to someone who values that kind of connection too. Things like honesty, openness, emotional depth, and mutual understanding matter a lot more to me than small talk or forced conversations.

A bit about me. I would describe myself as open minded, honest, loyal, and non judgmental. I tend to think both emotionally and logically, depending on the situation, and I try to understand people rather than judge them. I’m very interested in psychology, self discovery, and how people think and feel. I enjoy conversations that go beyond the surface, whether that’s about personal experiences, perspectives on life, or just trying to understand each other better. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if just as a way to explore personality and patterns.

In my free time, I watch a lot of anime. I’m especially into psychological, isekai, romance, and adventure genres. It would honestly mean a lot to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share that experience with. I’ve also been playing League of Legends for over 10 years, so it would be great if you already play or would be open to playing together. I also value voice calls quite a bit, since I feel like they help create a more real and natural connection compared to just texting.

I do have friends, so I’m not looking to fill a void of loneliness in that sense. What I’m looking for is something different. I want one person I can prioritize and build a deeper bond with. Someone who feels safe being themselves, who doesn’t have to question if they’re too much or worry about being annoying. I want something where both people feel comfortable, valued, and understood.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect more naturally with female friends, mostly because conversations about emotions, personal thoughts, and deeper topics tend to flow more easily for me in that dynamic.

If what I wrote resonates with you and you’re looking for something similar, feel free to send a short introduction about yourself. No pressure, just a simple message so we can see if we click and take it from there.

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Personality Type: INFJ-T
Big Three: Leo Sun | Taurus Moon | Sagittarius Rising

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 1 month ago

23M | Europe (Montenegro) | Looking for someone from Europe

Around 6 months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with, and built a really deep connection with over time. Losing that kind of bond affected me more than I expected. It left a gap that isn’t easy to replace, but after taking time to process everything and heal, I feel ready to try and find something meaningful again.

I’m not interested in having a lot of surface level or casual friendships. What I’m really looking for is one person I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences, and feelings with, and build something consistent and meaningful over time. I want to be able to give my attention, care, and effort to someone who values that kind of connection too. Things like honesty, openness, emotional depth, and mutual understanding matter a lot more to me than small talk or forced conversations.

A bit about me. I would describe myself as open minded, honest, loyal, and non judgmental. I tend to think both emotionally and logically, depending on the situation, and I try to understand people rather than judge them. I’m very interested in psychology, self discovery, and how people think and feel. I enjoy conversations that go beyond the surface, whether that’s about personal experiences, perspectives on life, or just trying to understand each other better. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if just as a way to explore personality and patterns.

In my free time, I watch a lot of anime. I’m especially into psychological, isekai, romance, and adventure genres. It would honestly mean a lot to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share that experience with. I’ve also been playing League of Legends for over 10 years, so it would be great if you already play or would be open to playing together. I also value voice calls quite a bit, since I feel like they help create a more real and natural connection compared to just texting.

I do have friends, so I’m not looking to fill a void of loneliness in that sense. What I’m looking for is something different. I want one person I can prioritize and build a deeper bond with. Someone who feels safe being themselves, who doesn’t have to question if they’re too much or worry about being annoying. I want something where both people feel comfortable, valued, and understood.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect more naturally with female friends, mostly because conversations about emotions, personal thoughts, and deeper topics tend to flow more easily for me in that dynamic.

If what I wrote resonates with you and you’re looking for something similar, feel free to send a short introduction about yourself. No pressure, just a simple message so we can see if we click and take it from there.

Bonus
Personality Type: INFJ-T
Big Three: Leo Sun | Taurus Moon | Sagittarius Rising

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 4 months ago

23M | Europe (Montenegro) | Looking for someone from Europe

Around 6 months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with, and built a really deep connection with over time. Losing that kind of bond affected me more than I expected. It left a gap that isn’t easy to replace, but after taking time to process everything and heal, I feel ready to try and find something meaningful again.

