if you like piercings on women — which is more attractive, an eyebrow piercing or a lip piercing? and which would signal to other queer people more?

I’m deciding between the two and I’ve noticed a pattern between my straight friends versus lgbtq+.

I also like both equally on myself and can’t decide, curious what other women would like most ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and also which would read as more queer. again, I love both equally on myself so I’d be happy with either and I’m curious about other factors

only interested in people that do like piercings since I’m already pierced and gonna get one of the two done anyway, so if I get a bunch of “I don’t like either” responses it isn’t really relevant

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How do I move an unrelated toddler into my paras house?

How do I move a toddler that isn’t related to my para into my paras house? I’m doing a rapunzel-kidnapping type story arc

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 12 days ago
▲ 24 r/vegancheesemaking+1 crossposts

Anyone know of a recipe for vegan imitation white sharp cheddar?

It’s the only kind of cheese I can never find and it was my favorite. Specifically, the square ones at Whole Foods.

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 14 days ago
▲ 1 r/find

Seamless swimsuit bra?

I’m most comfortable wearing a swim shirt. However, I require a bra under that swim shirt and I have about issues with seams. Does anyone know of a seamless swim bra I can throw on underneath? When I search for this I just find uncomfortable as hell looking swim bras with seams and the weird metal hooks OR seamless bras that aren’t made for water

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/cricut

Is there some kinda way to scan what I want to make a wrap of or do I have to just draw and figure it out?

This is probably a dumb question but I’d like to make a skin for my oven to make it a prettier color but I have no idea how ??????

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 1 month ago
▲ 4 r/Kava

Are traditional or instant more likely to cause the rash / dermatitis?

Trying to decide which to try first (never had either.) would rather NOT get a rash if I can help it lol

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 1 month ago
▲ 232 r/vegan

I was not ready for how good Follow Your Heart Dairy Free cheese is

It’s so good. Actually good. I’m shocked it’s not the default recommendation given to people new to vegan cheese; I went through so many ones I hated the taste and texture of and at one point gave up on vegan cheese and avoided anything with it. I’m so glad I tried this.

My favorite second to it is Chao cheddar slices, but it does have a nutty aftertaste, which isn’t noticeable if you’re using it in a recipe with other flavors, but I’ll eat follow your heart dairy free cheddar slices out the bag. Cheese and crackers. On a pizza. It’s so good. The feta and Parmesan are good too, particularly the feta. Going to try the smoked Gouda next.

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 2 months ago

Why do I sometimes feel the most okay, optimistic, and in the moment when I’m staying up late and totally exhausted?

Sometimes the most I want to do anything, is like, 8 am and I haven’t slept. I just feel more alive, and this leads to me staying up later and later. (For context I have depressive tendencies but I don’t believe I have depression, maybe a lower level.)

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 2 months ago

Any way to undo a spell jar remotely?

Basically a while back I made a spell jar for my relationship, which has now ended. I waited 4 months to do anything with mine, but I ended up:

cutting the jar open (plastic) (couldn’t open it bc I GLUED THE CORK ON)

dowsing it with black salt to banish it and with hand sanitizer to cleanse it,

removing the pretty things (beads and stones, minus the one with his initial),

sanitizing and rinsing them and leaving them on my altar to Aphrodite

and flushing the rest of the spell (mainly water, glitter, and rose petals, nothing big.) down the toilet (we have a septic tank and everything I could find said that burying was good but I didn’t wanna litter.)

Buuuuut I gave my ex a very small vial of this spell to keep, which he kept on his bookshelf. What he did with it I don’t know. There is no point in contacting him. Anything I can do so his end is neutralized? The spell contained writing from both of us, hair, and some bath water (…..) so my physical material is there. He also has some of my hair, just unrelated, but he broke up with me and ghosted me so there’s a high likelihood it’s been disposed of anyway.

