▲ 5 r/Advice

Boyfriend wants to go out alone with his online friend

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Today he asked if he could go out with a friend whom he has known for about 5 or 6 years through the internet

The thing is, before he met me, this girl used to be VERY suggestive with him. Then they lost contact for maybe two or more years and reconnected a few months ago, and apparently everything is "normal." However, I don't trust this friend and they friendship makes me uncomfortable. I don't care that she also has a partner now; I feel like he shouldn't go out with this girl, but I feel like maybe I'm overreacting. Maybe they just finally want to meet in person after so long...What should I do?

Edit: I forgot to mention that they used to flirt, and I think they even sexted. It wasn't just her doing it; it was mutual. I didn't make him cut off contact with her because she automatically wrote to him for the first time. He told me about it and said he was happy to reconnect with a friend. I let it go because my boyfriend doesn't really have many friends, So it didn't feel right to ask him to Cut off contact with her.

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u/Nic-Roses — 6 days ago
▲ 11 r/theology+1 crossposts

If God knows what you will do and what you have done, then technically He already knows how everything will end—whether you will be saved or lost. So why does He let you try to achieve something you'll never be able to reach?

Isn't that basically like teasing a child with a piece of candy that you never intend to give them?

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u/Nic-Roses — 6 days ago
▲ 1 r/roblox

Any recommendations for two-player games in the "looting" or horror genre?

I'm looking for two-player "looting" or "extraction" style games to play with my partner. Something like Brother's Vow or Deadly Delivery. But other types of recommendations are also welcome!

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I'm also looking for single-player shooter games

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u/Nic-Roses — 16 days ago

Which hero do you think deserves/needs a 4th ability?

So i was using lolita And I feel she deserves a fourth skill. I don't know what it would be, but even though her skills are solid, I feel like she's missing something... Although a fourth skill doesn't seem to fit well with her either tbh

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u/Nic-Roses — 18 days ago

I loved this team

We we're destroyed by alucard aaaannd my internet failed in the early game so i was afk like half of the match. But, my team wasn't toxic at all with anyone, even losing they keep saying "we arent cooked yet" (or course we got cooked) but i hey, what a nice teammates!

I felt really bad for clint bc i failed him tho...😭

u/Nic-Roses — 1 month ago

What's the easiest or most humiliating way to counter your main?

Question for every hero. Except for mains gloo... I've never seen such a humiliating way to be countered until I saw a gloo being erased of the game with a SINGLE Vexana ability 😭

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u/Nic-Roses — 1 month ago

How to make neater bases without them "curling up"

How do I avoid this?! I want a smooth base and this is what happens and I don't know why 😭

u/Nic-Roses — 1 month ago

¿Por qué nos gusta ver a otros tener relaciones?

No se si use el flair adecuado para esta pregunta, pero creo que la mejor comunidad para hacer una pregunta así es esta.

Mientras me preguntaba si los únicos que carecen de empatía son los psicópatas/sociopatas; me surgió la duda de porque los humanos disfrutamos viendo a otras personas "aparearse". Ya que si uno lo piensa de manera seria, no es un poco... Extraño?

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u/Nic-Roses — 1 month ago

This may be a silly question, but why can wills be contested?

I honestly don't understand why wills can be contested. If someone wrote down their wishes, why is it legally allowed for someone else to change them?

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u/Nic-Roses — 1 month ago

Has a 3d custom product configurator actually increased your conversion rates?

Running an accessories and home goods store and spring cleaning season always highlights how limited static photos are. Customers want to play with options live but the 3d custom product configurator tools I’ve tried either feel slow or don’t look premium enough. I’ve been comparing different solutions and the costs range from reasonable to quite high. Most still require manual work after the order. Anyone here had good results with a 3d custom product configurator on their store?

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u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago

Bro, Rossiu what are You doing😭

Yes, I'm at "that" part of the anime. What's wrong with Rossiu? Didn't he learn anything from when Kamina and Simon took him from his village? Didn't he learn anything from Simon or Kamina either? "Well, I'm going to execute Simon, who was once the savior of humanity, because many people who lived eating dirt are complaining"💀

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u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/Stress

My passport photo got rejected because my expression looked “too serious”

apparently neutral expression does NOT mean “look emotionally dead inside.”

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u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago

Bro's the hardest character and yet his unlocks suck🥀

(Only Sacred Orb is a broken unlockable. While The Fool and Crystal Key are "okay," the rest js sucks 😭🥀)

But I'm grateful. That way I won't be dissapointed about not having any of his items in my runs (since he's always the last character I complete).

u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago
▲ 4 r/CICO

does anyone else feel like they’re always “almost” consistent with fat loss?

i feel like i spend my entire year hovering in this weird middle ground where i’m trying to lose weight but never fully locked in.

i’m rarely completely off track. i still cook at home most days, still try to walk more, still loosely track calories. but i’m also rarely consistent enough for long enough to make real progress anymore.

it’s frustrating because i don’t feel lazy or unmotivated. i just feel mentally tired of treating every week like another “diet phase.”

sometimes i wonder if sustainable fat loss is mostly about reducing mental friction instead of increasing discipline.

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u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago

has anyone found a product configurator that doesn’t completely kill page speed?

trying to improve conversions for our custom furniture store and honestly every product configurator i test creates a new problem somewhere else.

either the previews look outdated, mobile performance becomes awful, or customers get confused halfway through customization and abandon carts completely.

the frustrating part is we KNOW customers want personalization because configurable products get way more engagement than static listings.

also random thing i noticed recently: people are way less likely to request refunds when they’ve already interacted deeply with a customizer before purchase.

curious what product configurators people here are actually using for ecommerce stores right now.

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u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago

Anyone else weirdly stressed by passport renewals even when the process looks simple?

I thought renewing my passport would take maybe 20 minutes online and somehow it's turned into a full week of procrastination and stress.

The DS-82 form itself isn't even impossible, but i keep getting interrupted halfway through and then second

Guessing every answer once I come back to it. I'm also helping my parents prep for an Italy trip right now so my brain is fried already.

Also random tip for anyone renewing soon: apparently shadows in passport photos cause rejections way more often than people realize.

Did anyone here use one of those prep/ checking services before mailing documents? mostly trying to avoid mistakes delaying everything.

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u/Nic-Roses — 2 months ago