I’d need help with getting groceries and toiletries for my brother and his disabled daughter

Hello everyone, I never thought I’d have to make such a post, but I’m from Slovakia, Europe, and I’m in an incredibly tight spot. I work part time (factory) and study part time. My father and brother were just released from the hospital after a smaller car crash so they can’t work for a few weeks. Mine and my mother’s paycheck barely get us through. I’m not asking for us because us, adults, will eat anything but my brother‘s daughter needs special food and hygienic care. She receives some money from the government (341 EUR/month), but they aren’t nearly enough for a person, especially since her father hasn’t been working. Absolutely anything helps.

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 7 hours ago

Feminism-hating women are such a weird breed of humans to me

I’m a gay guy, so I obviously have no cards in the game, but I do have a lot of female friends (most are feminists, I’d hope), so I know some stuff, but I can’t even begin to imagine how you WOULDN‘T be a feminist. It would be like me being homophonic and/or actively working AGAINST my own rights.

Like, how are you gonna bite the hand that fed you and saved you…from hell? Do these people not know just how many rights women had in the past? You can’t talk bad about feminism AND enjoy its fruits of labor at the same time.

When a woman comes out as a feminism-hater, the first thing that comes to my mind is, “Oh, she must be severely undereducated“ because I just don’t have it in me to think that an educated woman would go against her own rights.

This especially applies to women in politics. You wouldn’t be in politics without those brave women who fought for those rights. You’d be in the kitchen with six kids on your hip and a drunk, r@pist husband in your bed.

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 4 days ago

Mennyire volt nehéz megszokni, illetve újrakezdeni mindent?

Jelenleg egyetemre járok (diplomás ápoló), diploma után az USA-ba fogok költözni. A közvetítő iroda, aki által költözni fogok, fogja kérni, hogy nevezzek meg minimum 5 államot, ahova költözni szeretnék és ők azok közül választanak egyet, ahol jelenleg a legnagyobb ápolói hiány van, és lényegében oda fogok költözni.

Mondani sem kell, van azért félelem. Ismerős nélkül, teljesen egyedül megyek. Van pár barátom az államokban, de végülis nem tudom, hova fognak helyezni majd. A közvetítő cég (O'Grady Peyton) miatt nem aggódom, ment már ismerősöm tőlük, minden lépésnél fogják a kezed és segítenek.

Mindig is tudtam, hogy meleg srácként nincs nagy jövőm itthon, végülis meg szeretnék házasodni egy nap. Szóval, mindenképp megyek, csak pici félelemmel.

Aki költözött már (főleg más országba), mennyire volt nehéz beilleszkedni, barátokat/közösséget találni, stb.

Köszönöm előre is!

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 6 days ago

Sehki is a weirdo

This was CLEARLY a setup. You don't even have to be a fan of Biggie to know that. Both Sehki and corny Mariah are weirdos, and I hate having to watch them in every damn episode

With friends like these, who'd need enemies. I feel bad for Biggie

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 11 days ago

Mariah is annoying the ever living shit out of me

How are you gonna talk ALL THAT SHIT and when Ciroc runs up, you're actually, PHYSICALLY hiding behind Tesehki? You're talking mad crap and when someone steps to her she's like "Oh you're running up on little old me?"

She's more annoying than Summer because Summer at least squares up (she still loses but at least doesn't run away after talking shit)

I just can't with this old whacko, someone get this gnat with teeth off my screen

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 26 days ago

Do you absolutely need a car in rural America?

I'm from Central Europe, I'll soon be graduating as a Registered Nurse, and I'll be moving to the US. I've spoken to the agency that'll be sponsoring my green card to the US. It's a three year contract, and once it ends, I'm free to move wherever I want within the US, but during those three years, they have the right to place me anywhere in the US. 99% of the time, it's in underserved, rural areas.

Coming from the middle of nowhere (a village of 400 people) in Europe, we still had multiple buses/trains connecting us to cities.

I know that's not the case for the US.

So, I'd love to ask people who've lived in rural areas, is there just ZERO public transport?

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 26 days ago

Andrei is annoying the f out of me

I've no idea where everyone stands on him, but Oh My God! I'm watching Happily Ever After season 5 (NO SPOILERS PLEASE), but jeez!

He's rude af. He's BEEN rude since the very beginning. He doesn't work, and fully expects his in-laws to pay for his wedding in Moldova, and he's rude to THEM. Like, they just landed in Moldova, and he's ALREADY being a jackass.

I have zero clue what Libby sees in this loser. I don't see any redeeming qualities whatsoever. Entitled weirdo.

Sorry, rant's over lol

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 1 month ago

Did the showrunners hate Selim?

When they're small, it's always Selim who's mean to Bayezid, it's always Selim who starts trouble. Were the showrunners just super biased toward Bayezid over Selim?

