u/Ok-Twist3753

Sending me pics of the flowers she got for her new girl. Sending me pics of her kissing her new partner. Sending me paragraphs about how deeply in love she is with her new person. Comparing me to her. Saying how good she’s being treated. How amazing it all is. Mentioning her “new workout routine” (sex life).

Framing me as the problem when all I tried to do was love her. She’s convinced she never did anything wrong even though she dropped me like I was nothing after love bombing me. She doesn’t feel any shame or any guilt and she thinks i deserved everything and that she’s getting “good karma” (her words).

The whole relationship I was patient and I was kind. I loved her with my whole being. One week before she dropped me she told me how I had healed something in her and she wants to have a lifetime with me, and how one day it’s gonna be every day.

She was in a new relationship within 5 weeks of the breakup.

I just want my soul back. I want my heart back. I want my time back. I feel so ugly and worthless because heartbreak makes you ugly. I lost weight and I look like shit. I don’t know if I will ever feel attractive again. She sent me so many pics and the new girl is beautiful, a teenager. They both have a whole future ahead of them and I feel like my life is ruined.

anyone noticed this?

when my energy is rising again, my family is the first to start watching me closely. my grandmother seems to KNOW and she magically messages me asking for life updates. my parents sense when i am doing well and start becoming very obsessive toward me, needing to know my location and constantly trying to interact with me? its never in a positive way. its always very clingy, obsessive and negative. i also can feel my mother sending me a cord to wrap around my throat chakra and she astral projects to watch me.

when i am attacked and i break, they stop monitoring me so much.

does anyone else experience constant monitoring and spiritual attack from family?

Hey, i am seeking help to cast a justice spell and a truth spell. please message me if youre an experienced, well intentioned and trust worthy witch and i am willling to pay money. i just need help.

I have had a connection where I can feel cords in my heart and solar plexus and I’ve been calling my energy back from her for an hour.

I cannot stop yawning. What does this mean?
I also feel more clear headed and less depleted

Thank you

im really struggling to see things clearly about my ex tbh. we met around 2 years ago and things developed very fast. i was 22-23 she was 21-22. for the first month it was all very intense and things felt good however i had an inkling that something was not quite right about her, i felt anxious but could not explain why. she sent me a lot of selfies, more than one a day. she mentioned her ex often. a month in, after talking every hour for a whole 4 weeks, she made me playlists and was calling me baby, good morning and good night texts, i woke up one day and she had gone. no message. she had ghosted me no explanation. i was so upset and confused. i had thought things were normal. then, she came back a day later, saying she "hadn't seen my message". she did not apologise, she just had a dumb explanation. i pretty much told her i wanted to end things after that. we ended things but kept each other on social media.

she started copying all of my stories. for example i posted something and she would then post a story with the exact same wording. she would reply to all of my stories trying to get back in contact with me. we started talking again but this time i was more held back. after a few weeks again she began sending me these love songs, that she had written about me, in the songs she was claiming really intense things 'it will always be you' and she sent me these drunk voice notes claiming i would fit into her family. however that next day she would be very distant again. it was confusing as hell but i still liked her and thought she was sweet. anyway, we were talking and getting to know each other and boom she ghosts me again. This time its a long silent period. it lasts maybe 2 months. by this time i am completely and utterly done with her and i remove her off socials, im so pissed i fell for her again and i genuinely start wondering if i had done something wrong to make her ghost me. it made no sense to me to tell me id fit into her family and receive these love songs to get ghosted the next week.

months go by and she comes back with an excuse. she texts me apologising and begging for a chance to make things right again. she told me that her uncle had reached out to her (who had traumatised her in her childhood) and it sent her into a spiral and she ghosted me because she was in a bad place. i felt sorry for her, hearing what her uncle did to her, i told her we can be friends because i did like her as a person, and after months i had been over it.

