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Akhir bulan April ceritanya habis update software trus tiba-tiba gak mau vibrate, padahal biasanya gak pernah bermasalah kalo ada notifikasi pun selalu bergetar. Beberapa hari sempet dibiarin karena mungkin bug habis update kan, akhirnya coba restart ulang hp dan akhirnya kembali bisa bergetar lagi ketika di mode vibrate.

Belakangan ini hp kembali bermasalah dan gak mau vibrate, walau udah segala macem cara dicoba kayak restart hp, reset factory, dll. Ada pengalaman serupa juga gak buat kawan-kawan di sini? Apa ada yang pernah bawa ke service center? Kena berapa ya kalo benerin bagian hp yang bermasalah (khususnya buat vibrate-nya). Thanks untuk yang jawab!

Hey peeps! Today (Sunday, July 5th) is the day of my JLPT exam. JLPT is the Japanese Language Proficiency Test. I accidentally chose the highest level, N1. I should have chosen N2, but oh well, haha!

Some languages have tests like this, e.g., English IELTS or TOEIC, Mandarin HSK, Korean TOPIK, German Goethe-Zertifikat or TestDaF, etc.

I saw a lot of people from my city taking the exam. I also saw my ex-colleague from my previous workplace 👀 I am legitimately afraid because I am not studying properly due to my busy work schedule. Too many smart people gather here!!!

Please give me confidence, strength, and wish me luck! 🤞🏻

Edit: if I am not responding to all of the comments here, it's because my phone was collected during the exam, not because I am ignoring or ghosting you 🙂‍↕️

I am a language tutor, and I have no classes today from 1pm until the end of my shift.

Strictly want to talk to SFW-only accounts: no minors, no new accounts, and no low-effort text. Don't like, don't text.

Thanks!

I am not sure about the flair, but I think it's related.

I received a notification in my notification bar (android app) and also in my email that someone commented on a post I wrote. When I tried to open it, the comment wasn't there (this comment no longer exists). I tried both the android app and the desktop web version; the result was the same. I was wondering if there was a way to see the comment. It's also possible someone wrote something rude to me 🤔

Hello fellow INFPs!

I wanted to open up a discussion about boundaries, monogamy, and how we protect our peace in relationships. I've been reflecting on a past relationship of mine, and I'm really curious to know how other INFPs would feel or react if you were in my shoes.

A while ago, I dated a guy (let's call him B). B is bisexual and from the Netherlands. Before me, he had a 4-year relationship with an American guy (let's call him L). They eventually broke up because L realized he wasn't gay and they couldn't have children.

However, their post-breakup dynamic was... highly unconventional, to say the least. Even though they claimed they no longer had romantic or sexual feelings for each other and were "strictly friends," they had a grand plan: they wanted to live under the same roof with their respective future partners. So, it would be four people (B, L, and both of their new partners) living together in one house.

On top of that, B and L still openly said "I love you" to each other and displayed some intimacy, justifying it as just "loving each other as friends." Even though they are currently living in different countries.

As an INFP who values traditional monogamy, deep emotional clarity, and strong boundaries, this entire situation felt incredibly messy and draining. To me, it felt like emotional enmeshment, where past relationships aren't truly closed but just repackaged, leaving very little room for a new partner to feel secure or prioritized.

When I was dating B, I tried to accept him, be open, and like his friends. I even tried to acknowledge his past, thinking it was just the past and that we should focus on what is now and what will happen in the future. B told me he wants a healthy, serious relationship because he really wants to have children, and he will bring me to live with him in his country (yes, we live in different countries).

Thankfully, he is an ex now, and I've moved on to a much happier, healthier, and securely monogamous relationship. I also blocked both of them on Discord since we haven't talked for a while. But looking back on that experience, it still makes me wonder how differently people perceive boundaries.

So, my question to you all: As an INFP, how would you view this situation? Would you consider this a form of polyamory/emotional infidelity, or just an extreme version of a platonic friendship? Would you ever be able to tolerate a partner who maintains this level of intimacy and shared living plans with an ex?

I'd love to hear your deep thoughts and insights on this. Thank you for reading!

Hello, wonderful souls of Introverts Chat! 👋🏼✨

I just wanted to drop by and send some quiet, warm energy to everyone, no matter where you are on this beautiful planet right now.

