u/Typical_Advance_7396

hi i already made a post about my break up but i just wanna ask why did he do this? he broke up with me then started following bunch of girls plus he talked bad about all of them and then i find out from a friend that he texted that one girl and he talked the worst about her. im doing okay but i just dont know why he would do this. the reason behind the break up was that he started following random girls ( he follows only close friends thats why i confronted him) and then he was like its not like that u dont trust me (i dont wanna go into detail about all of the reasons), he broke up with me over a text when i was having exam week btw. so is he doing this just out of spite or what?

Zdravo izvinjavam se posto nije bas ono cemu sluzi sve ovo, ali posto znam da ovde ima dosta devojaka ako je neka voljna da poprica sa mnom u dm o raskidu posto nemam bas sa kime da pricam vise o tome a znacilo bi mi zensko misljenje :)

Zdravo ako neko ima preporuku narocito ako je iz dm-a za mleko za suvu kozu koje stvarno lepo upije a nije premasno i lepljivo ili neko dobro ulje isto da upija normalno 🩷🫶🏻

hi this break up was so hard and i just wanna know what is he feeling rn, my initals are MA his are LDJ so please help

i need opinions and advice im going to share my story. so we were together for almost 2 years. our rl was really good. suddenly, and for the record im not a known jealous person or anything like that, i had like bad thoughts about him and other people. i know that a part of that was my ocd/anxiety but i kinda knew that there was a bit of something wrong. he has low follower count on ig he follows like 50 people max. so i had no problem with him having female friends in general but u know when something doesnt feel right for u. so random i saw that he followed some random girl, not friend not like anyone related to us. so when i see something like that i ask him hi how do u know her. for example if when we started to date had a lot of followers i wouldnt ask him hey unfollow all these girls or whatever, but since he only follows close people it is sus. he gets mad about that and says i dont trust him and that its accident. and then it happend more. he broke up with me over a month ago over text, he didnt wanna see me and tell me to face and the reason is because im jealous and he is exausted bc of me. after the last time we talked he followed bunch of girls most of which he talked bad about. he unfollowed me from ig and eveything, didnt wish me a happy birthday. si my question is if he says he is honest why did he do that after a break up, if it was reversed situation i wouldnt done it because im honest person and i dobt have interest in other man exept mine. did someone go through something simmilar or has opinion to share about this please

i need your opinion on this, man and woman. we broke up like a month ago because we didnt agree on things like i noticed him following random girls and he has a low follower count and he thinks im jealous and crazy and he broke up, but ever since we last spoke he followed new girls my mutuals and some other he spoke bad about and unfollowed me from ig. so i just feel like i was right all along and is he doing this just to spite me or what i dont understand. my point of view is if you think i was wrong and u wasnt doing anything bad u wouldnt do these things like that

hello, is anyone willing to give me a free reading on my love life i feel so stuck and sad i need some clarity so if anyone has the time please leave a comment or dm me! thank u

hi if anyone is willing to do a reading for me i would be thankful, im having a hard time after a break up and need clarity🩷

Hi i just wanna share my story and hear opinions from people who have or had this issue or have something to say. Im turning 20 this year. Recently my bf broke up with me after almost 2 years. Im not gonna go into details but for context the main issue is that we didnt get along on this subjects. I am jealous but not in a dont breath in front of other woman jealous more like some tiny things get to me and make me overthink(also i am exploring that i may have ocd, which im going to unpack with therapist if i get one but because of money i dont know if thats possible rn). For example every change in my bf and some little things like following someone on social media and even finding someone attractive is like a big thing for me. He has female friends not in a super close or weird way i dont mind that. But i mind some like details if u get me. I get full on rage if i think about what if he gets another woman attractive and what if he has sexual feelings for others. Even tho i feel like i deserved a chance to reedem myself we broke up, but we are on good terms. So i need help on how to get past this and rn im in a bad state because the break up is not like oh we are not in relationship so i dont get jealous im still in love ofc its been two weeks. So please share your opinion and experience thank u i really need it

Hi, i just needed to share my struggle and to get advice. So please if ur reading this any advice and nice word could help. So to star this im 20 and my bf is 20. We broke up this week. We were in a relationship for almost 2 years. I love him so much and i gave everything to this relationship. To start off i wanna say that he broke up with me. The reason is that i got jealous for things he thinks are not the reason to be. To explain he didnt cheat on me or anything like that, i get jealous of his female friends and sometimes without a reason. He is a great person and all but i have ocd and the bad thoughts make me spiral and ovethink so bad. Over a month ago he said that this has affect on him, that he cant do normal stuff without having fear of my reaction, even tho that stuff is nothing bad. I didnt understand it like that before and i was crushed it wasnt something that i would purposly do to him. Since than because of final exams i saw him only twice. He broke up with me over text. I asked him if we could talk face to face just so i can say everything i want to him. He said he would think about it. Today he said that he doesnt wanna do it in person and i can still text him eveything i was gonna say. I understand it but it hurts deeply. Since the first talk about this problem, as i said, we didnt see eachother often and i feel like he didnt give put relationship a proper chance. I was changing and ignoring my ocd, learning about it and testing myself for him to be the best and not let my ocd win. Besides all this we didnt have a single problem. He still loves me i know and he said that this will be the best for both of us, but i cant see it that way. Did anybody expirience something simmilar? Any advice is helpful thank u. And ps english is not my native language so sorry for any grammar mistakes.

Hi i need help and tips for my rocd and i cant get help from therapist im not in a position for that. So me and my bf are in relationship for almost 2 years. I suspect i always had ocd but it wasnt this bad. My bf is a good man and he didnt do anything wrong but my ocd is thinking that there is something bad behind it and that he want other women and u know. I ask him about stupid stuff to get reassurence. Recently we had a serious talk because he didnt know how i felt and i explained but my rocd had pretty bas effect on him and i dont know how to get it in control. He doesnt deserve what i do when my ocd spirals. I need some tips and advice how to handle this and how to have the best aproach about this with him. I love him so much and i dont want to ruin things.

Hi i need help and tips for my rocd and i cant get help from therapist im not in a position for that. So me and my bf are in relationship for almost 2 years. I suspect i always had ocd but it wasnt this bad. My bf is a good man and he didnt do anything wrong but my ocd is thinking that there is something bad behind it and that he want other women and u know. I ask him about stupid stuff to get reassurence. Recently we had a serious talk because he didnt know how i felt and i explained but my rocd had pretty bas effect on him and i dont know how to get it in control. He doesnt deserve what i do when my ocd spirals. I need some tips and advice how to handle this and how to have the best aproach about this with him. I love him so much and i dont want to ruin things.