My boyfriend (23m) has been really into 90s skate culture and skateboarding. He has a ton of vintage plan b, bam and girl skateboarding clothing. I want to get him a board for his birthday that aligns with those interests of his. Any ideas?
I have been working on a groundwater project all summer. Having so much trouble isolating events and matching them to a recharge event. Any advice?
I (22f) and graduating with an environmental science b.s with a concentration in climate in December. I have two years as a nature preserve management intern and summer research. I am hoping to get a job near or around Philadelphia. Any advice, this reddit makes me feel doomed lol. Should I be applying now or wait a bit?
Cooking is my hobby and summer is such an inspiring time for cooking!
Make use of green tomatoes while you can🍅
He didnt show up for 3hrs and 45 minutes. Then when he did come he sang two songs then made them play dreams and nightmares. My feet hurt. That stunk major town. And the dj kept keyboard slamming this jarring “ber ber ber ber berrrr” noise for the three hrs leading up to G Herbos arrival.
Hi I (22f) have to decide where to live. I have a semester of college left and will graduate this December. I will have classes four days a week.
Option 1: Philadelphia. 2 roommates. Rent + utilities = about 1000. Leases til the following August. Would get a job in Philly.
Option 2: Commute from home. My boyfriend lives at home. Save money til December comes and I graduate then see where to move.
Option 1 is nice because I will have a social life and more control over my living space. I will be able to walk to school. Its challenging because I have to get a job, spend all my savings on first/last and deposit. And pay for my groceries.
Option 2 is nice because I wont have bills and I will be near my boyfriend. I will be able to find a job whereever in my field after I graduate and wont be tied to a lease in Philly. Its not nice because I have to commute an hr and wont have a social life as much really.
TL;DR should I commute for my last semester of college or sign a year long lease
I (22f) think I am having a nervous breakdown. Mental health has reached a crescendo and I have an episode every two days now of wanting to pass away. I am afraid I will end up losing my job and my boyfriend because of my inability to function. I have a mental health crisis it feels like every other day. I went to the er once when I was 16 for this same problem and they were not helpful. I do not know what to do. I am in therapy, I have medications. I do not know how to reel it back in. I graduate in a semester and am afraid I will not survive it.
(22f) weeks been kinda shit, anyone wanna chat?
I dont know much about astrology but I am sad and bored today and am curious what any people may have to say.
Hope you all are having a good day
I (22f) am graduating this December. For a while I was really convinced I wanted to go to graduate school for meteorology. Due to this I reached out to a professor and asked if he would help me through a research project. I felt this would look good on my resume and what not. The research is in groundwater response to various types of storm events. Concurrently, I have a summer internship as a nature preserve manager. I work out in the heat all day and am realizing it is hard for me to motivate myself to sit down and code after a day of work. I dont know what to do. Should I figure out a way to get through it? Should I be honest with my professor and see if this can be more of a fall project? Should I tell him I cant continue?
I am no longer sure if and what I want to go to graduate school for. I most likely will try to attend a year or two after graduation but dont feel narrowed in enough yet on my area of interest. I have two years of the internship I am currently at.
I personally go back and forth. I definitely compare myself to others and often feel I could be doing better socially. I wonder if this is common or just what everyone else is feeling.
Hope you all are having a nice day! It is beautiful weather in PA today:)
I 22f am reaching a boiling point. I have been in therapy for three years, and have tried a variety of different medications. I am currently trying Wellbutrin but I think it is actually making my depression worse. Despite my best efforts I am still very flawed and am losing relationships as a result. Feel like I am often losing friends despite my best efforts and only have two friends from highschool who I can rely on. Made no real meaningful friendship in college. Still hit myself in the head when I am upset. Still addicted to weed. Still have trouble regulating my emotions. Realized I cant drink alcohol so there goes that mode of socialization. Just feel like a bad person. No matter how I try to get better I always end up in the same spot. Anyone older have any advice, feel like I am exhausting the people in my life and therapy isnt for a few days. Rough times. Life is quite hard and lonely.
I love Amy Pohler’s podcast good hang and she always talks about enneagram. I tested and got 4w5 458 sp/sx. Whenever I look up this combo it seems a bit grim. People say its super moody, distrustful, self isolating, etc. I have taken different tests and always get 4w5, but I dont feel I am a negative person, I like life. Any enneagram experts care to chime in😭