I’m not interested in having a lot of surface level or casual friendships. What I’m really looking for is one person I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences, and feelings with, and build something consistent and meaningful over time. I want to be able to give my attention, care, and effort to someone who values that kind of connection too. Things like honesty, openness, emotional depth, and mutual understanding matter a lot more to me than small talk or forced conversations.

A bit about me. I would describe myself as open minded, honest, loyal, and non judgmental. I tend to think both emotionally and logically, depending on the situation, and I try to understand people rather than judge them. I’m very interested in psychology, self discovery, and how people think and feel. I enjoy conversations that go beyond the surface, whether that’s about personal experiences, perspectives on life, or just trying to understand each other better. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if just as a way to explore personality and patterns.

In my free time, I watch a lot of anime. I’m especially into psychological, isekai, romance, and adventure genres. It would honestly mean a lot to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share that experience with. I’ve also been playing League of Legends for over 10 years, so it would be great if you already play or would be open to playing together. I also value voice calls quite a bit, since I feel like they help create a more real and natural connection compared to just texting.

I do have friends, so I’m not looking to fill a void of loneliness in that sense. What I’m looking for is something different. I want one person I can prioritize and build a deeper bond with. Someone who feels safe being themselves, who doesn’t have to question if they’re too much or worry about being annoying. I want something where both people feel comfortable, valued, and understood.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect more naturally with female friends, mostly because conversations about emotions, personal thoughts, and deeper topics tend to flow more easily for me in that dynamic.

If what I wrote resonates with you and you’re looking for something similar, feel free to send a short introduction about yourself. No pressure, just a simple message so we can see if we click and take it from there.

Bonus
Personality Type: INFJ-T
Big Three: Leo Sun | Taurus Moon | Sagittarius Rising

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 4 months ago

23M | Europe (Montenegro) | Looking for someone from Europe

Around 6 months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with, and built a really deep connection with over time. Losing that kind of bond affected me more than I expected. It left a gap that isn’t easy to replace, but after taking time to process everything and heal, I feel ready to try and find something meaningful again.

I’m not interested in having a lot of surface level or casual friendships. What I’m really looking for is one person I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences, and feelings with, and build something consistent and meaningful over time. I want to be able to give my attention, care, and effort to someone who values that kind of connection too. Things like honesty, openness, emotional depth, and mutual understanding matter a lot more to me than small talk or forced conversations.

A bit about me. I would describe myself as open minded, honest, loyal, and non judgmental. I tend to think both emotionally and logically, depending on the situation, and I try to understand people rather than judge them. I’m very interested in psychology, self discovery, and how people think and feel. I enjoy conversations that go beyond the surface, whether that’s about personal experiences, perspectives on life, or just trying to understand each other better. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if just as a way to explore personality and patterns.

In my free time, I watch a lot of anime. I’m especially into psychological, isekai, romance, and adventure genres. It would honestly mean a lot to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share that experience with. I’ve also been playing League of Legends for over 10 years, so it would be great if you already play or would be open to playing together. I also value voice calls quite a bit, since I feel like they help create a more real and natural connection compared to just texting.

I do have friends, so I’m not looking to fill a void of loneliness in that sense. What I’m looking for is something different. I want one person I can prioritize and build a deeper bond with. Someone who feels safe being themselves, who doesn’t have to question if they’re too much or worry about being annoying. I want something where both people feel comfortable, valued, and understood.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect more naturally with female friends, mostly because conversations about emotions, personal thoughts, and deeper topics tend to flow more easily for me in that dynamic.

If what I wrote resonates with you and you’re looking for something similar, feel free to send a short introduction about yourself. No pressure, just a simple message so we can see if we click and take it from there.

Bonus
Personality Type: INFJ-T
Big Three: Leo Sun | Taurus Moon | Sagittarius Rising

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u/MissionUpper8876 — 4 months ago