we start talking yet again just as friends, and this time i tell her i just want to be friends because i do not trust her romantically. i told her this multiple times. she asked to hang out with me, and told me i should give her a chance, as she's in a much better place right now and no longer "avoidant". we hang out in person and it feels normal, its whatever. however things ended up escalating between us on a physical level on the second hangout, we ended up really clicking all of a sudden and we spent a whole day just laughing and kissing and it was feeing amazing, it was the most intimate i had felt in my life with someone even though ive been with many girls before, it was like we could read each others minds and the chemistry was off the charts.

after that she declared her obsession with me, and was spamming me every day, calling me her partner, referring to me as hers when she never asked me officially to be her partner, she just casually brought the word up. she showed up at my door with gifts and treats, she met my family, and she was telling me that she wants to build a life with me.i was over the moon because i realised i liked her so much too. if i didn't reply for 1 hour she would be incredibly mad and accuse me of ignoring her even if i was just seeing family. i let it slide though. things were going good between us and i really started to open up to her again. However what i noticed was her attitude changed slowly as we got into a relationship. she made comments on my body which made me feel insecure. just to preface, we are both women. so for example she would joke that i had small boobs, when really i have a B-C cup which is pretty average. i never questioned the size of my chest until she mentioned it. she would then jokingly call me a loser, ie one time we were in the car together and she was trying to kiss me while i was driving, and i nearly hit a bin bc i was distracted, and she'd call me slow. i noticed my confidence eroding over time with her and i felt that she would make these weird comments which hurt. another thing was, she had a parasocial relationship with celebrities. she was obsessed with aubrey plaza and i get it, shes hot, but it was an every day, on the hour thing where she literally would mention how in love with this celebrity she was, even comparing me to aubrey plaza and saying im nothing like her. i tried to ignore it but it made me feel strange.

anyway one day she decided to switch up again. she was more and more distant and i could feel it coming. the previous week she'd been telling me how much of a healing presence i was for her and how i saved her, and then boom she got distant again. during our relo but esp before our breakup she was often drinking and clubbing, without me. this one night she went out and ignored me all night, beforehand sent me a pic with her cleavage out, showing off the outfit she was wearing to the club which i just told her she looked beautiful in, and then she just ignored me the rest of the night. she just became more and more distant after that. 2 nights after this, she sent a short message saying shes done with us and she cant do it anymore. no call. no meetup. just a text. dismissing me and that was the end. one day i was healing her, the next week i was broken up with over a text.

after she broke up with me, she went back to posting the sad quotes, sad songs, and stories, copying my story captions and reposting all of these quotes such as 'how was i so easy to let go of?'. all of this indirect posting prompted me reach out to her, offering for us to meet up and talk. she agreed to do so, and last minute she cancelled. then, i told her how confused i was with her stories and she was OFF at me, telling me so many cruel things and acting extremely mad at me. anyway, 1 week later, she posted a story of her on a date with love songs. 4 weeks after that i noticed she deleted all our playlists together and replaced it with new ones she had made for another person. she texted me that shes seeing someone else and blocked me.

i was distraught and heartbroken i couldn't get out of bed for weeks. it hurt so bad. i did not reach out to her for months and months but i couldn't get the questions "how?" out of my head. how did she say all that to me and leave so suddenly. anyway, i tried again to reach out to her 7 months after that to apologise for anything i had ever done to hurt her, as she was acting like i ruined her with how mad she had been at me. as soon as i reached out she pretty much broke up with her partner and unblocked my number.

i have pretty much just been asking for a conversation and she has now threatened to "take things further" with me, as in calling the police because i reached out 3 times only to say kind things. she has been framing me as scary and weird.

she is now onto her second relationship since she broke up with me a year ago. she has gotten all of her friends involved with this, including her current partner, who, is 18, while my ex is 23. they have been calling me from no caller ID numbers, whispering my name and telling me "i can see you" then hanging up on me. i am constantly getting harrassed by fake accounts that i can tell are linked to people she knows as it will usually tell me they're connected. i have a feeling she has spoken very poorly about me because there is no way all of these people have so much aggression toward me.

ive been so confused. am i dealing with someone who has NPD traits?

I am a bit tipsy right now writing this.

