This show parallel's stories from my mom's life

Thought I'd share this here. So my mom is originally from Iran, and when she was growing up it was not at all uncommon for teen girls under 18 to be married off if a "good match" was offered. A friend of hers in high school married a doctor, and she told me how she and all her school friends went over with gifts too see her new household and baby (much like the Penny episode). And they all (at least her and her friend group) though it was cool - not having to go to school anymore and having maids to do all the housework!

My mom had her own almost-match, when she was around 15 an older army officer (she thinks he was in his mid or late 20's) took notice of her which she also noticed. For her part, she thought he was handsome and that the attention was not a bad thing.

One day at school, a group of girls came over to her and said word around town was that the officer had gone to her home to speak with her father, meaning a marriage offer was likely on the table - but that her father had sent him packing.

Long story short my grandpa (a pretty enlightened guy for his time) didn't want her to marry young, he actually wanted her to go to college abroad - my mom being a disappointed 15 year old asked if she could at least date him (in her culture it would be supervised dating, think like Michael and Apollonia being followed around by family in The Godfather) and grandpa said he would either pay for her university or wedding but not both and sent her to her room. My grandmother for her part (who would have agreed to any match just to get my mom out of the house) was actually upset but couldn't overrule her husband. And no, she never heard from the officer again so I guess grandpa scared him.

My mom did end up going to the U.S. shortly before the 1977 revolution and staying here, so yay grandpa.

But watching the show it makes me think "damn, that was almost my mom's story, she almost had a commander." Also goes to show how people can accept the world molded around them and think certain stuff is normal.

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u/Technicolor_Reindeer — 7 days ago
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Waitlisted panel question

So my panel got waitlisted, first time that's happened to me - am I correct in assuming I need to buy a membership and will be reimbursed if I end up presenting?

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u/Technicolor_Reindeer — 1 month ago

A 43 year Star Wars Mystery Solved - The actor for Willrow Hood (aka "Ice Cream Man") in Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back

In case you are unfamiliar with this bit of Star Wars lore, Willrow Hood was the name given to a background character in The Empire Strikes Back, seen running through Cloud City, dressed in an orange jumpsuit carrying what turned out to be a Hamilton Beach ice cream maker. He became known among fans as "Ice Cream Maker Guy," or "Ice Cream Man/Guy." The actor was uncredited. He was dubbed "Willrow Hood" by fans and given a backstory, which evolved into a cult following. People dressed up at him at conventions. His character got a mission in the Lego Star Wars video game. In 2019 The Mandalorian gave a name and purpose to the ice cream maker - a "camtomo."

Star War fans had been trying to find out the actor's identity for 43 years, with no success. In 2023, a French Youtuber called Nicolas Delage decided to investigate who played Willrow Hood. He discovered his identity using Reverse Image Search and contacted the actor's family.

So who was the man?

Egbert Sen was a Pakistani-born British musician who earned extra money by working as an extra in British-produced film and TV in the '70s and '80s. One of these minor roles was as a man in an orange jumpsuit evacuating Cloud City in a hurry in The Empire Strikes Back, carrying an ice cream maker. His two daughters also played brief background characters.

Sen died in 2019, "heartbroken he never achieved fame," unfortunately completely unaware of his fame among fans, that this his minor role attained a massive cult following, complete with a trading card, video game role, action figure, and frequent cosplay. Per his daughter, "none of our family are big Star Wars fan so knew none of this."

A 43 year mystery solved, four years too late.

https://disabilityarts.online/blog/dolly-sen/one-morning-i-woke-up-found-my-dad-has-a-star-wars-cult-following/

https://www.jedinews.com/film-music-tv/articles/egbert-sen-played-willow-hood-in-star-wars-the-empire-strikes-back/

Nicolas Delage's film: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7sp9_hXYQA

u/Technicolor_Reindeer — 1 month ago
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Unsolved in Maryland: On Mother’s Day 60 years ago, 9 Year-old Stevie Johnston was found murdered less than a half-mile from his home. Can and will the lead suspect ever be prosecuted after county police lost the evidence?

Summary: On Sunday, May 8 1966, 9 year old Stevie Johnston was sexually assaulted and stabbed to death less than a quarter-mile from his home. Police originally suspected a neighborhood teenager with falsified documents committed the crime before narrowing in on a suspect with a similar MO. 

Details

In May of 1966, Bethesda, Maryland was a small, developing suburb Northwest of Washington D.C. featuring residential homes, a limited number of businesses, and office space among smaller farmlands in Montgomery County. It was normal for kids to bike around and play with neighboring kids after school, on the weekends, and summer break; so long as they were home in time for dinner when the street lights cut off. 

On Sunday, May 8th, Mother’s Day in 1966, all of this changed.  After the Johnston family attended Church and Sunday school, nine-year-old Stevie Johnston left his home alone towards the Kenwood golf course (located a quarter-mile away to the west of his family home) to search for golf balls. However, the third-grader at Radnor Elementary never made it back to his home on Fairglen Lane. According to Stevie’s step-brother, Rick Neumann (age 13 at the time), by nighttime police officers, firemen, and local residents had begun searching the area for Stevie assuming that he may have gotten lost or injured. 

