Confirmation post : https://x.com/myheartopia/status/2106670677759529117?s=46
« New Festival "Night of Divination" Coming Soon!
Hollow Trees hide treasures, mushrooms glow in the dark, and strange tales await your unraveling. 🔮
On October 10, the new Festival "Night of Divination" goes live. Explore Heartopia under the cover of night! 🦇 »
After literally 4 months of trying EVERY-SINGLE-DAY to board the very first cat I took when I started playing… it HAPPENED ! Aaaah I’ve never been this happy, now I need to patiently wait until red eyes cats makes a comeback on my side 😂
(This cat was already at 5000+ when I first dedicated myself to repeat the going out action)
Official post : https://x.com/myheartopia/status/2095799037735932274?s=46
« Specialty | Nostalgic Bloom PV 🌷
Words cross the sea. A quiet fragrance finds your window. 🔖
On September 10, New Speciality Exhibition: Nostalgic Blossom will be released. D.G. Members can use Exhibition Passes to draw new outfit sets: Nostalgic Blossom (Yearning) & Nostalgic Blossom (Tidings).
During the event, exhibits drawn from a single exhibition will not be duplicated. You're guaranteed to obtain all exhibits in a single exhibition within 10 draws. When the Special Treasure (Grand Prize) is drawn, you will automatically obtain all remaining exhibits in the exhibition. »
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Official post : https://x.com/myheartopia/status/2095806576770920731?s=46
« Moonlight Treasure Box | Pajama Jam PV 🧸
The moon and the stars are waiting for the party tonight. 🌙
On September 10, New Moonlight Treasure Box: Pajama Jam will be released. D.G. Members can use Moonlight Crystals to draw new outfit sets: Pajama Jam (Spiral Snail) & Pajama Jam (Mop Puppy).
During the event, treasures drawn from a single box will not be duplicated. You're guaranteed to obtain all treasures in a single box within 12 draws. When the Moonlight Special (Grand Prize) is drawn, you will automatically obtain all remaining treasures in the box. »
After what feels like eternity and intense money anxiety I FINALLY got the darn pool !!!!
Took 78 pulls, tons of duplicates and a lot of doubt but I literally build ALL my blueprints just for it and thought about why not trying one last time since I saved some tickets 😭
Unironically… I’m not as happy as I thought I’d be buuuut I wanted one since I started to play so one goal done ! Now time to stay away from gacha, save exhibitions until they bring back the last thing I want : wild flowers 😂
I find it insane tho, out of the 78 pulls I now have 17 out of 23 completion… so 61 duplicates 😮💨 now I have to channel all my will power to not tell myself “hmmm but there’s only 6 missing to complete it”
Official post : https://x.com/myheartopia/status/2093919961769246991?s=46
« Known Issues Notice
Baboo, D.G. Members!
We are currently aware of certain known issues in Heartopia, and our engineering team is working urgently on fixes，
1.After mining the slate, subsequent mushroom collection causes mushrooms to no longer respawn.
We will notify you as soon as the fixes are completed. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience caused, and thank you for your continued support and understanding. »
Edit : my bad the second picture is unrelated to the post, it’s for the return of pumpkin carving over CN servers 😭
I’ve been seeing this over xhs these past few days. It seems that the devs are working on implementing a feature that lets us overlap and finally have floating materials without using glitches!
As it is still in beta, it hasn’t been yet officially announced by CN Heartopia, let alone int
The only thing I hope is : please may there’s no bugs so we can finally stop doing extra steps ! 🤩
EDIT : The original post was reupload to edit the picture
Official post link : https://x.com/myheartopia/status/2091457675251097732?s=46
« Echo of Ancients Festival Pack | Wild Pulse
To tell the legend behind this dance, we must journey back to ancient times...
On August 29, the new Festival "Echo of Ancients" will begin. After reaching D.G. Member Level 7 and completing the beginner Main Story quests, you'll unlock the Festival and be able to claim a free Thank-You Gift in the Festival Catalog, including the "Unpolished Nest" furniture set, building materials, and other generous rewards.
