u/Thought_Foundry

I am in Class 10, Heritage school. I am serious about JEE. If I continue at Heritage for Class 11-12, then I think I won't get sufficient time to prepare for JEE.

1. Would you advise switching schools?

2. Also, looking for opinions on tuitions - online / offline, which coaching? Any specific teacher?

Thank you 🙏✨

The porn industry is often harmful to many of the people involved.

For that reason, I have decided to stop consuming pornography involving real people and limit myself to:

• AI-generated porn
• Cartoon porn

At a minimum, I encourage everyone to stop watching—and, where possible, report—any porn that:

• Involves children
• Involves animals
• Appears to feature trafficked individuals
• Appears to involve coercion, or a lack of consent from any participant

I am new to the online dating scene. I matched up with a woman on Tinder. Soon after the introduction, she asked if I were free to meet up with her, the same day. I said I could go out. Then she asked my number. I gave. Immediately, she unmatched. It seemed weird but I didn't dwell on it. I tried to continue small talk. Things got weirder. She didn't seem keen to know me, and offered curt replies to my questions about her, preferring to meet instead. Then I enquired where she lives. Turns out her place is not far from mine. Immediately after, she suggested that we meet at a restaurant, that is located far away from both our places. I argued that we live close by so we could meet up somewhere near our respective places. She wasn't keen. Now I grew suspicious. Why a specific restaurant located far away? It didn't make any rational sense. I was beginning to wonder if she was trying to pull off some scam on me.

Does she have some commission arrangement with that particular restaurant to bring men on dates? Googled and found that such scams are indeed common. Young women enter into commission arrangements with venues.

Now I wanted to probe further. So I suggested some other nice cafes and pressed a little. She didn't budge, insisting on that specific venue. Now, I was sure of her ploy and decided to teach her a lesson by playing along, only to eventually stand her up.

I asked her to meet at 6:30pm, she agreed, but then she kept delaying. Around 7pm, she finally said she is starting from home and that she would take Uber. I offered to pick her up coz I would be driving. She refused. Anyway, I was only playing along; not that I was actually going to the venue. After some time, I asked her for Uber screenshot. She didn't comply, she sent a google maps link to the venue. I clarified that I wanted Uber app screenshot; she ignored it. Then she called me on WhatsApp to confirm that I was already on my way. I quickly stepped out of home to make her hear street noises and reassured her that I was going to reach soon. After that, I muted her chat notifications, and started to ignore her messages. Later at night I checked her chat window, she had apparently reached the venue around 8:20pm, and was annoyed at me [grin].

So guys - here's their modus operandi:

• Quick meetup request
• Insist on a specific location
• Fake small talk
• Expensive order
• Collect commission

Teach them a lesson by playing along and standing them up.

Edit: This happened in Thailand

Yesterday, I matched with a woman on Tinder. Soon after the introduction, she asked if I were free to meet up with her, the same day. I said I could go out. Then she asked my number. I gave. Immediately, she unmatched. It seemed weird but I didn't dwell on it. I tried to continue small talk. Things got weirder. She didn't seem keen to know me, and offered curt replies to my questions about her, preferring to meet instead. Then I enquired where she lives. Turns out her place is not far from mine. Immediately after, she suggested that we meet at a restaurant, that is located far away from both our places. I argued that we live close by so we could meet up somewhere near our respective places. She wasn't keen. Now I grew suspicious. Why a specific restaurant far away? It didn't make any rational sense. I was beginning to wonder if she was trying to pull off some scam on me.

Does she have some commission arrangement with that particular restaurant to bring men on dates? Googled and found that such scams are indeed common. Young women enter into commission arrangements with venues.

Now I wanted to probe further. So I suggested some other nice cafes and pressed a little. She didn't budge, insisting on that specific venue. Now, I was sure of her ploy and decided to teach her a lesson by playing along, only to eventually stand her up.

I asked her to meet at 6:30pm, she agreed, but then she kept delaying. Around 7pm, she finally said she is starting from home and that she would take Uber. I offered to pick her up coz I would be driving. She refused. Anyway, I was only playing along; not that I was actually going to the venue. After some time, I asked her for Uber screenshot. She didn't comply, she sent a google maps link to the venue. I clarified that I wanted Uber app screenshot; she ignored it. Then she called me on WhatsApp to confirm that I was already on my way. I quickly stepped out of home to make her hear street noises and reassured her that I was going to reach soon. After that, I muted her chat notifications, and started to ignore her messages. Later at night I checked her chat window, she had apparently reached the venue around 8:20pm, and was annoyed at me [grin].

So guys - here's their modus operandi:

• Quick meetup request
• Insist on a specific location
• Fake small talk
• Expensive order
• Collect commission

Teach them a lesson by playing along and standing them up.

I returned to India not long ago and I am new in the dating scene here. So yesterday I matched up with a woman on Tinder. Soon after the introduction, she asked if I were free to meet up with her, the same day. I said I could go out. I tried to continue small talk. She however didn't seem keen to know me, and offered curt replies to my questions about her, preferring to meet instead. It sounded weird. Then I enquired where she lives. She said near Baguiati. Immediately after, she suggested that we meet at a restaurant near Central Metro station. I told her I live in Salt Lake and we could meet up somewhere closer to our respective places, perhaps New Town, VIP Road, or Salt Lake. She wasn't keen. I grew suspicious. Why a specific restaurant near Central Metro when we both live in the North? It didn't make any rational sense. I was beginning to wonder if she was trying to pull off some scam on me.

Does she have some commission arrangement with the venue to bring people over on dates? Googled and found that such scams are actually common. Young women enter into commission arrangements with venues.

Now I wanted to probe further. So I suggested some nice cafes and restaurants closer to our places and pressed a little. She didn't budge, insisting on that specific venue near Central Metro station. By now, I was sure of her ploy and decided to teach her a lesson by playing along, only to eventually stand her up.

I asked her to meet at 6:30pm; she agreed, but then she kept delaying. Around 7pm, she finally said she is starting from home and that she would take Uber. I offered to pick her up from Ultodanga coz I would be driving. She refused. I strongly suspect she was coming by public transport and was trying to build a false air around herself. Anyway, I was obviously at home, with no plans to go to the venue. After some time, I asked her how long she would take, she said 30 mins. I asked her to send a screenshot of Uber. She didn't comply, she sent a google maps link to the venue. I clarified that I want her to share a screenshot of Uber app. She ignored my message and called me on WhatsApp. She wanted to confirm that I was already on my way. I quickly stepped out of home to make her hear street noises and reassured her that I was going to reach soon. Thereafter I muted her chat notifications, and ignored her messages / calls. Later at night I checked her chat window, she had apparently reached the venue around 8:20pm. And was obviously annoyed with me, much to my satisfaction [grin].

So guys - here's their modus operandi:

* Quick meetup request

* Insist on a specific location

* Fake small talk

* Expensive order

* Collect commission

Teach them a lesson by playing along and standing them up. Cheers!