I 25F never saw myself as someone who gave up easily at all. being autistic i still worked from age 16 in hospo jobs, constantly bullied at every single job i got, but because i am somewhat attractive the bullying was people calling me a bitch because i am a bit quiet and they assume i am stuck up. At my first job ever at a pizza place i was called the R word by a 19 year old co worker. Yes, i was overwhelmed and slow, and i struggled taking the phone orders because the quality of the calls were so bad back then. My "friend" at the time reported back to me that he had called me that. looking back she was no my friend at all.

I graduated HS in 2018. I went right into working more hospo , then in 2019 i travelled a bit. every sinlgle place i worked i was told off over and over again. the place i stayed at while travelling, i was left out and beyond confused at the nature of the people my age or older (they were all 19-23 ish while i was 17), i remember crying every day while living at that house, i couldnt join them in drinking or going to bars, because i had no idea about getting a fake ID or how to do it. I was clearly too young to get into the bars and it was a nightmare. I connected with no one and i was stuck there for 3 months. i was always sleeping, avoiding people. all i had planned after HS was to travel and gain social skills but all i got was evidence that i cant do it, i shut down and i got overwhelemd bc i just cannot relate to these people. they were mean, they were too fast in their talking and thinking, they were judgemental, homophobic, and small minded. but they saw me as weird, quiet and slow.

I started uni in 2021 after 3 entire years of wasting my time and working shit jobs. i didnt see a future for myself so i took ages to actually choose a degree. i hated the world so much already from a young age and i remember in highschool just dreading life so much. i knew i was never going to fit in and i saw a bleak future of misunderstanding, suffering and confusion ahead of me. i was always too deep of a thinker and too sensitive and surrounded by people who seem to be the polar opposite. surely there is someone out there who is somewhat similar to me? surely? surely i can feel at home somewhere? please, anywhere? can i just please find one person who understands me, and who stays, one person i dont need to be smaller around. one person?

i have held down two successful jobs, one for a year at 19 years old, and another one for 7 months at 22 years old. however, since the age of 23, every hospo job ive worked, ive been fired within a week. ive now been fired from 3 jobs. 3. the last one i had actually ghosted me. their feedback when i asked them what was wrong was "there are things you cannot teach".

the last relationship i was in, i thought i found to love of my life but she (yes i am an autistic gay) left me very easily and never wanted to talk to me again. she broke up with me decemebr 2024 and i havent stopped thinking about her since then. i feel empty and broken and when she left it was like a hole was formed in my soul. ive never loved someone so deeply. shes gone, and it haunts me to this day. she was the first person i truly felt connected to, much more than the first relationship i had when i was masking heavily in 2019. this girl, i let my guard down. and she left.

Now at 25 im about to graduate uni, finally, after taking so so long. i am exhausted. i am tired. i liked the subject but i am so tired and everything is a deadline. everything feels forced and i cant truly enjoy anything when it comes to uni.

i feel screwed for life. i feel so fucked. i am scared for my future. i am now 25, and all i have behind me is struggle, 2 successful jobs and 3 fires. 2 failed relationships. barely any friends. barely any money. i dont know what i am gonna do. i am so scared. i know i cant give up but i genuinely find it so hard to have any sort of faith in my future,

He got with my mother when she was 20 and he was 30. I find this very creepy. My mother had just gone through loss with her own mother committing. She was in a vulnerable place and she has admitted to me she might have chosen not to be with my dad if she could choose different.

At age 5 he put my brother (3) down at a theme park in order to get HIMSELF food. He just left him in a corner somewhere, alone. My brother got lost for 2 hours, alone at 3 years old at a massive event. My dad has always laughed off his actions and never sincerely apologised.

I found p*rn in his phone at a very young age. He didn't even hide it. He just had it out in his folder, and it was a video of multiple people (4 plus) in bed at once.

At age 7 he used to run with me into the ocean and force me under the waves, even when i would scream at him to stop. he knew no boundaries and never listened to my no.

Most of my childhood he ignored us. He left all the socialising and connecting up to my mother to do. All i remember of him, was him watching TV and drinking beer, not connecting, not asking questions. He didn't even really know what we studied at school, who our teachers or friends were either.