Explore festival-limited collectibles and raise your Collection Points to get free Time-Limited Exhibition Passes from the Catalog.
※ The Time-Limited Exhibition Passes from this Festival can be used during the following period: August 29, 2026 – October 17, 2026, 5:59 (Server Time)
Purchase any Festival Pack and increase your Festival Level to obtain Heart Diamonds, Exhibition Passes, Pet Costumes, a limited-edition instrument, the themed outfit sets "Wild Pulse (Wishing)" and "Wild Pulse (Blessing)," the "Echo of Wildness" building material set, selected furniture, and many other rewards.
Purchase the Supreme Festival Pack to receive additional rewards, including the Bottle Tree Building Permit, the Rookie Spirit Chat Bubble, and a 10% Festival Token selling bonus.
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FINALLY back to logging for 5 mins just for dailies 😂
Hi! It’s been a while since I wake up thinking “come on just do what you’ve been doing naturally !” but each day I massively fails.
I’m sorry for how long this is, I ended up venting at the same time 😣
Context : it’s been nearly 6 years that I’m (F28) in a relationship with my now husband (M26) and it will be 1 year that we are married in October. The thing is… I’ve spent the last 2 years having my life quite together, I reduced my tabac intake, traded alcohol for mocktails and juices but since he moved to my country in March, I went from one pot of tabac lasting 1 month and a half to 3 pots not lasting 2 weeks, while I had the habit of smoking a few cigarettes at home and never smoking outside besides at most 1 cigarette on my way back home, and I started back to drink nearly every day.
And what keeps playing in my mind is, what an addiction psychologist told me back in December “I deal with addicts every day and I can confidently say that I won’t be of help to you because you don’t have an addiction, you’re just in a bad environment (referring to my relationship).” And I agree with her, since, well, I can see the differences between when we lived separately vs cohabitation and whenever we are together. Throughout the years I constantly went back to drinking and excessive smoking whenever we were physically together, and once I’m back home, I was going back to my usual routine.
What bothers me the most here is… we started to cohabit together right after I left the reeducation clinic, I was there for a month due to a hip replacement and immediately after I started to drink and smoke without any restraints, while being fully conscious that this isn’t what I wanted to do and that I shouldn’t have been doing that due to still being convalescent, but, the stress… the huge amount of stress with no mental way out, just made me choose poorly. And he wasn’t even supportive, just “you shouldn’t drink. Anyway we’re drinking today ? I’ll go down to buy some”.
And since, every day I try to choose differently, it seems that I succeeded to regulate myself enough to lower my consumption a bit but still, whenever he’s home I drink/smoke more, whenever he’s out side I go back to functioning.
Genuinely I feel lost because I hate to put things on external factors since I only have control over myself, not the external, nobody is holding me at gun point to drink and smoke and regardless my mind keeps on thinking about the thousands of things I keep on associating to my marriage. For example, I used to wear the hijab, but my weak self took it off after he kept on affirming for 2 years that I shouldn’t wear it, that I’m just faking being a religious and that I will take off, so does whenever I put it on before going out “you know you don’t have and know my thoughts on it”. It’s just so confusing at this point and I dislike the person I’m keeping on becoming since we’re together… I feel like the last time I ever truly took care of myself was during the time we weren’t together in between being together.
J’ai pris en photo tout les repas pendant mon séjour d’1 mois dans une clinique privée pour rééducation et vu que j’ai personne avec qui partager bah voilà 😂
J’ai passée tout le mois à grignoter des granolas tellement j’avais faim et c’était FADE ! Ça m’a tellement choquée que la nourriture de l’hôpital publique été nettement meilleure qu’une clinique privée…
Official Post : https://x.com/myheartopia/status/2090019371112710467?s=46
« Baboo, D.G. Members,
Heartopia will undergo maintenance to improve server performance. If the maintenance is delayed, please refer to subsequent announcements for updated information.
This maintenance will require server downtime, during which you will be unable to log in to the game. Please plan your game time accordingly to avoid any inconvenience.
