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I used to care so much about what other people thought of me. What my coworkers thought, what my family thought, what strangers on the internet thought. I was basically outsourcing my self worth to people who weren't even thinking about me half the time.

At some point I realized the only opinion that actually lives with me 24 hours a day is my own. Everyone else's voice eventually fades. Your own never does.

So if you're going to have a voice in your head that never shuts up it might as well be saying something worth hearing.

Started telling myself every morning that I am enough. Not in a cringe affirmation way, just a quiet honest reminder before the day gets loud. It felt stupid the first week. It doesn't anymore.

Your opinion of yourself is the foundation everything else is built on. Other people's opinions are just weather. They change, they pass, they were never really yours to carry in the first place.

Tell yourself you are worthy. Not because life is perfect or because you have it figured out. Just because you are still here, still trying, and that actually counts for something.

Anyone else been working on this? Would love to hear what's been helping people.

Okay so I've tried everything and my windows still look like a foggy nightmare. Finally figured some stuff out wanted to share

First thing nobody tells you never clean windows in direct sunlight. The solution dries before you even wipe it and you're just moving streaks around. Cloudy day only, game changer.

Ditch the Windex honestly. Equal parts white vinegar and water in a spray bottle does the same job for basically nothing. Add one tiny drop of dish soap if the glass is actually grimy.

The cloth matters more than anything. Microfiber only. Paper towels leave lint everywhere and you'll be more annoyed than when you started. Circular motion first then straight strokes at the end.

The trick that actually saved me wipe outside glass horizontally and inside glass vertically. That way when you see a streak you immediately know which side it's on without losing your mind going back and forth.

For hard water stains pour undiluted white vinegar directly on it and just leave it for two minutes before wiping. Works like black magic.

Also crumpled newspaper buffs glass better than any cloth I've tried. Sounds insane but try it once and you'll never go back.

Anyone got tips for really high exterior windows without a ladder situation?

Throwaway, half my family is somehow active on Reddit (don't ask).

Okay so context my mama (uncle, mum's side) is mid 50s settled in Balrampur and has been wearing a hairpiece for at least 12-15 years.. Like a proper expensive one gets it serviced the whole family knows but it's one of those unspoken things nobody mentions it especially not in front of him.. especially not in front of his MIL who would never let it go.

So turns out mama has been carrying on with a woman from his office for almost a year. 🤣 Massive massive scandal because mami found out through his phone backup on the family iCloud (rookie mistake on his part, classic uncle tech illiteracy), and then she did proper investigation mode screenshots, dates, hotel bookings, and alot other stuff 😶. Pulled my cousin in to help verify before she said anything to him directly...

Here's the part that's actually breaking the group chat though the woman genuinely did not know he wears a wig. Not once in a year did she see him without it. Mami found this out because in full filmy villain energy she messaged the woman directly 👹 sent her an old photo from a family wedding where his hairline had shifted in the heat (you know how it gets during baraat dancing) basically as a you don't even know who you have been with moment. And apparently the woman's reaction was less your husband is cheating and more shocked that the hair wasn't real. Like that broke something for her too.

Mama reaction to the whole explosion has reportedly been less guilt about the affair and weirdly more devastated that his secret is out to the entire khandaan now 🤣 including his own kids who apparently never figured it out either.

Family WhatsApp has been in absolute chaos for two days💀💀 Half the chat is genuine heartbreak about the marriage half is masi sending bald jokes and gif stickers like this is entertainment.

I genuinely don't know what to feel anymore. Like the affair is obviously the real issue. But somehow everyone keeps circling back to the wig like it's the bigger scandal.

I've noticed a lot of girls end up falling for their best friend, and I honestly don't get it. 😭 It drives me crazy sometimes. And it feels like almost every girl has a guy best friend. 😐 If you DM a girl, it can feel like you're already competing with someone who's known her forever. 😭

Anyway, that's just something that was on my mind today. 😂

Maybe it's a good thing I'm single. 😌

What do you guys think?

Byeeee! 👋

I don't know how to explain that why he stated my BB in the first place (because I'm a gen-z I don't respect my old boss) that old boss have zero respect to my side (i really don't care) but he is trying to get me removed from the job and always tell to do no mistakes in file. TBH sometimes there will be a spelling mistake or some calculation mistake, i think he doesn't like me or my other boss is in it.. as he says.