At age 10, they left me home alone to go out to dinner with their friends during a thunderstorm at night. I called my dad, crying because I felt scared and wanted them to come home. He hung up the phone on me and then he started venting about me to the whole dinner table, apparently (according to mum) calling me names. They got home and my dad was ignoring me calling me dramatic. It turned into a massive fight between them and they nearly divorced, both of them screaming.

By age 13 i developed severe anxiety and depression as expected! i was neglected emotionally and never felt safe so it was bound to develop. I used to go to them for some sort of help when i would have my first panic attacks (for anyone who hasnt had one, it genuinely feels like you are about to die when you first experience one). I was freaking out at my heart rate, and I got ignored. I got told to stop seeking attention and to stop lying. As soon as i showed any signs of being vulnerable as a kid, i got ignored and given the cold shoulder. i spent my ENTIRE teen years alone, writing in my journal. i struggled to keep friends or make any true friends because vulnerability was never accepted in my house. My dad never showed a single opinion, emotion, nothing.

When i say we are a small talk family i mean it. My father is the most emotionally unintelligent person you will ever meet. He thought i was normal to raise us on "hi, how are you, weather is good!". he talks to me, my brother and my mum like he is meeting a stranger. And it never goes deeper than that.

His family (siblings and cousins, and mother) bullied my mother for being younger and honestly prettier than all his family. He would watch them bully her and he wouldn't stand up for her at all.

He neglects his own mother. She is a very lonely lady and she lives by herself. She has health issues, and yet he only goes to see her once every 6 months, and he ignores her texts. I visit my grandmother more than my dad does.

He became creepy when i hit puberty. He used to touch me and still would if he could. He would come into my room and rub my legs while "talking" to me. He used to ask to rub my back and find ways to touch my boobs "accidentally". He finds ways to touch my waist when he passes me in the kitchen. When i became more filled out at 17-19 i would catch him staring at my ass in the mirror. He would ask to rub my feet, and when he was done he would randomly slap them? it was so weird. He also used to pull my foot in toward his crotch area and each time i pull it away he brings it back in.

I have had so many dreams of him r*ping me its not even funny. i have so many nightmares about him all the time, because my subconscious knows he's a bad person.

He used to pick up my bed while i was in it, and throw it against the wall when he was mad.

He used to randomly speed up to 100 on a 30 zone when he was driving us to school, to scare us because he was in a bad mood

He has awful opinions about homeless people. We live in NZ where Maori are the indigenous people, and we are actually part Maori. He says that when he walks down our city, he feels ashamed to be part Maori because "all the homeless people are Maori" .

When he stated this, I told him he needs more of an education because its simply not true, homeless people are from all different backgrounds. He got SO defensive upon me commenting on his education (he doesn't have a bachelors and i do), he became incredibly mad, standing up and trying to intimidate me. Sounds like the reaction of a stupid person imo.

Now, in my 20s he is suddenly trying to be nicer to me, as he is nearly 60 and i guess he can see how he created such a horrible dynamic with me and is desperately trying to undo it. But sadly it just doesnt work like that. i am traumatised and my body remembers. my body freezes every single time he is near me. I can barely breathe around him and i feel so much resentment and anger in my body. It is impossible to ignore how he was in my childhood.

I hate his creepy, passive, irresponsible, immature, dumb personality. He was not a good father and he will not be able to make up for it. I cannot hold down relationships largely due to his neglect and awful personality. I am beyond traumatised by his existence. He is too stupid and ignorant to see this though, he weaponises incompetence and its the type of narc that acts like they're clueless when truly theyre just horrible people who will pretend they have amnesia and cannot remember / it isn't that bad. if it wasn't bad i wouldn't be the way i am.

Here is why

He got with my mother when she was 20 and he was 30. I find this very creepy. My mother had just gone through loss with her own mother committing. She was in a vulnerable place and she has admitted to me she might have chosen not to be with my dad if she could choose different.

