
Is this kind of accessory unprofessional?
I'm new at an office job. I like using these accessories on my glasses, sometimes shorter. I don't use earrings so I use these instead as kinda like a replacement.
My dad saw it today and said they don't look good, but I think they do, and he said that "what I wear leaves a message of status". My boss haven't said anything about these and they definitely don't get in the way while I work, but now I'm wondering if they are actually unprofessional or too weird.
Edit: For people talking about my shirt, that is a sleeping gown. I would never wear something like this at an office, I usually wear shirts that are either long neck or square neck, and avoid showing my shoulders because they are always bruised. And I wear long skirts most of the time.
Clothes are not the point here, just the glasses charms. Thank you.
Edit 2: About my shoulders, since I've noticed people are a bit worried: I scratch myself when I'm anxious, it's a habit I took from teenager years and haven't been able to get rid of yet. They have some permanent marks too. I am trying to stop, I'm fine.
Yes, I am going through mental health treatment, and no, I don't have any intentions of actually hurting or bruising myself, I don't like pain and it is not a conscious self harm behavior. I do it without noticing.