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Hello all, I was recently left by my bf who I believe may be a DA. for context we dated when we were 12 years old and we were each other’s first love we were on and off for 3 years and the last break up in 2015 we got in a big fight he blocked me and we never spoke again. We both moved on with our lives had other relationships I had a daughter and I ended up leaving my daughter’s dad. 2025 I was wondering about him and followed him we followed each other for a couple of months about 7 months later I posted on my story a picture of my daughter and he replied to it and that’s how everything started again. We have been doing long distance since he is overseas in the military since September 2025 everything was fine it was just FaceTime calls and texts everyday eventually the distance got to him but we agreed to keep trying. May 2025 he came to the states and we finally saw each other since high school we did have some arguments but everything was fine by the time he left. When he left we had some arguments again and he started blaming my past traumas for trying to start things with him but I would never explode on him I would just question him we never argued in general I just didn’t feel prioritized the week he was here. It was really hard for him to always express what I meant to him he had to be drunk for him to tell me that I meant something to him. When we would have conflicts he would run away instantly and ignore me. With us having 2 arguments in 1 month it was enough for him to end things. That same month he was telling me he didn’t want to lose me and told me that I meant the world to him and a week later he left me. We were making plans of me visiting him this year so I don’t understand how he left me like I meant nothing. When I try to reach out to him he ignores my calls and texts one of our last conversations he told me that he cares more than I think but he just ignores me. He pretty much told me he was overwhelmed and numb after our breakup and was trying to keep himself distracted. Our very last conversations he basically told me to stop trying to reach out he told me a week after our breakup he was diagnosed with a TBI and is dealing with that currently. At the moment I’m going through it I feel like I don’t matter to him and I feel like I meant nothing. I’m leaving it all in God’s hands but I’m hurt. Do you guys think he will eventually come back?

Hello all, I was recently left by my bf who I believe may be a DA. for context we dated when we were 12 years old and we were each other’s first love we were on and off for 3 years and the last break up in 2015 we got in a big fight he blocked me and we never spoke again. We both moved on with our lives had other relationships I had a daughter and I ended up leaving my daughter’s dad. 2025 I was wondering about him and followed him we followed each other for a couple of months about 7 months later I posted on my story a picture of my daughter and he replied to it and that’s how everything started again. We have been doing long distance since he is overseas in the military since September 2025 everything was fine it was just FaceTime calls and texts everyday eventually the distance got to him but we agreed to keep trying. May 2025 he came to the states and we finally saw each other since high school we did have some arguments but everything was fine by the time he left. When he left we had some arguments again and he started blaming my past traumas for trying to start things with him but I would never explode on him I would just question him we never argued in general I just didn’t feel prioritized the week he was here. It was really hard for him to always express what I meant to him he had to be drunk for him to tell me that I meant something to him. When we would have conflicts he would run away instantly and ignore me. With us having 2 arguments in 1 month it was enough for him to end things. That same month he was telling me he didn’t want to lose me and told me that I meant the world to him and a week later he left me. We were making plans of me visiting him this year so I don’t understand how he left me like I meant nothing. When I try to reach out to him he ignores my calls and texts one of our last conversations he told me that he cares more than I think but he just ignores me. He pretty much told me he was overwhelmed and numb after our breakup and was trying to keep himself distracted. Our very last conversations he basically told me to stop trying to reach out he told me a week after our breakup he was diagnosed with a TBI and is dealing with that currently. At the moment I’m going through it I feel like I don’t matter to him and I feel like I meant nothing. I’m leaving it all in God’s hands but I’m hurt. Do you guys think he will eventually come back?

Hello all, I was recently left by my bf who I believe may be a DA. for context we dated when we were 12 years old and we were each other’s first love we were on and off for 3 years and the last break up in 2015 we got in a big fight he blocked me and we never spoke again. We both moved on with our lives had other relationships I had a daughter and I ended up leaving my daughter’s dad. 2025 I was wondering about him and followed him we followed each other for a couple of months about 7 months later I posted on my story a picture of my daughter and he replied to it and that’s how everything started again. We have been doing long distance since he is overseas in the military since September 2025 everything was fine it was just FaceTime calls and texts everyday eventually the distance got to him but we agreed to keep trying. May 2025 he came to the states and we finally saw each other since high school we did have some arguments but everything was fine by the time he left. When he left we had some arguments again and he started blaming my past traumas for trying to start things with him but I would never explode on him I would just question him we never argued in general I just didn’t feel prioritized the week he was here. It was really hard for him to always express what I meant to him he had to be drunk for him to tell me that I meant something to him. When we would have conflicts he would run away instantly and ignore me. With us having 2 arguments in 1 month it was enough for him to end things. That same month he was telling me he didn’t want to lose me and told me that I meant the world to him and a week later he left me. We were making plans of me visiting him this year so I don’t understand how he left me like I meant nothing. When I try to reach out to him he ignores my calls and texts one of our last conversations he told me that he cares more than I think but he just ignores me. He pretty much told me he was overwhelmed and numb after our breakup and was trying to keep himself distracted. Our very last conversations he basically told me to stop trying to reach out he told me a week after our breakup he was diagnosed with a TBI and is dealing with that currently. At the moment I’m going through it I feel like I don’t matter to him and I feel like I meant nothing. I’m leaving it all in God’s hands but I’m hurt. Do you guys think he will eventually come back?