At age 5 he put my brother (3) down at a theme park in order to get HIMSELF food. He just left him in a corner somewhere, alone. My brother got lost for 2 hours, alone at 3 years old at a massive event. My dad has always laughed off his actions and never sincerely apologised.

I found p*rn in his phone at a very young age. He didn't even hide it. He just had it out in his folder, and it was a video of multiple people (4 plus) in bed at once.

At age 7 he used to run with me into the ocean and force me under the waves, even when i would scream at him to stop. he knew no boundaries and never listened to my no.

Most of my childhood he ignored us. He left all the socialising and connecting up to my mother to do. All i remember of him, was him watching TV and drinking beer, not connecting, not asking questions. He didn't even really know what we studied at school, who our teachers or friends were either.

At age 10, they left me home alone to go out to dinner with their friends during a thunderstorm at night. I called my dad, crying because I felt scared and wanted them to come home. He hung up the phone on me and then he started venting about me to the whole dinner table, apparently (according to mum) calling me names. They got home and my dad was ignoring me calling me dramatic. It turned into a massive fight between them and they nearly divorced, both of them screaming.

By age 13 i developed severe anxiety and depression as expected! i was neglected emotionally and never felt safe so it was bound to develop. I used to go to them for some sort of help when i would have my first panic attacks (for anyone who hasnt had one, it genuinely feels like you are about to die when you first experience one). I was freaking out at my heart rate, and I got ignored. I got told to stop seeking attention and to stop lying. As soon as i showed any signs of being vulnerable as a kid, i got ignored and given the cold shoulder. i spent my ENTIRE teen years alone, writing in my journal. i struggled to keep friends or make any true friends because vulnerability was never accepted in my house. My dad never showed a single opinion, emotion, nothing.

When i say we are a small talk family i mean it. My father is the most emotionally unintelligent person you will ever meet. He thought i was normal to raise us on "hi, how are you, weather is good!". he talks to me, my brother and my mum like he is meeting a stranger. And it never goes deeper than that.

His family (siblings and cousins, and mother) bullied my mother for being younger and honestly prettier than all his family. He would watch them bully her and he wouldn't stand up for her at all.

He neglects his own mother. She is a very lonely lady and she lives by herself. She has health issues, and yet he only goes to see her once every 6 months, and he ignores her texts. I visit my grandmother more than my dad does.

He became creepy when i hit puberty. He used to touch me and still would if he could. He would come into my room and rub my legs while "talking" to me. He used to ask to rub my back and find ways to touch my boobs "accidentally". He finds ways to touch my waist when he passes me in the kitchen. When i became more filled out at 17-19 i would catch him staring at my ass in the mirror. He would ask to rub my feet, and when he was done he would randomly slap them? it was so weird. He also used to pull my foot in toward his crotch area and each time i pull it away he brings it back in.

I have had so many dreams of him r*ping me its not even funny. i have so many nightmares about him all the time, because my subconscious knows he's a bad person.

He used to pick up my bed while i was in it, and throw it against the wall when he was mad.

He used to randomly speed up to 100 on a 30 zone when he was driving us to school, to scare us because he was in a bad mood

He has awful opinions about homeless people. We live in NZ where Maori are the indigenous people, and we are actually part Maori. He says that when he walks down our city, he feels ashamed to be part Maori because "all the homeless people are Maori" .

When he stated this, I told him he needs more of an education because its simply not true, homeless people are from all different backgrounds. He got SO defensive upon me commenting on his education (he doesn't have a bachelors and i do), he became incredibly mad, standing up and trying to intimidate me. Sounds like the reaction of a stupid person imo.

Now, in my 20s he is suddenly trying to be nicer to me, as he is nearly 60 and i guess he can see how he created such a horrible dynamic with me and is desperately trying to undo it. But sadly it just doesnt work like that. i am traumatised and my body remembers. my body freezes every single time he is near me. I can barely breathe around him and i feel so much resentment and anger in my body. It is impossible to ignore how he was in my childhood.