Unfortunately, his body was found by a fireman the next morning on May 9th, only 150 feet away from where Little Falls Parkway crosses what was at the time a railroad track but is now known as the Capital Crescent Trail. His body was located less than a half-mile to the east of the Kenwood Golf Club and less than a quarter-mile to the East of his home on Fairglen road in the opposite direction of the golf course. He had been sexually assaulted and stabbed although his fingernails suggested he had fought back and scratched his attacker. 

On May 10, the story made the front page of The Washington Post, with the headline “Police Hunt Knife Slayer of 9-year-old Bethesda Boy.” The family and investigators searched for a killer until the case went cold in 1967.  It had changed the neighborhood and the Johnston family forever. “The innocence was lost that day,” Stevie’s half-brother, Sam, said in an interview.  “No longer could kids leave their house and go a mile away to go play by themselves.  Everyone was looking over their shoulder.  It was a very scary time.”

Unbeknownst to the family at the time, in 1967 when the case had gone cold, Montgomery County police detained an unidentified local man for molesting a young boy.  The man was identical to a composite sketch made in 1966 from multiple young, male, victims; who described the same attacker and M.O. The unidentified man also had the same shoe size as a footprint found at the scene of the crime and had carried a knife with the same dimensions as the one that killed Stevie as reported by other victims. However, evidence including: the attackers pubic hairs, head hairs, and a plaster footprint casing were lost by the police over the years. As a result, nobody has ever been tried or prosecuted for Stevies assault and murder. 

“Back in those days the police department didn’t have the chain of custody that they have today,” Sam said.  “They didn’t have evidence rooms for people to sign evidence in and out of custody. Consequently, the detectives kept evidence in their personal desk, lockers, trunks and homes.”

County Police have suggested that if the same case happened today, it would be solved without question. “The way evidence is packed now is a lot different from the way it was 40, 45 years ago,” said Montgomery County Police Sergeant Christopher Homrock.

Conclusion:

In 2015, Lisa Howroth, Stevie’s older sister released a book titled “Flying Shoes” which was based partially around her brothers murder and resulting flawed investigation. One suspect in the book represents the initial suspect of the case, who was later cleared—a teenage outcast who lived down the street. The teen drew suspicion upon himself by backdating a letter for unknown reasons to the then 15-year-old Howorth to make it seem like he was at his boarding school during the Mother’s day weekend when he had been at his family home in Bethesda. This had been the only suspect known to the family until Sam looked into the case on his own in 1994 when the unidentified man was identified to the family as the prime suspect. In an interview from the same time, Lisa notes that the family would like to see the police pursue the still-living (as of 2015) suspect who is a registered sex offender for crimes against children. There is no statute of limitations on a murder charge in the state of Maryland so if police and prosecutors could come up with evidence, they might be able to bring a suspect to trial.

Discussion Points:

Is there any chance of someone being convicted for this crime?

Why have police not tried this case considering the age of their prime (and what appears to be only) suspect? 

Why did Stevie’s body end up in the opposite direction of the golf course? Did Stevie ever make it to the golf course? 

Why is Stevie’s case no longer considered cold by the Maryland State Police?

Sources

A Novel Written From the Heart

Author Lisa Howorth (’69) blends family tragedy and fiction in debut novel – The Black and White

MD - MD - Stevie Johnston, 9, Bethesda, 8 May 1966 | Websleuths

Cold Cases

u/Technicolor_Reindeer — 2 months ago
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AITAH for hiring professional cleaners to prove my mom was a spite cleaner?

This is from a few years ago, but it's come up in arguments lately so I figured I'd get some outside opinions. My mom is what you might call a spite cleaner. She uses cleaning as a tool to control and nag and wine and whatnot. My siblings and I bore the brunt of it. Often she delegated cleanings to a saturday or sunday which we called "hell day"), she would usually go out to buy food for the week/errands and leave us to it, and it seemed no matter how much cleaning we did she was never happy with the result and the day would end with all of us arguing and upset. Sometimes we would barely do any cleaning since the end result was the same - her complaining.

Venting to each other outside the house one day, my siblings and I decided to prove she was just complaining for the sake of complaining. We set up a gofundme to raise funds to pay a local house cleaning company, posing it as something along the lines of 'help us get a professional house cleaning to surprise our mom!' And we were able to raise a few hundred dollars mostly from family and friends (who knew our situation), which covered the cost (and a nice big tip for the cleaners from what was left). So for one cleaning weekend when our mom had shopping plus getting the car looked at, we scheduled a local cleaners to arrive, they were 2 very nice women who proceeded to clean the house till it was sparkling (we chatted a bit with them while they were working, one of the ladies had almost 20 years experience cleaning homes, the other 8). With their consent, we filmed some clips of them cleaning, saying it was to surprise our mom.

So mom gets home with our uncle who was coming to dinner, and she's barely in the door, she's already started complaining about our "usual" subpar cleaning, that either I, my brother didn't clean the surfaces well enough or that my sister didn't sweep one spot. These were repetitive complaints she often said.

Long story short, we show her the footage, her face gets red and she proceeds to scream at us form embarrassing her in front of her brother, how dare we hire cleaners and have strangers in the house, blah blah. We argue back that this proves she just weaponizes cleaning.

It's been a few years since then, after the big blow up she just did most cleaning herself does she never admitted to weaponizing it. It came up again recently as us "tricking" her and I don't think we did anything wrong. AITAH?

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u/TalkTalkTalkListen — 2 months ago