Hello all, I was recently left by my bf who I believe may be a DA. for context we dated when we were 12 years old and we were each other’s first love we were on and off for 3 years and the last break up in 2015 we got in a big fight he blocked me and we never spoke again. We both moved on with our lives had other relationships I had a daughter and I ended up leaving my daughter’s dad. 2025 I was wondering about him and followed him we followed each other for a couple of months about 7 months later I posted on my story a picture of my daughter and he replied to it and that’s how everything started again. We have been doing long distance since he is overseas in the military since September 2025 everything was fine it was just FaceTime calls and texts everyday eventually the distance got to him but we agreed to keep trying. May 2025 he came to the states and we finally saw each other since high school we did have some arguments but everything was fine by the time he left. When he left we had some arguments again and he started blaming my past traumas for trying to start things with him but I would never explode on him I would just question him we never argued in general I just didn’t feel prioritized the week he was here. It was really hard for him to always express what I meant to him he had to be drunk for him to tell me that I meant something to him. When we would have conflicts he would run away instantly and ignore me. With us having 2 arguments in 1 month it was enough for him to end things. That same month he was telling me he didn’t want to lose me and told me that I meant the world to him and a week later he left me. We were making plans of me visiting him this year so I don’t understand how he left me like I meant nothing. When I try to reach out to him he ignores my calls and texts one of our last conversations he told me that he cares more than I think but he just ignores me. He pretty much told me he was overwhelmed and numb after our breakup and was trying to keep himself distracted. Our very last conversations he basically told me to stop trying to reach out he told me a week after our breakup he was diagnosed with a TBI and is dealing with that currently. At the moment I’m going through it I feel like I don’t matter to him and I feel like I meant nothing. I’m leaving it all in God’s hands but I’m hurt. Do you guys think he will eventually come back?

Hello all, I was recently left by my bf who I believe may be a DA. for context we dated when we were 12 years old and we were each other’s first love we were on and off for 3 years and the last break up in 2015 we got in a big fight he blocked me and we never spoke again. We both moved on with our lives had other relationships I had a daughter and I ended up leaving my daughter’s dad. 2025 I was wondering about him and followed him we followed each other for a couple of months about 7 months later I posted on my story a picture of my daughter and he replied to it and that’s how everything started again. We have been doing long distance since he is overseas in the military since September 2025 everything was fine it was just FaceTime calls and texts everyday eventually the distance got to him but we agreed to keep trying. May 2025 he came to the states and we finally saw each other since high school we did have some arguments but everything was fine by the time he left. When he left we had some arguments again and he started blaming my past traumas for trying to start things with him but I would never explode on him I would just question him we never argued in general I just didn’t feel prioritized the week he was here. It was really hard for him to always express what I meant to him he had to be drunk for him to tell me that I meant something to him. When we would have conflicts he would run away instantly and ignore me. With us having 2 arguments in 1 month it was enough for him to end things. That same month he was telling me he didn’t want to lose me and told me that I meant the world to him and a week later he left me. We were making plans of me visiting him this year so I don’t understand how he left me like I meant nothing. When I try to reach out to him he ignores my calls and texts one of our last conversations he told me that he cares more than I think but he just ignores me. He pretty much told me he was overwhelmed and numb after our breakup and was trying to keep himself distracted. Our very last conversations he basically told me to stop trying to reach out he told me a week after our breakup he was diagnosed with a TBI and is dealing with that currently. At the moment I’m going through it I feel like I don’t matter to him and I feel like I meant nothing. I’m leaving it all in God’s hands but I’m hurt. Do you guys think he will eventually come back?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?

Hi all, I wanted to come here to ask TBI survivors their point of view. My bf is in the army stationed over seas we do long distance for the past year. Because of the distance he broke up with me I tried to talk to him a week after and he told me fell in the shower and was diagnosed with a TBI he has a history of concussions. He told me he was having sx of losing memory, getting mad easily, couldn’t sleep, headaches etc. I’m trying to be there for him at least through a phone call but he’s pushing me away I can’t go over there with him due to personal reasons. But I wanted to know people who have gone through this what was the recovery like? Do I give him space? Will he eventually reach out to me? Will the TBI affect the break up process? I want to reach out but I fear he might block me if I keep reaching out to him. What is the point of view of a TBI survivor when it comes to breakups?