I DO have one loose strand of his hair from the spell jar that I have kept incase that could be used in a ritual. HMU if you have suggestions. Or if I should just get rid of it (even that could be a ritual, I think)

The spell was moreso for relationship prosperity and protection, I didn’t want it to keep us in love if it shouldn’t work out, but idk. I feel like it’s a tie to him which I no longer desire and I let him put some intention into it so idk what kinda effects it could be having

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 2 months ago
▲ 7 r/harp

Vegan harp?

Alright so. I’ve been renting a lever harp for about 2 weeks now, but I’m also a vegan and I learned this harp has gut strings. This is really weighing on me, but I don’t know what to do.

I probably could’ve backed out at the time but I didn’t because this is the only harp rental place in my area and I know online is an option but harps are so big it seemed like too much of a hassle, AND through the rental place this is how I found my teacher. I really struggled to find anyone to teach me in my area so that’s another thing.

I can end the rental at any point, but I don’t feel ready to buy a harp yet (I don’t know if I’ll stick with it for long enough to justify the purchase) and I’m worried if that would make things weird with my teacher if I stop renting from her only to rent from somewhere else. But that IS just compromising my morals for a social situation and I know that’s wrong

Does anyone have any suggestions what I should do? And any harp makers or rental places that don’t use gut strings? I’m not sure what my plan is here but any information on that would be useful

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 2 months ago

Paintbrush and hammer taken away?

What’s going on? I have the decorator pass and my paintbrush and my hammer were taken away. I got a pop up message about it but accidentally clicked it away before I could read it. What did it say and what’s going on ??

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 2 months ago
▲ 364 r/furby

Does anyone else constantly think about the rainbow furby?

They only made three of these, two for a contest winner and one for Hasbro to keep. God I want one. They’re so cool. I know they made later models that are kind of similar, but I don’t really collect post-2005 furbies. (Maybe one day? I just love 90s furbies, 2005 furbies, and shebies most. Also oddbodies.)

u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 3 months ago

Any way I can check how many hours a day I have sound playing in the background while my phone is turned off?

I want to know how much music I listen to daily, but checking my app screen time doesn’t work, because the phone is turned off and therefore this time doesn’t register as screen time or time spent in the app. iPhone 16 pro btw, and I use YouTube Music primarily (occasionally Spotify).

also yes I could count every song in my history but I think it’s at least an hour per day I don’t rlly wanna do that. and timing myself in the future won’t give me an idea of how I am when unobserved, I think it’s likely I might listen to more music if I’m tracking it because it’s naturally going to be on my mind more.

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/moths

Guys is there anything I can do to help this moth?

It landed on my leg and I feel bad for this but reflexively I hit my leg near it. I thought I missed though so I thought nothing of it but a few minutes later I noticed it clinging to my leg with a small clear wing next to it. I looked up what to do and it said moving them to a soft surface can help them heal (pictured is him laying on a small jewelry box I filled with loose wool) but I can’t find anything about anything I can help him to do to heal (I don’t think I could reattach the wing) or if I should give him food or what. Does anyone have any suggestions? He isn’t moving much but he does seem to be alive still, I very gently moved the wool a minute ago and he kind of climbed upwards. He also def survived the initial blow because his antenna was moving like crazy.

u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 3 months ago

Rock/something similar that uses the harp?

I saw a YouTube video where a harpist played Stockholm Syndrome by Muse and replaced the faint piano with the harp (which was much louder than the piano would be), and I absolutely love the sound of a harp playing over the much harder sounds of the song, any suggestions for music that does a similar thing?

video if anyone wants to see it: https://youtube.com/shorts/M0q2DQbFMmg?si=bEbzOdxrjww7QM6q

u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 3 months ago
▲ 4 r/vegan

I’m trying to transition into veganism, right now just trying to add new stuff to the diet. Rn my usual lunch, if made from my home, is maruchan instant noodles, rice a roni, Cheetos Mac and cheese, are there any vegan things similar to these products? I do online school from my house and I usually am too lazy to spend a lot of time making anything, but still enjoy that kind of food

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u/That-BluejaythriwWay — 4 months ago