**◆**New Events◆
[Back-to-School Sticker Challenge]
Gull of all trades, master of every single one.
Event Duration: August 29, 6:00 AM - September 14, 6:00 AM (Server Time)
Collect all event stickers to get rewards!
Event Details: After the event starts, D.G. Members can obtain [Random Stickers] by completing daily event quests. Stickers are randomly drawn from currently available themes. Collecting a specified number of stickers in each theme unlocks corresponding rewards.
Send Sticker to give duplicate stickers to other D.G. Members. You can send up to 5 stickers to the same player per day.
Please note that the unclaimed rewards will be sent to your in-game mailbox the following day. Once the event ends, the unclaimed accumulated rewards will also be delivered to your mailbox.
**◆**New Features◆
[Hot Air Balloon Event]
Take to the sky with your friends in a hot air balloon. Enjoy the whole new view of the flower sea.
How to Play: Once D.G. Members reach level 18, they can start this event through Gazing Boy. Eligible members will receive a Hot Air Balloon Event invitation every Saturday and Sunday at 4:00 PM (Server Time). Please note that the event cannot take place on rainy or snowy days.
Once the event begins, you can choose between the Flower Field Route and the Town Sky Tour to enjoy the sights. Each hot air balloon can carry up to 6 members at a time.
[Friend Styling]
Go face-to-face with a friend and style a look you'll both adore!
How to Play: Once the Friend level reaches 2, D.G. Members can start Friend Styling and invite their friends to join.
When it begins, the helper can use their friends' clothing to dress them in real time. Both members can chat and interact with emotes. After finishing the styling, the outfit can be saved.
[Photography Update]
[Main Story Quest Update]
After the Fashionwave ends, Whalefall Canyon will get a Main Story Update. D.G. Members who have reached the required Home Level can accept Main Story Quests from the Whalefall Canyon main screen. The quest chain is divided into three parts.
By completing these quests, you'll earn rewards such as Exploration Level XP and Certificates of Exploration, unlocking even more Whalefall Canyon content. D.G. Members who have already completed all quests in the current Fashionwave can choose to skip the Main Story Quests and claim all quest rewards directly.
As you progress through the Main Quests, the Cleanliness cap for each area of Whalefall Canyon will also gradually increase.
[New Arrivals in Store]
[Party Feature]
[Optimizations]
[Bug Fixes]
After the maintenance is completed, we will send maintenance compensation [Gold x8,000, Wishing Star x10] to all D.G. Members. Please claim your rewards via the in-game mailbox before August 22, 17:00 (UTC-5). »
As discussed in the CN announcement video : https://www.reddit.com/r/heartopia/s/Nygp9SmQFr
They will be getting a rerun from “Galaxy”, it was originally a festival pack launched in August 2025 for them and now they will be getting the returning items from the ordering machine which is AWESOME to me cause a while ago I was thinking “it would be cool if we could still purchase gacha items or festival/fashion waves ones via the machine”
« 🎀 Baboo! Attention, D.G. Members! It's time for your weekly benefits. ✨
Freebies are ready, don't forget to claim them:
💫 Wishing star ×3
🎨 Dye ×2
💎 Flawless Fluorite ×1
🎁 Gift Code: a7m4q9r3k6n2
Grab the gift code now and claim all your rewards!💖
Redemption Deadline: 2026/09/30 10:59 (UTC-5) »
What I posted yesterday : https://www.reddit.com/r/heartopia/s/AVesbzbyFA
International Official Heartopia :
« 📢 Heartopia News Flash | August 19 Update Preview!
The August 19 (UTC-5) update is coming soon! ✨
Heartopia has prepared plenty of exciting new content for D.G. Members—
🐾 Follow ancient traces and experience the new Town Festival
🎈 Take a hot air balloon ride and enjoy a dreamy view of Heartopia from above
📸 Try the new Selfie Mode and capture unforgettable moments
Check out the latest Heartopia News Flash for more details! »
Hi ! Sorry for how long it is 😣
At this point I (F28) don’t know if I’m “making a big deal out of nothing” like he (M26) says or if I’m feeling like I’ve “outgrown” him, not in a negative/superior way but more in a “I am no longer the 22 years old you’ve met”.
