u/North-Island9249

This might be a bit tmi but I’ll like eat something and then like six hours later the food will still be coming back up. I was wondering does anyone else deal with this as well.

Hi I have 19F and I’ve been a bit afraid to date due to my arfid. I mostly see dates centered around good something that brings me such stress. And I’ve been meaning to ask. What do people think of dating someone with ARFID.

I was venting in a discord server with kids from high school a few of which I was friends with I am newly 19 and the only one out of high school and expressed how I wish I would have gotten to know them during high school. I was told that they noticed I had been seen in a bad light and that i should make friends around my age I @ everyone and told them I was sorry if I made them uncomfortable or if I came off creepy. I feel so bad and haven’t stopped crying I feel like a baby and a piece of shit no matter how had I try or work on getting better everyone just leaves I feel like such garbage that I can’t keep many friends I feel so lonely and like a fucking weirdo I’ve worked on my self so much and have been told I’ve been working on myself but it feels like I still am just a stupid screw up.

I’m so fucking tired of this stupid ARFID. I can’t stand it anymore my safe foods have now cut out any chips or crackers and chicken I’m so tired of it I have like four restaurants I like I have no car to actually go get said food the only snack I have is candy and I’m so tired of it I’m tired of always having to eat sweets so I don’t starve all day not to mention I barely eat anything anyway due to getting full so fast. Then there’s the fact that I’m so hungry all the time but have zero cravings for anything. I cried today over fucking Olive Garden cause you can’t get plain buttered noodles ordered any more. I literally cry every night now cause I’m so hungry but no safe food to eat I’m just so done with this.

I was venting in a discord server with kids from high school a few of which I was friends with I am newly 19 and the only one out of high school and expressed how I wish I would have gotten to know them during high school. I was told that they noticed I had been seen in a bad light and that i should make friends around my age I @ everyone and told them I was sorry if I made them uncomfortable or if I came off creepy. I feel so bad and haven’t stopped crying I feel like a baby and a piece of shit no matter how had I try or work on getting better everyone just leaves I feel like such garbage that I can’t keep many friends I feel so lonely and like a fucking weirdo I’ve worked on my self so much and have been told I’ve been working on myself but it feels like I still am just a stupid screw up.

Hi I am 19 soon to transition into a more masculine look. I am also pretty sure I am bi but might also be pan. I have always been into polyamory like I’ve always wanted to have multiple especially for reasons of getting to love multiple people and getting to have all or most of my kinks and stuff. I don’t know where to look or where to even start i am so scared that I’ll never be able to find a poly relationship.

Whenever I was at school or when I’m at work I get really anxious when people don’t follow specific rules that are set in place like putting three napkins in the bag but they keep putting five like I get so anxious that sometimes I say things and come off a bit rude or controlling it’s like when I planed Chrismas games I’d get so upset and anxious when people didn’t follow my rules and I’d get upset about it.

So as of recently my biggest safe food has decided it didn’t want to be a safe food anymore. I’m freaking out cause it’s happening with more safe foods pb and j, chicken and steak basically every type of big meal foods I eat and as of recently I’ve been just eating candy, potatoes and broccoli I eat one meal a day and that’s dinner so basically the rest of the day all I eat it is candy. I don’t know what to do cause I know this isn’t healthy and can lead to malnutrition I am also having a hard time coping with the fact that I can’t stand pasta it was a safe food for almost probably since I was a kid. I don’t really have anyone to turn to my parents think I’m picky and none of my friends have given any really good advice.