u/PunkyCatMeow

things have been rough between us recently and i’m worried it’s just not going to last until the lease ends. he can easily go back to his parents but i need somewhere to stay so i need the apartment more than him. we split the rent but he pays more than me because he makes more. i don’t know what to do if something does happen. advice?

my cat is a 3 year old, 9 lbs tortie-calico and has never had any issues using her litter box before and randomly just stopped using her litter box completely. i have no idea why or what happened to make her do this but it’s exhausting and has been going on for months. i took her to the vet for a checkup and they said she was healthy, she doesn’t have worms or fleas, she’s been spayed and had her shots. i genuinely don’t know why she does this.

i’ve changed her litter brand, gotten her a new litter box, i had one box for her and then two, i put a lid on one, i put it in various different places, i have no idea what to do anymore.

PLEEEASE HELP ME

So me and my boyfriend (18,19) want to get an apartment and know where we want it but i just have no idea how to go through with it……. like… how do i buy it? how do i talk to the person leasing it? how do i do ANYTHING?? i could really use some advice or tips or anything really…. just for clarification im NOT SEARCHING. I just need help knowing how to get an apartment in my name and how apartments work.. pls help

Edit: Double clarification, we are searching for apartments on Zillow, not on Reddit. The rules said something about “no searching” and i’m new to Reddit so I just didn’t wanna get my post taken down 😭

(first of all, i’m sorry in advance if this isn’t the right subreddit i’ve never used reddit before idk how this works)

so me, 18F, and my boyfriend, 19M, are going to prom but i’m kind of upset. he’s only ever had one girlfriend (18 or 19F) before me but they were together like 2 years and broke up a month before we got together (we’ve been together for almost 6 months) i’ve always been kind of insecure and a little jealous i guess(?)about her because she looks pretty and looks cool and i guess in a sense i don’t feel like im cool. and to make it even better i keep seeing photos of them together and even one with them at prom. i don’t know why i feel this way. any way, today we have prom and im not as excited as i feel like i should be, mainly because he’s already been to prom and of course, it was with her (his ex). it doesn’t feel as special to me because this is my first prom and his second with a different girl. it feels like it’s already ruined because he’s done this before. to make matters worse, i wasn’t able to get the dress i wanted but the next best thing was this very pretty dress… but its black. her dress was black. i keep telling myself “ill just wear it better” but really i just can’t stop thinking about it i feel anxious and i just don’t feel special. again i do not know why i feel this way about her i wish i knew why but i just can’t stop it. what do i do??? and how can i enjoy prom without thinking about her? am i being stupid?? :/

TL;DR:I’m going to prom with my boyfriend, but I feel insecure and less special because he already went to prom with his ex, who I compare myself to a lot (even wearing a similar dress). It’s my first prom and I can’t stop thinking about her—how do I stop comparing myself and actually enjoy the night?

(first of all, i’m sorry in advance if this isn’t the right subreddit i’ve never used reddit before idk how this works)

so me, 18F, and my boyfriend, 19M, are going to prom but i’m kind of upset. he’s only ever had one girlfriend (18 or 19F) before me but they were together like 2 years and broke up a month before we got together (we’ve been together for almost 6 months) i’ve always been kind of insecure and a little jealous i guess(?)about her because she looks pretty and looks cool and i guess in a sense i don’t feel like im cool. and to make it even better i keep seeing photos of them together and even one with them at prom. i don’t know why i feel this way. any way, today we have prom and im not as excited as i feel like i should be, mainly because he’s already been to prom and of course, it was with her (his ex). it doesn’t feel as special to me because this is my first prom and his second with a different girl. it feels like it’s already ruined because he’s done this before. to make matters worse, i wasn’t able to get the dress i wanted but the next best thing was this very pretty dress… but its black. her dress was black. i keep telling myself “ill just wear it better” but really i just can’t stop thinking about it i feel anxious and i just don’t feel special. again i do not know why i feel this way about her i wish i knew why but i just can’t stop it. what do i do??? and how can i enjoy prom without thinking about her? am i being stupid?? :/

TL;DR: I’m going to prom with my boyfriend, but I feel insecure and less special because he already went to prom with his ex, who I compare myself to a lot (even wearing a similar dress). It’s my first prom and I can’t stop thinking about her—how do I stop comparing myself and actually enjoy the night?