• To my friends in Europe, I hope you are having a productive day or currently relaxing and enjoying your lunch break!
• To everyone in Africa, whether you are tuning in from North Africa, like Algeria, Egypt, and Morocco, down to South Africa, or anywhere in between, I hope your day is treating you gently!
• To those in the Americas, I hope you are waking up to a peaceful, early morning and having a gentle start to your day.
• To everyone here in Asia sharing a similar time zone with me, or a few hours ahead, I hope your evening is winding down nicely.
• And to our friends in Australia and New Zealand who are already way ahead in the future, I hope you’ve had a fantastic day!

Since we are all scattered across different time zones, I thought it would be fun to do a little cozy ice-breaker. I'm quite curious about your morning rhythms (please answer it IN THE COMMENTS BELOW):

What is your typical breakfast, or do you have any unique morning habits you absolutely love? Also, are you the type of person who needs a proper breakfast right away, or do you usually skip it until brunch?

As a language tutor with a busy schedule, my mornings can get quite packed, but I always try to hold onto those small, quiet moments before the day fully starts. I also cook my bento in the morning before I go to work!

Wherever you are, and whatever stage of the day you are in, I want to leave you with this heartfelt wish: May you be showered with the utmost blessings and happiness.❤️✨

Looking forward to reading your cozy responses whenever you have the social energy to reply. Take care, everyone!

Hello, wonderful people of Reddit! 👋🏼✨

I wanted to drop by and share some positive energy today! My name is Bluey, I am 31 years old, and I'm sending you all a warm hello straight from Indonesia! 🇮🇩

I am an INFP-T who absolutely loves the quiet, cozy side of life. When I'm not working, you can usually find me buried in a good book, baking some sweet treats, journaling, or listening to random Spotify playlists (I love everything from Indie to Anisong!). I also enjoy a bit of cozy gaming like The Sims 4 and Pikmin Bloom, and I have a massive soft spot for our delicious local street food.

In the offline world, I work as a dedicated language tutor. My schedule is quite packed and demanding (including a long, scenic daily bus commute through the city), which means my energy is focused on my students during the day. Because of this, I really value slow-paced, meaningful conversations. I'm the type of friend who might only reply once or twice a day, but when I do, I love putting actual thought and care into my words rather than just sending quick, empty texts.

I'm here with an open heart to find genuine, SFW friendships and to connect with mindful people who appreciate a relaxed, respectful connection. Let's skip the shallow small talk and build something real, starting from a healthy friendship!

How is your week going so far? Tell me one small thing that made you smile today!

I just want to vent. I made a post in a friend-making subreddit (including one for people over 30). I put so much effort into writing a detailed bio, such as explaining my struggles, how hard it is to make friends, and so on... and pinned it right at the top of my profile because I highly value time efficiency.

The reality? People are still too lazy to read, and they end up asking me the exact same questions anyway. The problem is, I got so many DMs, and it's not just 2 or 3 people doing this; it's a FLOOD of messages. I feel like I'm constantly being bombarded with the same questions by different people at all hours of the day (especially since many Redditors live in different time zones). It's incredibly draining when people don’t respect the effort I've already put into that pinned post.

To make matters worse, a few days ago, someone created unnecessary drama and blamed me just because I tend to reply once a day, even though I had already explained how busy I am. Is it really a crime to set boundaries nowadays? Why does it feel like so many people out there think they are entitled to our time and energy? Am I wrong for wanting a more efficient way to get to know new people?

I feel like the way some people try to make friends on this platform has become completely unhinged, and I'm thoroughly exhausted by it.

Here is what I’ve been dealing with lately:

• Someone claimed to be 21, but in another comment, they wrote they were 16, excusing it by saying they "share the account with a younger sibling." Uhm, what?
• Many subreddits explicitly state that adults and minors should not be befriending each other. Yet, I constantly get text messages from minors who completely ignore this rule and try to slide into my DMs anyway.
• Another claimed to be 28, but their digital footprint suggested they were likely much younger (or older? Who even knows at this point).
• One guy claimed he wasn't looking for r0mance because he was under my age preference, but the moment I politely declined him, he started gaslighting and trying to guilt-trip me.
• Someone explicitly stated they didn't want to talk about NSFW topics, yet a quick look at their post and comment history revealed they actively participate in explicit subreddits.
• And of course, the classics: guys who seem completely normal and polite at the beginning, only to end up sending unsolicited d1ck pics out of nowhere.

