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South American music(reccomend me)

hello all can, could you guys please recommend me some really good South American music.

I’ve listened to:
Stan getz
Joao Gilberto
Novos Bainos
Astrud Gilberto

I would like to explore more bossa nova music , something that’s very traditional and great.

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 5 days ago

Best Study Resources?

Hello guys I’m from Africa and I’m preparing for the maths Olympiad in my country. What resources are the best for preparation?

And how different is Olympiad from regular exams like IGCSE or JEE

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 10 days ago
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Best Study Resources?

Hello guys I’m from Africa and I’m preparing for the maths Olympiad in my country. What resources are the best for preparation?

And how different is Olympiad from regular exams like IGCSE or JEE

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 10 days ago

Best Study Resources?

Hello guys I’m from Africa and I’m preparing for the maths Olympiad in my country. What resources are the best for preparation?

And how different is Olympiad from regular exams like IGCSE or JEE

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 10 days ago

Please I urgently need advice I’m a 16m and she’s a 17f

Me and this girl have been speaking for three years, we dated for almost two years and then broke up because the relationship wasn’t working for either of us. After a couple months of drama that involved me kissing another girl when me and my ex were broken up caused even more problems. She says I broke her trust, she still liked me, and that was wrong of me. Although she was the one who suggested our break up for weeks upon end.

After some reconciliation and conversations we start talking again and we notice that we still have feelings for eachother and we would want to pursue a relationship with eachother again and try to see if it’ll work. I then later invite her to my house and we get intimate although no sex. We also go out again and the same thing happens(no sex)

That same week I had to travel on vacation and since then we have been speaking but then I noticed she had a problem where she becomes to dependent on me. She told me about how I wasn’t available to talk to her one day and that made her feel like “I say I’m available but in reality I’m never”
And that really confused me because I explained to her that sometimes I don’t have data, time differences and I’m on holiday so I don’t have my phone 24/7. I also pointed out the dependent issue because it’s something that has even been pointed out in her previous relationship with her friends. And I only told her these things out of care for her, I want her to grow and not be dependent on someone like my self who is also figuring out life and trying to grow. I also told her how I felt she assigned to me an invisible role of emotional regulator.

Then after two weeks of barely any communication she texts me again and then completely avoids the conversation we previously had although slightly bringing it up but barely addressing it and then starts talking about Argentina and Spain World Cup final. And it really put me off because she just disregarded a whole conversation that was very serious and then changed the topic entirely.

After a couple days where I didn’t text her or reply to her texts because they have been emotionally exhausting to do so and I’ve been reflecting on if this relationship is worth it we then have a phone call. Then I tell her how I feel about everything and I basically tell her I need some space and time to think if persuing anything with her is healthy for me.

She then starts crying heavily and tells me she has done nothing to hurt me and all she has wanted to do is talk to me.

Am I crazy for thinking this relationship isn’t working for me and I think it’s unhealthy with the way the dynamic is? My problem is not her but I’m trying to figure out if communication and a possible relationship is something I even want

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 28 days ago

18m and I feel very guilty with my ex 18f

Me and this girl have been speaking for three years, we dated for almost two years and then broke up because the relationship wasn’t working for either of us. After a couple months of drama that involved me kissing another girl when me and my ex were broken up caused even more problems. She says I broke her trust, she still liked me, and that was wrong of me. Although she was the one who suggested our break up for weeks upon end.

After some reconciliation and conversations we start talking again and we notice that we still have feelings for eachother and we would want to pursue a relationship with eachother again and try to see if it’ll work. I then later invite her to my house and we get intimate although no sex. We also go out again and the same thing happens(no sex)

That same week I had to travel on vacation and since then we have been speaking but then I noticed she had a problem where she becomes to dependent on me. She told me about how I wasn’t available to talk to her one day and that made her feel like “I say I’m available but in reality I’m never”
And that really confused me because I explained to her that sometimes I don’t have data, time differences and I’m on holiday so I don’t have my phone 24/7. I also pointed out the dependent issue because it’s something that has even been pointed out in her previous relationship with her friends. And I only told her these things out of care for her, I want her to grow and not be dependent on someone like my self who is also figuring out life and trying to grow. I also told her how I felt she assigned to me an invisible role of emotional regulator.

Then after two weeks of barely any communication she texts me again and then completely avoids the conversation we previously had although slightly bringing it up but barely addressing it and then starts talking about Argentina and Spain World Cup final. And it really put me off because she just disregarded a whole conversation that was very serious and then changed the topic entirely.

After a couple days where I didn’t text her or reply to her texts because they have been emotionally exhausting to do so and I’ve been reflecting on if this relationship is worth it we then have a phone call. Then I tell her how I feel about everything and I basically tell her I need some space and time to think if persuing anything with her is healthy for me.

She then starts crying heavily and tells me she has done nothing to hurt me and all she has wanted to do is talk to me.

Am I crazy for thinking this relationship isn’t working for me and I think it’s unhealthy with the way the dynamic is? My problem is not her but I’m trying to figure out if communication and a possible relationship is something I even want

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 28 days ago

[18m] My mind is messing with me

Me and this girl have been speaking for three years, we dated for almost two years and then broke up because the relationship wasn’t working for either of us. After a couple months of drama that involved me kissing another girl when me and my ex were broken up caused even more problems. She says I broke her trust, she still liked me, and that was wrong of me. Although she was the one who suggested our break up for weeks upon end.

