Philly girls 30+ who need friends, where are you?

We’ve started a WhatsApp community! And already have a few scheduled meetups that revolve around museums, hiking and even a fun Halloween event. If you’d like to join, send me a DM with 1-2 things about you and I’ll send you our link to join.

This community is intentional and was started because we realize life is better with friends, better with company and better enjoying everything the city has to offer, together 💓

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u/MotherPart4282 — 14 days ago

Are we just all surviving on savings? How are we keeping afloat?

Like the rest you, I’ve been unemployed from corporate for a few months now. I get interviews with no actual outcomes. I’ve been relying on savings but that will dry out soon. Then what? What are we all doing?

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u/MotherPart4282 — 2 months ago
▲ 21 r/avesNYC

To my people 35+, where are we partying these days?

I love dancing and house but it’s been tough to find the right environment. Would love your suggestions 🥰

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u/MotherPart4282 — 2 months ago
▲ 11 r/floxies

80% recovered from antibiotic destruction - 1 year later

Hi loves! I’ve posted in this channel many times in complete despair earlier in my journey. I wasn’t affected by floxy class but azithromycin antibiotic destroyed my life. I worked with a leading researcher and endless functional doctors to discover that the gut stops producing SCFAs which give calming signals to the immune system, like butyrate. But producing this isn’t enough. Your body has to be able to absorb it also, but you cannot do so since antibiotics oxidize cells. I started turning to injected shots of CoQ10 and Super B complex of B1 - B12. NAD+ (super important cellular energy required to power the signals in the system) I went to my local wellness clinic in my city (they are popping up everywhere, just google vitamin shots) Each shot and each treatment I began recovery of my cellular injury created by the antibiotic. Prior to this I had developed MCaS with severe burning and inflammation from the antibiotic. I had literally lost all hope until I disconcerted these theories with the help of my researcher (Mohammed Attallah) and help of intramuscular vitamin shots + SCFAs.

One year later I am now applying for jobs again, I can function normally, my social life is back and most importantly I have hope for my future. I wish you all well!

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u/MotherPart4282 — 2 months ago

Hang tight. Job postings are about to bounce back in September 👏

Summer was dead. Ghost postings and people on vacation and budgets being cut. Things are already shaping up. Starting this week and through all September, get your application volume up. September is getting serious.

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u/MotherPart4282 — 2 months ago

Switching from advertising sales. Help me break into the pharma regulatory industry

10+ years of corporate media and advertising sales experience. After a health issues knocked me off my feet and resulted in getting laid off I have no desire to go back to what burned me. I’ve since developed a passion for pharma, science and research.
I think the regulatory side could be an interesting way to intertwine my advertising background with regulations but I know there’s no way to break in without hands on experience. Do I go for certification?

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u/MotherPart4282 — 2 months ago

Please tell me if eating the same bland food over and over again is a symptom of Asperger’s?

No appetite for anything healthy, unique or different. Really enjoy fast food and simple sandwich.

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u/MotherPart4282 — 3 months ago

Im really struggling with my aspie bf, sexually and emotionally.

He is a brilliant caring man who runs a business but is otherwise very emotionally flat. I am a very excited type of person and wear my happiness on my sleeve. His lack of joy and excitement or need for shared passions really chips away at our relationship. He is really content spending time at home with me while I like to discover foods and restaurants or walk somewhere. I used to blame this on our differences but a lot of it actually comes down to Asperger’s. There have been a few social situations where I have to ask if he’s okay bc he shuts down. And just today he told me he doesn’t care or seek out social situations. I don’t realize how bad it all gets until something sexual happens and I literally can’t get turned on bc I realize we are no longer emotionally connecting. Then even sex is awkward. He acts like it’s a porno rather than deeply connecting with me. You may ask why I don’t leave but he’s been at my side through my own challenging moments and I do love him. He reiterates his love for me but it’s often hard. He will never come to me for a hug or to cuddle or for affection outside of sex. I’m just struggling. I want this to work. Help.

Edit: I didn’t expect all of these comments with such amazing insight. Thank you so much to everyone who poured their heart into the comments. It gives me so much context and useful information and validation to work with. I also expressed a lot to my partner in these last few days and he truly does try to put in effort. For example he said we can start doing breakfast outside once a week. That’s a win for me 🥰

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u/MotherPart4282 — 3 months ago

40M dentist bf complains about buying gf 36F ice-cream. Would you be cautious?