Seriously, guys, what is wrong with you? Why is it so difficult to just be honest?

Is it wrong for a woman to look for genuine friendships on an online platform? Am I, as a woman, simply too "normal" for you? Is my life too straight and "boring" because I respect boundaries?

As a woman, how am I supposed to build friendships with anyone when the foundation is built on lies right from the very first text?

Hello there! I'm a 31-year-old based in Southeast Asia, currently working as a professional language tutor. I'm here to meet someone I can genuinely talk to and get to know over time. Friendship is my main priority, but I'm completely open to a serious relationship if it develops naturally and makes sense for both of us.

A little about me:

~Born in 1995, and I have an older brother who's much older than me.

~My MBTI is INFP-T (The "Mediator"). I can seem quiet or a bit stern, but I'm actually quite fun once you get to know me. Some say I'm a social butterfly, but I'll let you decide! 🦋

~My music taste is a bit random. My Spotify playlists span from Pop, Rock, Indie, EDM, Anisong, J-Pop, and K-Pop.

~Multilingual/polyglot nerd. I love learning languages and can speak 8 of them (though I mostly use three for work).

~My hobbies and interests are reading, cooking, baking, journaling, scrapbooking, and traveling when the budget allows. I'm also into anime, manga, K-dramas, and western series.

~Currently playing: Roblox, TheoTown, Pikmin Bloom, and UmaMusume: Pretty Derby on my phone. I also play The Sims 4 on my laptop.

~I prefer calm spaces like art galleries, museums, libraries, and local parks. I also have a massive weakness for street food (which explains why I'm always broke lol).

~I enjoy trying new things that spark my curiosity.

~Since I'm looking for a genuine, long-term connection, I am completely open and ready to relocate to my partner's country in the future if we find that we are a perfect match after meeting in person. To ensure I remain independent and supportive, my long-term plan is to establish my own artisan bakery or pastry shop wherever I move, combining my passion for baking with my drive to build a life together without being a financial burden.

I can talk about almost anything, from light and mundane topics to deep, late-night conversations, depending on our vibe.

While I understand many Reddit accounts carry an automatic NSFW tag, I am only looking for wholesome, platonic, or romantic dynamics. I have zero tolerance for explicit talk or hidden agendas. Any shift toward NSFW behavior will result in an immediate BLOCK and is non-negotiable.

I resonate best with men aged 29+ who are emotionally mature, self-aware, value clear communication, and respect boundaries. Please respect other people's choices!

To filter out low-effort messages and bots, your very first DM must open with the correct answer to this riddle about my country:

"My country is spread across more than 17,000 islands and is split by an invisible ecological boundary called the 'Wallace Line.' We are also home to the massive 'Corpse Flower' (Rafflesia arnoldii). What country am I from?"

Once you get the answer, feel free to share a proper introduction of yourself and pick one of these questions for us to break the ice:

① What kind of conversations do you usually enjoy?

② Are you more comfortable having deep conversations with one person or keeping things light with several people?

③ What value or principle matters most to you in your relationships with others?

No pressure, looking forward to hearing from the mindful ones out there. See ya! 😆👋🏼

Hi there. I'm a 31-year-old professional language tutor currently enjoying a brief downtime between my teaching transitions. I'm looking to connect with mature, intentional individuals who appreciate deep, substantive conversations. Whether this leads to a lifelong friendship or something more, I value quality over digital noise.

To protect my time and energy from the usual internet clutter, I have established some very strict, non-negotiable boundaries:

• I am only interested in clean, platonic, and wholesome dynamics. While I understand many Reddit accounts carry an automatic NSFW tag for various reasons, I have ZERO TOLERANCE for explicit talk or hidden agendas. Any shift toward NSFW behavior will result in an immediate and permanent block.
• NO LOW EFFORT DMS! "Hi," "Hey," "How are you," will be IGNORED and DECLINED. I highly value proper, articulate introductions.

To prove you have actually read this post and possess the genuine interest (and effort) to converse with me, your very first message must start with the correct answer to this riddle about my country:

>My country is spread across more than 17,000 islands and is split by an invisible ecological boundary called the 'Wallace Line,' separating Asian and Australian wildlife. We are also home to the massive 'Corpse Flower' (Rafflesia arnoldii). What country am I from?"

