[British Columbia] Arrested for domestic assault, released on undertaking with "no contact" condition. Need advice on next steps.
Location: Oliver, British Columbia
I was recently arrested (last night) and charged with domestic assault. I have been released on an undertaking with conditions, including a "no contact" and "no attendance at residence" order.
The undertaking includes a clause stating I cannot attend the residence "unless accepted by my spouse." My spouse has since stated she is comfortable with me returning to the home. I have also been requested by the police to meet with them today. I have an appointment with a lawyer in a few days to discuss this case.
I was under the influence of alcohol when this happened. One argument lead to another and I went towards her and I put my hand on her. But dint hit her or hurt her. She immediately called 911 and the cops arrived home. One officer took me out of my apartment to know my side of the story. Shortly after the lady officer walked out and the officer I was speaking to asked me to turn around, put me in handcuffs and took me to Osoyoos jail. Today morning I was released with this undertaking. I was told to meet the officer today evening. Not sure why.
My questions are:
Does my spouse’s verbal permission to return home legally override the written "no attendance" condition in my undertaking?
If the police ask me about the incident or my current housing situation during our meeting today, what are my legal rights regarding answering those questions?
What is the proper legal process to have a "no attendance" condition formally varied if all parties are in agreement?
Would I be arrested again?
I am currently seeking legal representation and have an appointment scheduled. I am looking for information on how to handle these immediate interactions while I wait to speak with my counsel.
TIA