He drives a 15 year old car and the apt looks like it belongs to a poor person. I’m not with him for money. I work my own job and provide my own happiness.He has incredible smart and loyal qualities about him I love. But it’s getting out of hands with money lately. He tells me I ask for too much like Ice cream. Lately asks to make a spreadsheet budget meanwhile we never do much together other then visit the local restaurant up the block that averages $45 per dinner (we don’t drink)

I’m not sure what to do. Or how to change his deep rooted money fears

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u/MotherPart4282 — 4 months ago
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(M) Partner uses so much spit as lube on me (F) I get so turned off 😭

Is something wrong with me? My body immediately shuts down. He’s been doing this for many months now. I hate it so much

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u/MotherPart4282 — 4 months ago

Burning pains inside left breast are getting bad.

I’ve had this pain for about four years. I got an ultrasound and stopped worrying. However recently it came back pretty intense to the point where it wakes me up and I’m scared. The pain flashes on and off in between seconds. It turns on for a few seconds. Then off.

It’s radiating from the middle inside of the breast. I’m loosing my mind. What is this?

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u/MotherPart4282 — 4 months ago

Just did coQ10 shot and so far so good!

I’ve been destroyed after antibiotics. Lost my ability to eat without major reactions and swelling and pain. I’m 10 months in and a functional doctor recommended getting a bunch of shots and peptides. What else should I try???

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u/MotherPart4282 — 5 months ago
▲ 1 r/family

Sister in law HATES me to death

My SIL has never really liked me, but things came to a head at a recent family event. I made a real effort to be cordial and friendly, but she refused to make eye contact with me the whole night even while sitting directly across from me at the table. At one point, she pulled my family away to take photos without including me. Later, she went off with my dad and stepmom and made comments like “a family who leaves together stays together,” which felt very pointed.

When my brother tried to take a selfie with me, she pushed him out of the way. The week prior I went to her daughter’s birthday party where she looked at me like I was the devil. I told her her gift was being delivered and she nodded with nothing else. I was excluded from any photos again. It was mentally taxing to even show up but I do it for my brother. Eventually I confronted her privately and asked if she was upset with me. She responded with, “I’m not going to be fake,” and then accused me of “never being around” or texting them, which honestly isn’t true. I told her it’s hard to reach out when I constantly feel disliked or excluded by her. Then she randomly said that her kids don’t even know me? Me and my nephew always play and have fun even though I don’t live next door and can’t be around 24/7. She needs an army of people who cater to her.

The conversation turned into her listing grievances while completely dismissing how hurtful and psychotic her behavior has been toward me. The bigger issue is that she has a very strong influence over family dynamics, and I genuinely worry that if I don’t somehow “win her over,” I’ll continue being shut out from my brother and family events. The only way to keep this relationship in my life is by being the bigger person and ass kissing, but quite frankly how much of that can I do without destroying myself. Nothing I do ever seems to be enough. I have never received a single thank you for any gift sent their way. My dad invited me to dinner next week and I honestly don’t even want to go because I’m emotionally exhausted from feeling separate from my own family.

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u/MotherPart4282 — 5 months ago
▲ 2 r/MCAS

50% improvement in mcas

Guys I’ve had a 50% improvement in MCAS 🥹 It’s almost hard to believe that I went from 2-3 food to 15-20 in as little as two weeks. Apparently my root cause issue was total lack of short chain fatty acids which is supposed to be produced by healthy bacteria. If your body isn’t producing this, your system will lose its breaks on the immune system. Some people have heard of butyrate but that’s only 1 short chain fatty acid and dismisses the rest of them. Desperately researching how to regain this production I stumbled on ThaenaBiotic. It’s made from healthy bacteria and contains all of the signals your gut is missing. It’s not a probiotic (we all know those don’t work) But I am endlessly grateful to this company for restoring half of my life. I had lost my job and had moved back to my mom’s place before all of this. Also they gave me a discount code “Biotic15” for being a frequent purchaser. I hope it works for you guys bc this stuff is expensive. But seriously check your short chain fatty acid levels through the gut zoomer test or try ThaenaBiotic. It saved my life after almost a year of suffering.

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u/MotherPart4282 — 5 months ago