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I’m just surprised because my boyfriend asked me this because I’ve been really loyal to him, when he said this I just don’t know why? Is he worry I will cheat on him?

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I’m just surprised because my boyfriend asked me this because I’ve been really loyal to him, when he said this I just don’t know why? Is he worry I will cheat on him?

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 4 months, two months we talked in dating app and two months we started seeing each other in person and dated and we still talk on dating app till now. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially and it was large amount of money cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. Also I am still a college student i couldn’t afford to have much money to lend him although I wanna help him. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

The silence from him lasted for 2 weeks, two days before he texted me again, I was just scrolling randomly on the app and I liked this one profile but I didn’t really care. The guy then started to text me and was curious about my hobby because I like writing things. I talked to him for only a day thoigh, the conversation was mostly about my writing and journaling experience, food culture recommendations, books and movies review and recommendations, lifestyle, work and school life. The conversation didn’t go further than that. Honestly I talked to the new guy casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously, just a friend and also because he was asking about my writing experience and writing is my passion so I matched and basically described my experience, I didn’t match him with purpose to be in relationship or build marriage at all. I ghosted him, next day he sent poem compare me with the image of how sweet how beautiful I just seen the messages and I continued to ghosted him, 5 days later which is today I cleared up my profile and I blocked him

Today found out this guy is my boyfriend brother/relative or family member but it’s highly likely a brother which I didn’t know it. I was so worry like what if my boyfriend find out and he will think I cheated on him during the silence or cords boundary talk to someone on the app? The last time I met my bf was a month ago and he said promise him I would never cheated on him. The long silence gap I thought things were over despite me kept texting reaching out and everyone said he’s not good for me he’s gaslighting me and punish me by silence and that I should move on completely. That was something I was trying to do even though my heart still attached to my bf but I didn’t want to torture myself anymore

And surprisingly the next day after I ghosted that guy, my boyfriend texted me again after two weeks silence from him, he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. Our conversation next 5 days were mostly about the car and financial situation. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? After everything, am I guilty? Is everything my fault? Am I cheating on him now? I feel so bad as a partner now. Please help me, I just couldn’t think clearly anymore

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 1.5 years. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

2-3 days ago I started seeing a new guy, honestly I saw new guy just to talk casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously. I wasn’t even enthusiastic when seeing this guy and the whole time I was just thinking about my boyfriend every single moment. This guy told me my boyfriend dumped me already, just block him and delete all the contact but I didn’t because I still love my boyfriend. Then this guy all of the sudden he hugged me, tried to kiss me, and dragged me into the car and he had sex with me. I clearly didn’t want that at all, I was emotionally numb, emotionless and my body completely frozen. Afterwards I went home I felt disgusted, I blocked that guy and deleted him forever. Morally and ethically I was wrong and it looked like I cheated on my boyfriend during this period. I felt very guilty and I shouldn’t have done that at all. And today surprisingly my boyfriend texted me again he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? I feel like I’m such a terrible human being 

My boyfriend and I are in relationship for 1.5 years. Recently we had a disagreement when he asked me to assist him financially cause something happened and it overwhelmed him. I explained why I couldn’t help and there were concerns I wanted to address. My boyfriend then said my response looked like I was attacking him, questioned him instead of supporting him. He said my response hurt him and disappointed him, he clearly said he doesn’t need anything from me anymore, whether it is emotional or financial and it’s best he moves forward without expecting things from me. He said he need space to figure out his own situation and he didn’t make any decision about the relationship. I tried to explain so he could understand and then he started to go into silent treatment mode for two weeks. During those weeks, I suffered tremendously, I texted him a lot, apologized to him. He seen messages but not answered them. I consulted with my friends, family and therapist and they all said I need to move on, he’s emotional checked out, and nothing to hope for anymore and if he care he would reach out not leaving me in uncertainty for this long, things he said and his action sounded like a breakup

2-3 days ago I started seeing a new guy, honestly I saw new guy just to talk casually and I didn’t expect any relationship or anything like that seriously. I wasn’t even enthusiastic when seeing this guy and the whole time I was just thinking about my boyfriend every single moment. This guy told me my boyfriend dumped me already, just block him and delete all the contact but I didn’t because I still love my boyfriend. Then this guy all of the sudden he hugged me, tried to kiss me, and dragged me into the car and he had sex with me. I clearly didn’t want that at all, I was emotionally numb, emotionless and my body completely frozen. Afterwards I went home I felt disgusted, I blocked that guy and deleted him forever. Morally and ethically I was wrong and it looked like I cheated on my boyfriend during this period. I felt very guilty and I shouldn’t have done that at all. And today surprisingly my boyfriend texted me again he was checking in, I don’t know I was very hesitate and I just don’t know how to process things now. I was checking on him too he said he’s been overwhelmed by his situation and the whole time he was trying to focus on work and he stayed off from phone for a while. I don’t know what to do now, any advices for me? I feel like I’m such a terrible human being