After some reconciliation and conversations we start talking again and we notice that we still have feelings for eachother and we would want to pursue a relationship with eachother again and try to see if it’ll work. I then later invite her to my house and we get intimate although no sex. We also go out again and the same thing happens(no sex)

That same week I had to travel on vacation and since then we have been speaking but then I noticed she had a problem where she becomes to dependent on me. She told me about how I wasn’t available to talk to her one day and that made her feel like “I say I’m available but in reality I’m never”
And that really confused me because I explained to her that sometimes I don’t have data, time differences and I’m on holiday so I don’t have my phone 24/7. I also pointed out the dependent issue because it’s something that has even been pointed out in her previous relationship with her friends. And I only told her these things out of care for her, I want her to grow and not be dependent on someone like my self who is also figuring out life and trying to grow. I also told her how I felt she assigned to me an invisible role of emotional regulator.

Then after two weeks of barely any communication she texts me again and then completely avoids the conversation we previously had although slightly bringing it up but barely addressing it and then starts talking about Argentina and Spain World Cup final. And it really put me off because she just disregarded a whole conversation that was very serious and then changed the topic entirely.

She then starts crying heavily and tells me she has done nothing to hurt me and all she has wanted to do is talk to me.

After a couple days where I didn’t text her or reply to her texts because they have been emotionally exhausting to do so and I’ve been reflecting on if this relationship is worth it we then have a phone call. Then I tell her how I feel about everything and I basically tell her I need some space and time to think if persuing anything with her is healthy for me.

Am I crazy for thinking this relationship isn’t working for me and I think it’s unhealthy with the way the dynamic is? My problem is not her but I’m trying to figure out if communication and a possible relationship is something I even want

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 28 days ago

Am I supposed to accept this?

Me and this girl have been speaking for three years, we dated for almost two years and then broke up because the relationship wasn’t working for either of us. After a couple months of drama that involved me kissing another girl when me and my ex were broken up caused even more problems. She says I broke her trust, she still liked me, and that was wrong of me. Although she was the one who suggested our break up for weeks upon end.

After some reconciliation and conversations we start talking again and we notice that we still have feelings for eachother and we would want to pursue a relationship with eachother again and try to see if it’ll work. I then later invite her to my house and we get intimate although no sex. We also go out again and the same thing happens(no sex)

That same week I had to travel on vacation and since then we have been speaking but then I noticed she had a problem where she becomes to dependent on me. She told me about how I wasn’t available to talk to her one day and that made her feel like “I say I’m available but in reality I’m never”
And that really confused me because I explained to her that sometimes I don’t have data, time differences and I’m on holiday so I don’t have my phone 24/7. I also pointed out the dependent issue because it’s something that has even been pointed out in her previous relationship with her friends. And I only told her these things out of care for her, I want her to grow and not be dependent on someone like my self who is also figuring out life and trying to grow. I also told her how I felt she assigned to me an invisible role of emotional regulator.

Then after two weeks of barely any communication she texts me again and then completely avoids the conversation we previously had although slightly bringing it up but barely addressing it and then starts talking about Argentina and Spain World Cup final. And it really put me off because she just disregarded a whole conversation that was very serious and then changed the topic entirely.

She then starts crying heavily and tells me she has done nothing to hurt me and all she has wanted to do is talk to me.

After a couple days where I didn’t text her or reply to her texts because they have been emotionally exhausting to do so and I’ve been reflecting on if this relationship is worth it we then have a phone call. Then I tell her how I feel about everything and I basically tell her I need some space and time to think if persuing anything with her is healthy for me.

Am I crazy for thinking this relationship isn’t working for me and I think it’s unhealthy with the way the dynamic is? My problem is not her but I’m trying to figure out if communication and a possible relationship is something I even want

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 29 days ago

I’m going to be traveling for about 48 hours and I will be in another country for 6weeks. Could you please recommend me albums that are good for the summer vibe or are just peak in general that I can bump

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 2 months ago
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Unpopular Opinion

Ngl bro might be off topic but after reading the replies to a certain post it just enforces the negative idea I already have of subjective music discourse(especially on Reddit). Imagine posting your PERSONAL top albums and someone in the comments is saying you just started listening to music or you’re an “insert artist” dick rider. Apart from me being able to like what I like, why must there be so much superior complex just because you have listen to some niche album made in Slovenia. Music is music and no matter how many albums you’ve listened to we all have the autonomy to decide which albums we deem fit to be in our top rankings, it’s understandable to express your own opinion on thus album but to make someone feel less of themselves or create a ranking system and make yourself judge and jury is a sign of insecurity.

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 2 months ago

High school prom

Everyone was dancing, singing and having fun. I had a girl besides me who is more or less my girl but I felt nothing. I feel this way nowadays just unexplainable heaviness, sadness and loneliness. I find it hard to enjoy these social settings without feeling like I’m loosing my self and happiness has become ambiguous to be. I don’t know how to be happy with other people; I only enjoy fishing, soccer, listening to music and watching movies.

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 2 months ago

High school prom

Everyone was dancing, singing and having fun. I had a girl besides me who is more or less my girl but I felt nothing. I feel this way nowadays just unexplainable heaviness, sadness and loneliness. I find it hard to enjoy these social settings without feeling like I’m loosing my self and happiness has become ambiguous to be. I don’t know how to be happy with other people; I only enjoy fishing, soccer, listening to music and watching movies.

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 2 months ago

Please I need advice

Is it normal for my mood to drastically change during the day and my mental health just feels so fucked? Today was my graduation and for most of the day emptiness and sadness crowded me, on a day when I should be happy all I wanted to do was listen to music and isolate my self. But to be fair I’m just exiting a phase of deep isolation which lasted for months and deep sadness which changed my life. Every fucking day is just so fucking depressing and I can’t stand it, I feel so alone and away from society and the people who ideally should be in my life because i think people exclude me from most social situations and fuck me man😂😂😂it’s actually really fucking lonely to see the people who are close to you in your life having fun in social situations and in my head it just fucking hurts

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u/Trick-Manager-201 — 2 months ago