(Not showing what I voted for- NOT MY POLL) to the people who chose, why do you think the one you chose is worse? Or ppl who weren’t at the OG poll make like a decision in ur head rn and explain

I couldn’t think how to explain why the one I picked was worse so I’m wondering if other ppls can help
Og poll: https://www.reddit.com/r/Teenager_Polls/s/QPQsuEIr8H

And yes i think both are horrible

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 3 hours ago

Ik this sub is VERY queer so is there any orientations (or multiple) for this that anyone knows? idc about if it’s niche or mainstream

So I experience sexual attraction for sure and can be sexually attracted to someone and have (unfortunately I’ve mistaken this for romantic attraction before and asked someone out and got rejected oopsiee…..), and i can enjoy seeing sexual intimacy in fiction BUT only when it’s drawn/animated not with live action and I only can enjoy rlly explicit ones when it’s lesbian (I feel a disgust towards seeing men’s private parts) and semi explicit with ones involving men as long as I don’t see the actual men private part thing, but irl while I do still experience sexual attraction, I feel no desire for and a heavy disconnect to the concept of kissing, sex, doing any sexual acts whatsoever, and have ZERO desire to ever do anything sexual and find myself REPULSED by it.
As for romantically, I only feel romantic attraction to alterhumans ???? And somehow don’t experience it otherwise, within alterhumans I’m attracted to any gender with a preference for men specifically ones who aren’t overly masculine, but outside of alterhumans I don’t feel romantic attraction whatsoever and within alterhumans I only experience romantic attraction after having known someone (regardless of how close I am with them) for at least a month. I can also feel romantic attraction to fictional characters ONLY when a fictotype of mine also had romantic feelings towards them in the media (doesn’t have to be canon as long as I remember it)

WHAT THE HELL IS MY ORIENTATION SOMEONE HELP 😭
If it’s needed my gender is transmasc demiboy

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u/Soft-Character-3195 — 4 hours ago

Bro the song misery by pupsies is now like being used/popular as a sound on YouTube and liek

I finally get how people feel when a song they loved gets popular out of nowhere.
now it js looks like I took my music taste from YouTube shorts
Like NOOOO I love pupsies bro this song has been on my playlist for ages 😭 why yall suddenly using it sm
Im seeing it everywhere now being used by super popular creators lip syncing w thousands of likes and the title just being the first line from the song and like it’s so clear they’ve never listened to the song before that day and it’s like bro that’s like my ultimate venting song I felt with my SOUL on my playlist get it off my feedddd what why is everyone suddenly using it

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u/Soft-Character-3195 — 15 hours ago

Can they please stop bringing us up in that sub, I don’t like hearing a bunch of people my age talk about my identity and whether it’s being mentally ill or not. Pls js leave us alone, At least these posts comments show me who to block.

It’s the r/teenagers sub for context but honestly can we catch a break
It’s none of their business
Not everyone there think it’s mentally ill and I appreciate that, thanks allies, but it is super tiring seeing everyone who does think it is and most people there do..

Also a comment on there:

personally (in MY opinion to all y'all haters) think it's a mental illness (no hate to them)

Bro you can’t just say “it’s mentally ill” and then be like no hate tho x
Like put that sentence in the context of like trans or gay people for example and see how bad that sounds

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 16 hours ago

Man who invited this guy along, get out 😭 on a silly post about my cat being a trans ally

Bruh. First of all who said I was unhappy? im actually quite happy with myself atm. Second of all- who said I experienced body dysmorphia?? I love my body and believe all humans r beautiful in some way. Also I’m not REAALLLY “changing gender” it’s simply that I feel like a boy… literally the most I’m planning on doing is top surgery when legally allowed and a haircut + binder for now, literally not planning on changing anything else, aside from that it’s just feeling like a dude, and feeling more comfortable being perceived as a dude, chill..
plus literally every mental health professional I’ve talked to thinks being trans is 100% valid..
Plus there are so many studies showing trans people’s brains are more like the gender they transition to when they are young:
https://www.ese-hormones.org/media/ei0psrhz/transgender-brains-are-more-like-their-desired-gender-from-an-early-age.pdf

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 18 hours ago

There’s someone on the main r/teenagers subreddit who downvotes EVERY SINGLE post and comment I make.

Ik it’s just downvotes but it seriously bugs me like why man tf did I do to them and I dislike seeing the number “0” which is what bothers me about it the most, the number 0 feels wrong and it pisses me off and idk why.
Also just the fact that someone is going out of their way to do that?? Like ew bro i don’t know them leave me alone
And it bothers me bc it happens EVERY TIME.

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u/Soft-Character-3195 — 19 hours ago

I just learned today that cis people have flags for being cis.

What?
- probably Abraham Lincoln at some point

Like cis folk I love yall equally as my fellow transgender people but like since when did u guys need a flag, and multiple ones at that 😭

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 22 hours ago

I keep seeing people say “use the cisgender flag” to the mixing flags trend or smth like that, this is the fourth time I’ve seen someone say that and I js wanna ask: SINCE WHEN DID CISGENDER PEOPLE HAVE A FLAG??

Like I just didn’t know they had a flag 😭
Imo they don’t need one… like they rlly don’t need one

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 22 hours ago

Mod appreciation post!! I love this sub so much hehe :p

The mods here are so chill and accepting and do their job unlike many other teen subs and I love it so much! It really creates a positive environment for anyone in communities that other subs deem too “weird” such as alterhumans, xenogender users, and lgbtqia+ in general cuz there are way more trans/homophobes in the main sub than here.
It may not be anywhere near as popular as r/teenagers but acceptance and a community full of others like you is more important than that :3
The mods are so great I swear, the teenagers mods are literal a$$

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u/Soft-Character-3195 — 1 day ago

Someone is downvoting EVERY post of mine and most comments on them too except for that one comment on this post but there was another two downvoted ones on the post this is from

Every post I make bro 😔
Edit: and this one too +my next post after this now lmao

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 1 day ago

I’ve only ever shown yall my cats so ima introduce u to my guinea pigs. One of them is hiding rn so I can only show one of the two for now.

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 1 day ago

How people feel after saying the most gross and/or hateful stuff ever with stuff like “spread love not hate” “be the change you want to see in this world” or a bible verse in their bio

u/Soft-Character-3195 — 1 day ago