Was biking in YYC and saw these awesome people! I’ve never seen other furries irl and I was so excited, they were so kind and friendly and it really made my whole night. Shoutout!
Hobby photographer and i’m usually happy with my editing and photos but this time around I just hate how they’re looking, how can I make them better? Any advice would be awesome :)
doodle of my truesona smoking a joint cause hell yeah
I (16F) confessed my feelings for my friend (ALSO 16F) two months ago. I knew that she didn’t feel the same, and the whole situation is rather complicated because of our mutual friend group.
To summarize: She had a crush on me for a few months, then dated someone else, then I developed a crush on her, she broke up with her partner, I waited a few months, confessed, she turned me down because she was “worried about ruining the friend group dynamic” and I was okay with that. Like genuinely okay with it, i’m not just saying that.
Not even a week after I confessed she starts talking to some girl online. Some girl she’s never met? I know this is a hot take but I don’t understand online relationships, or even friendships, I don’t understand how you can form a bond with someone you’ve never met face to face, but obviously to each their own I suppose. She immediately won’t talk about anything other than this girl. She has nothing else to talk about, all of our mutual friends know, have talked with the online girl, like this chick is seriously the ONLY thing she will talk about. This ends up making a bunch of crazy awkward situations, where she brings up the girl, everyone cringes and waits to see how I react, and my friend just remains clueless to how hurt I am by it.
How can she be so flippant about what she says, and who she says it around?? She has no awareness and no concern for my feelings and it’s so frustrating. Our mutual friends know how I feel, and know that I feel like she didn’t give me any time to grieve my feelings for her. It’s so much worse because I know that the online girl was told about my confession, I know she likely doesn’t like me, but she also claims to like my best friend and i’m feeling incredibly possessive.
My friends are being so vague and ominous around me and it breaks my heart and makes me feel so fucking paranoid. “She’s wondering if you made that thing yet?” “Oh not yet..” “What thing?” “…” I’m burning a cd for (friend) to give to (online girl)..” ITS DRIVNG ME UP THE WALL.
Not to mention that I feel so stupid for not even giving this girl a chance but it just cuts me so fucking deep that she wouldn’t even wait? Is that really crazy?? I hate that i’m the only one who doesn’t like the online girl, not even my best friend has my back on this and it sucks I feel like such an awful person, i’m bitter with jealousy and everyone is walking on eggshells around me it makes me super insecure about the relationships I already have.
Now, two months after my confession they are fully dating. Friend won’t talk about ANYTHING else, and i’m starting to feel grateful she rejected me, i’d hate to be so obsessed over, but i’m also just feeling so fucking sick and tired of hearing about it. Thinking about it makes me nauseous?? What the fuck. Can someone just give me advice i’m really having an awful time here.
I’m working on jealousy and I need some help.
I’ve struggled with possessive tendencies for a long time, and no matter how hard I try I can’t seem to rid myself of them. I don’t like friends hanging out with other people, I don’t like sharing my friends, i’m just really insecure about my relationships and have a lot of fear that i’ll be left alone.
I have incredible friends who I know wouldn’t leave me, people I know who genuinely value me, and yet I can’t help but feel so angry when my best friends hang out with other people. What the hell is wrong with me??
How do I stop being insecure, how do I stop myself from feeling this toxic shit, help?
Never seen before, smells metallic, but both batteries are intact and don’t seem to be leaking. WTF?? Is this safe??
ft. my sona (gracie)
I’ve had dozens of suggestions since my original post (here - https://www.reddit.com/r/AIO/s/yHOVZlfcQM ) and I thought it would be a lot more helpful if I could get a sound bite of the beeping i’ve heard. I got it, but i’m not able to post a video on this subreddit. I will post it on a subreddit dedicated to noises and keep you guys updated.
Hi r/AIO, I don’t know if this is truly the right subreddit but I need some help. I (16F) have been hearing a rapid beep sound near my bed for the last week. So far i’ve only heard it once a day, EXCLUSIVELY late at night, and i’m starting to freak out.
I don’t have any electronics near my bed, nothing plugged in, no alarm clock, I have a loft bed. This is something i’ve never heard before, it’s a brand new sound. It is a quick triple beep, not ear piercing but decently loud. It sounds close, near my head, but I can’t find anything of suspicion.
I’m prone to paranoia, i’m likely overreacting, but i’m starting to worry this could be a hidden camera?
My parents are divorced and my mom has been seeing some guy, he’s nice, he’s pretty normal, but he is a new person in my life and that combined with this new sound is totally freaking me out.
It never sounds long enough to track it by ear, and i’ve dug into my bed frame, side table, and other areas that could have something. I’m taking my mattress apart tomorrow, i’m too scared to fall asleep.
EDIT- I’ve just heard the beeping again, so it’s not exclusively late at night. Still loud, still clear, still near my head.
What we have determined it is NOT - Smoke Alarm, Airpods, Watch, my iPhone, Air freshener, Carbon Monoxide detector, lights with a remote
Other facts - My Room is on the outside edge of the house, 2/4 walls lead to the exterior of the house, 1 wall leads to the hallway, the other connected to my bathroom. Likely not a sound coming from outside, empty plot between my neighbours and I. It would be out of character for my mom to prank me, and if she was she would’ve given the it up as soon as she knew I was losing sleep. Not likely my sister (18F), would be out of character.
AIO? What are the chances this is actually something of concern? Is it something I sound be paranoid about, losing sleep over, or am I overreacting?
Was rewatching The Children’s Hour (1961) and I can’t figure out what colour the dress Shirley Maclaine is seen wearing throughout the film could be, im thinking a dark blue(?), maybe dark green? Can anyone help me out? 🌝
His favourite movie is Brokeback Mountain so I had to recreate the iconic scene with our fursonas ;3
The fox (left) is my old fursona, the racoon (right) is his fursona. Thought i’d share with you guys for my first post!
An oc I made a long time ago, help me give her a name!!
Please give me your best advice, links to hq materias, and anything else I should know 😁 My fursona (pictured) in alt. style has long hair, does anyone have any tips for making longhair?
For context, I (16f) think I may have feelings for my bff (16m-afab), our friend group is going on a trip in July, there’s five of us. I’ve been thinking about how I could approach the situation and i’m thinking the only way I could get the words out would be if I was intoxicated, plus I would have an out if it goes south or I realize that what i’m feeling isn’t a crush. Is that awful? To plan on getting buzzed so I have an excuse?
I have no idea how he feels, our friendship is a lot closer than most, we are basically dating just without the physically intimate aspect, so it’s lead to some confusing situations.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, is this truly a relationship ending situation??
I’m looking into getting a fursuit, i’ve seen both positive and negative reviews for meow and i was just wondering what the general take is? Is it a scam? Is it worth the money?