If your DM does not open with the correct country name followed by a proper introduction of who you are, it will be declined without a response as well.

For the mindful ones who love a little challenge and a good conversation, I look forward to reading your introductions and guessing games. Have a wonderful day/evening ahead!

Hi there. I'm a 31-year-old professional language tutor currently enjoying a brief downtime between my teaching transitions. I'm looking to connect with mature, intentional individuals who appreciate deep, substantive conversations. Whether this leads to a lifelong friendship or something more, I value quality over digital noise.

To protect my time and energy from the usual internet clutter, I have established some very strict, non-negotiable boundaries: 1. No low-effort DMs, and 2. No NSFW talks. I will ignore people who have no interest in talking with me and engaging in explicit talks and stuff.

To prove you have actually read this post and possess the genuine interest (and effort) to converse with me, your very first message must start with the correct answer to this riddle about my country:

>My country spans more than 17,000 islands and is divided by an invisible ecological boundary called the 'Wallace Line.' We are also home to the massive 'Corpse Flower' (Rafflesia arnoldii). What country am I from?

If your DM does not open with the correct country name followed by a proper introduction of who you are, it will be declined without a response as well.

For the mindful ones who love a little challenge and a good conversation, I look forward to reading your introductions and guessing games. Have a wonderful day/evening ahead!

Can't sleep. Kinda bored. I wanna talk until I fall asleep again. No NSFW or low-effort messages, please!

Hey everyone! I'm 31, and at this stage of my life, I'm finding it really hard to make new friends. All of my real-life friends are completely busy with their own life paths, and I only have about 3 close friends left right now. I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone to make new connections, even though most turn out to be online chat buddies because they live in different countries. I also tend to feel a bit envious whenever I see couples being all affectionate with each other, mostly because I've been single for quite a while now, haha!

Here's the main issue: I highly value efficiency and saving time. To make things easier, I actually created a short bio about myself (using a nickname, of course!) that outlines my personality, hobbies, and some fun facts. My idea was that when people want to get to know me, they could read my bio first, then ask anything they’re curious about.

But in reality, so many people are just too lazy to read. I keep encountering people who send a low-effort 'hi' or 'hello' in my DMs, then ask questions I've already clearly stated in my bio. And it's not just 2 or 3 people; at one point, my inbox completely blew up with over 80 message requests from other Redditors! On top of that, I constantly have to filter through people who are only looking for NSFW chats.

Getting stuck in this same repetitive cycle makes me feel completely drained before the battle even begins.

Do any of you experience this same thing?

Hey everyone! I'm 31, and at this stage of my life, I'm finding it really hard to make new friends. All of my real-life friends are completely busy with their own life paths, and I only have about 3 close friends left right now. I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone to make new connections, even though most turn out to be online chat buddies because they live in different countries. I also tend to feel a bit envious whenever I see couples being all affectionate with each other, mostly because I've been single for quite a while now, haha!

Here's the main issue: I highly value efficiency and saving time. To make things easier, I actually created a short bio about myself (using a nickname, of course!) that outlines my personality, hobbies, and some fun facts. My idea was that when people want to get to know me, they could read my bio first, then ask anything they’re curious about.

But in reality, so many people are just too lazy to read. I keep encountering people who send a low-effort 'hi' or 'hello' in my DMs, then ask questions I've already clearly stated in my bio. And it's not just 2 or 3 people, at one point, my inbox completely blew up with over 80 message requests from other Redditors! On top of that, I constantly have to filter through people who are only looking for NSFW chats.

Getting stuck in this same repetitive cycle makes me feel completely drained before the battle even begins.

Do any of you experience this same thing?

Hi there. I’m currently on my break, just killing some time while waiting for my next language class to start. As a language tutor who loves exploring cultures, I want to skip the boring, low-effort small talk.

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I get flooded with generic "hi/hello" DMs, so I've created a strict screening process. I will ONLY accept and respond to your DM if you open the message with the correct answer to this riddle about my country:

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My country is divided by an invisible ecological boundary called the 'Wallace Line', separating Asian and Australian wildlife species. We are also the only place on Earth where you can find a living dinosaur in the wild.

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If you're too lazy to do a quick bit of research or just guess it, please skip my post. For those who love a little challenge, hit my DM with your answer and tell me a bit about yourself! Let’s see who actually has the brains and the effort.