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

Why do people say Bali Bay doesn’t take sides when he clearly did?

When they were trying to find Ibrahim’s gold, and the Sultanas tried to smuggle it out of the palace, and the Sultan caught them. Bali Bey came to their rescue and straight up lied to Suleiman’s face.

That’s taking a side to me…

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

How is it living in New England?

I'm from Central Europe, but I'll be moving to the US as a Registered Nurse, and I'm seriously considering settling down in New England because it looks so beautiful to me.

u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

No spoilers please but Syngin and Tania

What on God’s green earth. I’m on season 7 episode 9, and it’s bonkers to me. It takes a lot for me to be on a man’s side, but WHAT ARE YOU DOING.

You have 90 days IN TOTAL to get married. He flies across the world to you. You should be spending those 90 days trying to figure out if you’re a good match at all, and here she leaves for Costa Rica leaving him alone with people he doesn’t even know.

Like, I would never in a billion years do this to my man. I get it that she really wanted to go, but then why do this at all? Why didn’t she tell him upfront, “I’ve got this Costa Rica thing coming up, so come AFTER I’m done there,” instead of having him fly across the world only to leave him alone with her mom?

Rant’s over, please don’t spoil it for me.

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

Can Hungarian/EU nurses realistically still get sponsored to work in the US these days?

Hi everyone,

I’m a Hungarian/EU nursing student and I’m trying to realistically understand my chances of getting a U.S. work visa as a nurse in the future.

My current plan is to finish nursing school in Europe, work 1–2 years in med-surg to gain experience, and then start applying to hospitals/agencies in the U.S.

I know nurses can sometimes get sponsored, but I’m curious how realistic this actually is these days for someone from Hungary/Europe. Are hospitals still sponsoring foreign nurses regularly?

I’d also love to hear from:

  • European nurses who successfully moved to the U.S.
  • Recruiters or managers familiar with sponsorship
  • Anyone currently going through the process

I also know there can be differences between European and U.S. nursing education. From what I’ve read, this seems to affect UK-trained nurses only because UK nursing degrees are more specialized (adult nursing, mental health nursing, children’s nursing, etc.), while Hungarian ones are more similar to the US ones.

I’m mainly trying to figure out whether this is a genuinely achievable goal.

Thanks!

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

How are they all able to criticise Suleiman's decisions SO OPENLY?

Bali Bey is saying to Rüstem "I'll die behind His Majesty, his will is above all..." but lets Matrakçı run his mouth about how everyone will lose their heads who was behind Ibrahim's death. No matter what, Suleiman was the one who actually ordered Ibrahim's execution, yet Bali Bey doesn't say shit.

Again, Matrakçı is openly criticising Ibrahim's death on the hallway of the throne room TO THE Grand Vizier, and Suleiman is literally there in the throne room.

Like, they get away with openly criticising the monarch's decisions...

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

Camilla, girl...

I'd expect these mistakes from newbies, not from y'all because how are you gonna talk ALL THAT SHI, get dolled up and go to meetings? What did she expect? Like, I don't have it in me to feel bad for her because this is to be expected. You've done this before, so you know how it goes.

You run your mouth online → you meet → you fight

It can never get simpler than this.

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

Please tell me 90 Day Fiance season seven is the most boring season that I'll have to suffer through...

So, I'm on season 7 episode 7, and I have to LITERALLY force myself to watch it. It's soooo boring. Like, there's no real drama between anyone. Angela and Michael just came on, so I hope there's gonna be some drama between them, but the others? SOOO boring, especially having just watched Before The 90 Days season 3, and that was FILLED with drama. This one feels like garbage in comparison...

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago

[IWANTOUT] 27M Hungary -> US

How realistic is US visa sponsorship for European nurses these days?

Hi everyone,

I’m a Hungarian nursing student and I’m trying to realistically understand my chances of getting a U.S. work visa as a nurse in the future.

My current plan is to finish nursing school in Europe, work 1–2 years in med-surg to gain experience, and then start applying to hospitals/agencies in the U.S.

I’d also love to hear from:

- European nurses who successfully moved to the U.S.

- Recruiters or managers familiar with sponsorship

- Anyone currently going through the process

I’m mainly trying to figure out whether this is a genuinely achievable goal or something that’s becoming much harder nowadays.

I also know there can be differences between European and U.S. nursing education. From what I’ve read, this seems to affect UK-trained nurses only because UK nursing degrees are more specialized (adult nursing, mental health nursing, children’s nursing, etc.), but Hungarian nursing schools are much more similar to the U.S. ones. I also know that it involves credential evaluation, NCLEX, etc.

Thanks in advance!

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u/Necessary_Hand_8036 — 2 months ago