I hate his creepy, passive, irresponsible, immature, dumb personality. He was not a good father and he will not be able to make up for it. I cannot hold down relationships largely due to his neglect and awful personality. I am beyond traumatised by his existence. He is to stupid and ignorant to see this though, he weaponises incompetence and its the type of narc the acts like they're clueless when truly theyre just horrible people who will pretend they have amnesia and cannot remember / it isn't that bad. if it wasn't bad i wouldn't be the way i am.

Hey guys, I am very new to this. I am only just starting out manifesting as I used to believe "God' was helping me (he wasn't).

I am recently trying to manifest someone back into my life, even though i have ALWAYS felt energetically corded to them the moment we got together. (its been 2 years)

We broke up in december 2024, but i have always felt this person with me, energetically. at night when the energy is quiet i can feel this weird pulse in my heart and solar plexus and i can genuinely feel their energy. i gets particularly strong when i am focused on other things, when i am energised, when i am not thinking about them. i feel their energy come in very hot and strong and it is genuinely so intense.

In December 2025, i attempted a very intense love spell, to bring them back to me. where i was constantly thinking of said person and listening to love music. I simply forgot to put the focus on myself as the love interest, so essentially i ended up sending SP a lot of loving energy and intention. After doing this for 2 weeks every day i start feeling VERY off. Like i am out of my body and I dont even feel like myself at all.

For most of late december 2025 and jan 2026. I felt constantly weird, dissociated and not quite myself. I didnt know what was happening for about 1-2 months, and then on social media i found out SP was with someone else. However, my body knew before i knew. My energy knew.

In march, i called my energy right back, it was after i found out about the relationship and suddenly i was hurt, and i think on some level i cut the "loving" cord i had toward SP off. Check this out.

The new partner has started to stalk me and call me and harrass me. Pretty much exactly in line with March when i called my energy back to me. Also SP has been harassing me WITH the new partner. They have called me from fake numbers ect. Each time it happens, i feel a very strong energy on my body, like I am a magnet and something is coming toward me. I had this same feeling each time SP would reach out to me in the past, right before it happened my energy felt aligned and in my body.

Any time i am tired, drained, negative or fearful, i notice that their relationship starts to go GREAT. i notice that as long as i am in a bad mood, a fearful state, SP starts posting partner on social media a lot more and they seem happier.

The weirdest thing is, every time I am feeling great and calling my "energy" back, they both start to come back to me? both SP and the partner, i see them in my views, they start to prank call me, and their relationship hits a big bump and i can feel that they are on the verge of breaking up.

HOW is it? how is it that every time im focused on myself, their relationship starts falling apart and i get contact from SP or they try to get my attention in some way, and when im low on energy and feeling tired and sleep deprived they're thriving?

Has anyone else freaking had this happen to them? Did i accidentally create a relationship for SP with my intense spell back in december, and they can subconsciously feel that my energy is the backbone to it all..

WHAT is going on energetically and is their relationship seriously based off of my energy or something? i know i'm not crazy; i've now been experiencing this for 6 months. I am 25 year old woman with a whole psych degree and i know i am not insane.

I am recently trying to manifest someone back into my life, even though i have ALWAYS felt energetically corded to them the moment we got together. (its been 2 years)

We broke up in december 2024, but i have always felt this person with me, energetically. at night when the energy is quiet i can feel this weird pulse in my heart and solar plexus and i can genuinely feel their energy. i gets particularly strong when i am focused on other things, when i am energised, when i am not thinking about them. i feel their energy come in very hot and strong and it is genuinely so intense.

In December 2025, i attempted a very intense love spell, to bring them back to me. where i was constantly thinking of said person and listening to love music. I simply forgot to put the focus on myself as the love interest, so essentially i ended up sending SP a lot of loving energy and intention. After doing this for 2 weeks every day i start feeling VERY off. Like i am out of my body and I dont even feel like myself at all.

For most of late december 2025 and jan 2026. I felt constantly weird, dissociated and not quite myself. I didnt know what was happening for about 1-2 months, and then on social media i found out SP was with someone else. However, my body knew before i knew. My energy knew.