Here’s the daily interactions that I try to simply not let it become the center of my mind but I can’t help but think about it from time to time :
- This morning I decided to clean under the bed since I was tired of waiting that he moves the bed for me and upon seeing me doing it he said that “I could have asked him”, which I did, for the past 4 weeks and yet he didn’t helped me put the bed back in its original position regardless of clearly seeing me struggling to move it. So I couldn’t help myself but say “if I don’t, nobody will”.
- I started to do a deep cleaning since my 6 years old sister is coming to sleepover but yesterday I couldn’t move a finger since during my birthday, the day prior to it, I’ve made the mistake to not noticed my body’s discomfort due to alcohol so my leg was numb (I’m 6 months post-hip prothesis surgery), yet, he didn’t helped me besides doing the bed while I’ve taken care of the floor, sink, toilet, shower, dishes, kitchen counter, window, desk, and now I’m about to reorganize our clothes while my back hurts from probably doing a wrong movement while trying to push the bed. Which I did told him but he’s still sitting on the bed while playing games.
- Communication : I don’t claim to be a “master communicator”, the thing that’s bothering me is that whenever we talk, it feels like a constant “competition” as I am met with defensiveness and what can seem like micro aggression.
Example of conversations from the past 3 days, which are a daily thing, just different topics :
- He has a tendency to generalize when I personalize, and to personalize when I generalize. What I mean by that is, if something isn’t his experience then automatically it isn’t the experience of “everyone”, or if something is the majority then it is automatically reduced to one specific person. Same with knowledge, I take a meaningless conversation about him believing that commercial airplanes have parachute under the seat so I told him otherwise but he spent a good 15mins explaining how I’m wrong until he said “let me ask gpt”, he saw the answer and automatically still tried to prove a point. It’s a meaningless example but this also happens in serious conversations. It’s constantly “I am always right and you’re always wrong, rarely right” (as he always says)
- I feel that he is constantly defensive. I’ve recently talked about how we should start speaking my native language more often so it can be of help for him when it comes to interviews because he has limited vocabulary and unfortunately it has been a limitation for his job hunting, to which he automatically deflected it to external factors “this guy was doing all the talking during the group interview” and “it isn’t the language barrier, I understand what is said to me, I can speak, they just didn’t wanted me”, which could be true but a broader vocabulary could make a difference instead of “I pick this number because it’s weird. (Employer) Why is it weird ? (Him) It’s weird and not normal.” Or another example, I advices him to stop applying for jobs he is clearly not qualified for. He applied to lawyers, doctors, nurses jobs but… he has no degrees, studies, masters and so on in that category, to which he instantly responded with “I apply to whatever the fuck I want, go smoke and let me be”. And even after expressing that I found the “comment” disrespectful he simply responded with “you should be the one apologizing for criticizing how I apply to jobs, I didn’t said anything wrong”.
- Another communication issue, whenever I simply talk about how I’m thinking about temporarily getting a 9-5 in order to save up for a goal (I am currently working from home and doing gigs here and there), he doesn’t focus on the topic and simply says “you don’t have to, I’m not saying you can’t, you can work, you just don’t have to, I’ll get the money faster than you”, which… realistically speaking, no and regardless of that, I’ve noticed along the years how he seems tense whenever I make more than him or reach a financial goal faster than him.
- Or just like for the bed, to him the issue is “your vibe seemed off”, “you are talking to me rudely and being disrespectful” and “you are wrong” because I said “if I don’t do it, nobody will” and me waiting for 4 weeks for the bed to be moved or receiving help when i am doing it, isn’t proof that he wasn’t going to do it and not a reason for me to be annoyed. As the peace is on my shoulders, if I wake up a certain way and speak a certain way then there is no issue, if I don’t accommodate him, there is issues.
