u/Takie_Me

What are the best ways to find a girl and ask her out? Is cold approaching a good approach?

I am M 27

I'm interested in attemtping to meet new people and find a girl to ask out on a date.

So I'm trying to figure out the best techniques in asking a girl out for dating. Are there any good dialogue tactics that work best? Or what other strategies work sufficiently?

Do you think cold approaching be the best method at going on about it? Or are there different procedures or skills that would word better?

Sorry for so many questions, I've never asked someone out before so I'm new to it

Thx for any and all advice in advance.

The current male loneliness epidemic was caused by the old generations, like millennials, gen x, and boomers. They did it through the rise of social media, the job market, hook up culture, the housing crisis, banning pet stores, etc. And sadly it seems like it wont go away anytime soon. Similar to global warming, it will take a long time to heal the scar that boomers left on this world. Perhaps one day, the world will be a better place where the mistakes of the past older generations wont ruin the lives of the newer ones.

What are the best ways to find a girl and ask her out?

I am M 27

I'm interested in attemtping to meet new people and find a girl to ask out on a date.

So I'm trying to figure out the best techniques in asking a girl out for dating. Are there any good dialogue tactics that work best? Or what other strategies work sufficiently?

Would cold approaching be the best method at going on about it? Or are there different procedures or skills that would word better?

Sorry for so many questions, I've never asked someone out before so I'm new to this type of thing.

Thanks for any and all help

M27

I'm interested in attemtping to meet new people and find a girl to ask out on a date.

So I'm trying to figure out the best techniques in asking a girl out for dating. Are there any good dialogue tactics that work best? Or what other strategies work sufficiently?

Would cold approaching be the best method at going on about it? Or are there different procedures or skills that would word better?

Sorry for so many questions, I've never asked someone out before so I'm new to this type of thing.

Thanks for any and all advice

M 27

Should I do cold approaching as a game plan? I've never tried it before so Idk how well it works.

I've tried several other attempts at dating before but they haven't worked out too well. I've done datings apps but I've never gotten any likes or matches in seven years of using them. I was told that their algorithms favor newer profiles, no matter how active you may be on it, so older profiles are secretly burried and not shown to others. Basically, I have to keep creating new accounts to get seen.

So I thought of trying cold approaching in order to try something new.

I was told that cold approaching is a technique that has a variety of success, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't depending on the situation.

Would cold approaching be a good idea to try? What do you think? What are the best ways to go about it?

Thx for any advice in advance.

They really suck

I have just been rejected pet adoption from an animal shelter or the 105th time in a row. I've been trying for over a year now to try and adopt a pet dog from numerous animal shelters, all to no avail as of yet.

The reason that they deny me adoption is because I have 0 referneces yo provide for their bias application forms. I had a really bad hand of cards given to me in life, meaning I have no actual people in it. I aged of of foster care so I gave no family, I have no friends, and of course no girlfriend or anything like that. So I of course have no referneces for their papers at the end of the day. Its complete discrimination against lonely people on their part. They are prejudice organizations.

Besides shelters I've tried rescues, facebook, craigslist, etc, and still have no pet dog as theres nany scams and they have also rejected me many times because of lack of referneces. Networking culture is a disease.

I cant simply go the traditional route of getting a dog from a pet store because every single pet store in my state got banned by people who practiced pulling up the ladder culture.

Many horribles cultures and practices are at play in this world which make society a miserable petless place to live for many. Maybe one day the world will be a better place where horrible people dont ruin things for others through pulling up the ladder culture or other acts of idiocracy. One of my biggest wishes is for pulling up the ladder culture to be gone for good. Sadly selfish people will always exist most likely

What are the best ways to get media coverage for a potential bill advocation?

I've been meeting with some state senator staff and stuff in attempt to get a bill advocated and eventually passed in my state. Sadly bills normally dont progress through the process unless they have a lot of media coverage for some reason. It's basically a media agenda culture that sadly runs the world these days.

It's a bill to get pet stores that sell cats and dogs unbanned because they all got banned in my state which caused major job loss and now some people cant even get pets because of the ban. Animal shelters are prejudice in decision making and the field of adoption is far too competitive. I myself was denied dog adoption over 100 times from numerous shelters over the past year simply because I had no referneces for their application forms. It's a crazy process. Which is why I'm trying to help by getting the stores unbanned through how it's supposed to be done.

So what are the best ways to get major or minor media coverage on potential government bill change? I was planning to send a large word document to some journalists for a human interest story regarding this nonsense. Would using social media be a better idea though?

Thx for any answers

Not having friends sucks

I have never had a single friend in my entire life. And it's been nothing but bad memories and experiences.

For example, in high school when it was the end of senior year, it was horrible. We got to vote to which theme park we as a grade got to go to for our senior trip. And the one I voted for and wanted to go to of course lost. We instead went to the other theme park which was not as good.

The teachers didnt put us or assign us into groups so my classmates got to make their own groups with their friends and every thing which left me as the only person in the entire grade with no group for the park trip at the end. It was especially depressing because it was the end of high school so it's not like I could have met any new people or made any new friends at that point. That's like taking out an umbrella when the storms about to blow over.

So we went to the theme park and I spent the bus ride and entire trip alone as everyone else had fun with their friends. The teachers didnt even offer to put me into a group or anything. I guess I would have felt guilty anyway if some group had to deal with a random stranger in their social circle who would ruin their day. Overall, it's just another way of how society and the system discriminates against lonely isolated people with no social structure. They literally just left me out by myself.

What do you personally believe is a good idea to put a stop to the present day loneliness epidemic? It's most impactful on gen z sadly, my generation. Gen z has kinda been screwed over by multiple epidemics so far now all because of how Gen x, millennials, and boomers helped destroy society. Epidemics like covid, social media addiction, etc.

The current older gens are seemingly not actively even trying to fix the male loneliness epidemic or any of current day issues. They seemingly are just making it worse, by ruining the job market and causing a housing crisis

I myself am very active in trying to fix the loneliness epidemic in society. I met with state senator staff to get a bill advocated and passed that will unban pet stores in my state. Which is needed because a bunch of insane people got pet stores banned a while ago which helped contribute to the loneliness of gen z people who wanted to be pet owners but cant rn because the pet stores are banned in several US states. Pet companionship is a great solution to being lonely which is why its a good solution from me on my part to help the world.

Besides unbanning pet stores, what are some other good solutions to the current loneliness epidemic?