In march, i called my energy right back, it was after i found out about the relationship and suddenly i was hurt, and i think on some level i cut the "loving" cord i had toward SP off. Check this out.

The new partner has started to stalk me and call me and harrass me. Pretty much exactly in line with March when i called my energy back to me. Also SP has been harassing me WITH the new partner. They have called me from fake numbers ect. Each time it happens, i feel a very strong energy on my body, like I am a magnet and something is coming toward me. I had this same feeling each time SP would reach out to me in the past, right before it happened my energy felt aligned and in my body.

Any time i am tired, drained, negative or fearful, i notice that their relationship starts to go GREAT. i notice that as long as i am in a bad mood, a fearful state, SP starts posting partner on social media a lot more and they seem happier.

The weirdest thing is, every time I am feeling great and calling my "energy" back, they both start to come back to me? both SP and the partner, i see them in my views, they start to prank call me, and their relationship hits a big bump and i can feel that they are on the verge of breaking up.

HOW is it? how is it that every time im focused on myself, their relationship starts falling apart and i get contact from SP or they try to get my attention in some way, and when im low on energy and feeling tired and sleep deprived they're thriving?

Has anyone else freaking had this happen to them? Did i accidentally create a relationship for SP with my intense spell back in december, and they can subconsciously feel that my energy is the backbone to it all..

WHAT is going on energetically and is their relationship seriously based off of my energy or something? i know i'm not crazy; i've now been experiencing this for 6 months. I am 25 year old woman with a whole psych degree and i know i am not insane.

This is something that has been driving me (25F) insane for ages.

i have ALWAYS felt energetically corded to them the moment we got together. (its been 2 years). I havent seen them in a year and a half and I still feel them, all. the. time.

We broke up in december 2024, but i have always felt this person with me, energetically. at night when the energy is quiet i can feel this weird pulse in my heart and solar plexus and i can genuinely feel their energy. i gets particularly strong when i am focused on other things, when i am energised, when i am not thinking about them. i feel their energy come in very hot and strong and it is genuinely so intense.

In December 2025, i attempted a very intense love spell, to bring them back to me. where i was constantly thinking of said person and listening to love music. I simply forgot to put the focus on myself as the love interest, so essentially i ended up sending SP a lot of loving energy and intention. After doing this for 2 weeks every day i start feeling VERY off. Like i am out of my body and I dont even feel like myself at all.

For most of late december 2025 and jan 2026. I felt constantly weird, dissociated and not quite myself. I didnt know what was happening for about 1-2 months, and then on social media i found out SP was with someone else. However, my body knew before i knew. My energy knew.

In march, i called my energy right back, it was after i found out about the relationship and suddenly i was hurt, and i think on some level i cut the "loving" cord i had toward SP off. Check this out.

The new partner has started to stalk me and call me and harrass me. Pretty much exactly in line with March when i called my energy back to me. Also SP has been harassing me WITH the new partner. They have called me from fake numbers ect. Each time it happens, i feel a very strong energy on my body, like I am a magnet and something is coming toward me. I had this same feeling each time SP would reach out to me in the past, right before it happened my energy felt aligned and in my body.

Any time i am tired, drained, negative or fearful, i notice that their relationship starts to go GREAT. i notice that as long as i am in a bad mood, a fearful state, SP starts posting partner on social media a lot more and they seem happier.

The weirdest thing is, every time I am feeling great and calling my "energy" back, they both start to come back to me? both SP and the partner, i see them in my views, they start to prank call me, and their relationship hits a big bump and i can feel that they are on the verge of breaking up.

HOW is it? how is it that every time im focused on myself, their relationship starts falling apart and i get contact from SP or they try to get my attention in some way, and when im low on energy and feeling tired and sleep deprived they're thriving?

Has anyone else freaking had this happen to them? Did i accidentally create a relationship for SP with my intense spell back in december, and they can subconsciously feel that my energy is the backbone to it all..

WHAT is going on energetically and is their relationship seriously based off of my energy or something? i know i'm not crazy; i've now been experiencing this for 6 months. I am 25 year old woman with a whole psych degree and i know i am not insane.