Then comes the infantilization, at first I wasn’t paying much attention to it and viewed it more as a “joke” but once it became recurrent and for nothing and everything, I started to doubt if it truly was a joking matter or not. He automatically compares me to a “child” or “baby” whenever I ask to talk about something bothering me and disengage whenever the conversation is going nowhere because he simply keeps on repeating that I’m making a big deal out of nothing instead of engaging into the conversation. Whenever I tell him to write something in my native language (such as responding to administration and his employers) instead of doing it for him (as I view it to perhaps help him much more than constantly doing everything for him) then I’m automatically flagged as a child, if I’m tired because my leg is feeling numb and decide to put something to after I rested a bit, flagged as a baby and I can keep on going.
From 22 to around 25, I was fine with all of this, I didn’t paid much attention but since 25 to now 28, all those daily stuff became things I can no longer overlooked and views it as incompatible, especially since he seems to expect my early 20’s reactions instead of seeing that, well, like everyone I’m growing older therefore what used to be, isn’t as it’s normal to no longer deal with things the same, if I was still as reactive as I used to be then I would find it to be personally wrong.
So yeah, am I overreacting for wanting simple conversations that doesn’t turn into instant defensiveness and for wanting to solve any problems/issues calmly without feeling like he is trying to “outpower” me and infantilizing me ? Which all I’m doing is simply approaching a matter calmly like “can we talk about [insert] ? I [insert]” or simply me speaking about my personal wants and interests as I am quite of a chatterbox at times and just love to talk about nothing and everything but I’m met with “sigh here we go again” so I started to speak less but when I’m no longer being a chatterbox then it’s “you’re quiet, what’s wrong ? What’s on your mind ? Do we have beef”
Edit : I tried to autocorrect myself as much as I can but I’m sure some sentences might not be correct 😅
Here’s the link to official video : http://xhslink.com/o/8zCM7PJm8Dr
The full CN announcement video : http://xhslink.com/o/1JEvY56su1p
(Based on CN announcement it is programmed to gradually start from August 20 - 29 for them)
What’s talked about in the CN announcement video:
- New (obviously) gacha
- Archeology gameplay
- prehistoric building materials, fish, birds, insects
- new flowers
- new recipes (drink and food)
- CN server is getting a rerun so let’s hope we’ll get it ! (“Star River/Galaxy” launched in August 2025 for them)
- New barber furnitures that can be purchased at Bob
- hot air balloons as new event (6 people max)
- Friends can customize each others outfits
- selfies mode with facial expressions
- closet optimization with category separation
Hi ! Honestly I don’t know how to navigate this specific topic anymore. (Together for 6 years, married for nearly 1 year)
Context :
some days, like any other people I have my ups and downs, some days I’m quieter than usual, some others I’m a never ending talking machine BUT one thing for sure, every month I’m on my period and that is the only time my emotions are constantly the same : I become as mute as a wall. And during the down, quieter and period days, my husband doesn’t seem to comprehend that I don’t have any issues with him nor our relationship, I’m just… existing.
And I tried to explain this to him for the past 4 months, but today I just feel like I’m an alien for the following reasons that makes him believe that I have an issue :
- It’s super hot, nearly 32 degrees indoors and period are kicking me hard so i skipped lunch because i was simply not hungry.
- During a conversation I rectified his wording by explaining in depth that what I meant was generalized but he worded himself as personalized.
- I got out of bed and sighed, which is well, normal.
- I am in the quieter mood so I allowed myself to not loggin into work and just spent the rest of the afternoon laying in bed battling to find a less painful position 😂
But, it’s been now since 2pm (it’s currently 5pm) that he is trying to figure out “what is my issue” while… I just don’t have any, I remained calm and collected but after being repeatedly asked the same question because “when you’re like this, there’s always something. I’m not crazy for asking you what is wrong” and repeatedly answering and explaining the same is just… extremely frustrating, it feels like today I can’t seem to just relax and be in my quiet days without the need of having an issue
Edit : just adding that regardless of not being much talkative, we still had conversations, had our usual daily and affectionate routine. I express every time it’s period/discomfort/down days not the relationship, just pure physical/emotional but besides a “yes I get that but you’ve been like this since this morning/past [date amount]”, he stills think it’s about him or us. So does I express when the constant repetition is now becoming the issue that I previously didn’t have since being asked the same thing and my answer being disregarded is indeed making me feel irritated, once, twice, at most thrice ok (in general, not for this topic) but throughout the entire day ? No and I don’t want to reach a level where I cannot contain my emotions as I personally don’t like suddenly switching to talking a bit louder and speaking rudely.
What’s making me feel more like it’s hard to navigate it, is that we’ve already had many times conversations about it, communicated properly without it turning into arguments and we concluded on the same point with agreeable compromises that do not go against the other’s boundaries but the same questions keeps on persisting always at specific timing, 2 days after period start and whenever I wake up not appearing “bright and shine” yet I automatically let him know about it and reassures him that it’s quite of a down day. So I just wanted to vent about the insistence and figure out if there’s other ways than clear communication, keeping the usual habits with just some moments when I might just want some quietness, compromises, still keeping the affection and playfulness, and still being present for him regardless of him not understanding why I’m not constantly in an up mood if nothing had happened between us
Edit 2 : for today the chapter is finally done after he saw that I look more exhausted than earlier so after re-describing how I physically feel while adding the new set of physical discomfort (heatwave is truly no joke) now the questions finally stopped and he seemed more relaxed. So, tomorrow yet another calm conversation about it to re-iterate that those moments aren’t targeted towards him/us and hopefully this time it will finally be understood and integrated. Anyway, thank you for the replies !
I’m (not) sorry cause… I can’t help but laugh at the fact that we’re just a few days away (if confirmed on int. Account) from being flooded with post about “where to get this profile decor” while it’s only been a week or 10 days ~since the sub has stopped being flooded about heartbond profile decor 😂
I (F27) will probably never understand why the hell my husband (M26) always acts as if I offended his entire bloodline for wanting to recycle the air, reduce mold risk and get rid of odors. 🙃
We recently moved in together and I have these habits :
- Letting the bathroom door open for 15mins, in the morning, after showers and at night before closing it to sleep. Since there’s no ventilation, mold grows super fast if the door remains closed.
- Opening the door and/or window when cooking, in the morning, when it’s too hot, before bed.
Because… my place is only 14m2, 2m2 kitchen, 6m2 of living room/bedroom, 4m2 bathroom and the remaining 2m2 is just the entry. There’s only one small/medium size window which the view is a wall and the passage to each apartment.
Yet, he constantly closes the window/doors whenever I open it wide or after 2 mins, he doesn’t open when he’s cooking (there’s no ventilation in the kitchen) so if I’m not home to open it behind him, the walls have water drip, smoke and food odors remains and multiple times a month I have to treat molds.
It’s just so tiring to keep on dealing with someone who thinks “he knows it all”, while this is just basic hygiene to me, that at some point I simply spent a week at my family’s place and suddenly he understood why I keep things open but not to the point of stoping on complaining about it nor letting things open for more than 5mins. 😒
Edit : about the place, it’s my first “apartment” after I moved out of my parent’s place, so he moved in to my place and country (we’re not from the same continent). There’s no AC as places still doesn’t have AC as a national preset, it’s more viewed as a “luxury”, the ventilations doesn’t work properly, the one in the bathroom don’t work, the one in the kitchen doesn’t work properly and the “stove” one cannot be plugged in because the cabinet on top wasn’t placed properly
Hey, I had put mine in the flowers so whichever you are missing you can take your pictures over my townhouse, if you’d like.
If you’d like to collect, here’s the video I used (if you’re as impatient as me, don’t worry it’s straightforward): https://youtu.be/0aGf5LhQyL4?is=fa702_PBcv-zCPR_
ID : 5ad41pj5
Town ID : 2326616
Since I need to be online for it to be done, I’ll let the game run while I’m afk for… I don’t know, I’m about to hit cod so it can easily take 2/4hours 😂