u/VarietyNo9200

I cant stop crying everyday due to unemployment

I dont know what to do, anytime I give my brain a chance to think, I just think of all the negative things and just start crying. I have like 10 breakdowns everyday which is affecting my productivity. I cant focus on applying for jobs or interview prep because i just cant stop fucking crying

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 22 hours ago

Does anyone have brain fog due to long term unemployment which is causing u to struggle in interviews?

I can only provide answers to scenarios which I have prepared beforehand. I cant come up with scenarios on the spot. My brain just goes blank or I blabber a lot.

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 22 hours ago

I just need the stress to be gone

I cant keep waking up feeling like the stress from unemployment is gonna take over me completely and i am gonna have a horrible break down every single day. Everyday feels like i am going deeper into an endless abyss. I feel so guilty anytime i do anything unproductive. Distractions are great for some time, but the emotional exhaustion is always there. And people think that I am not trying hard enough but they have no idea about the shit that goes in my head the moment i open my eyes. It feels like I am never gonna have a job. I just need the pain to be gone.

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 3 days ago

Feels like no matter what I do i am not good enough to get that offer letter

I am trying my best. I am not naturally charismatic to make me a good personality fit. I don’t usually talk a lot, so in interviews, it is difficult to talk about myself. I am not very good at communicating/explaining myself. Sprinkle a bit of tism on top of all that. But, I have the skills to do the job. I AM TRYING MY BEST.

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 7 days ago

People who have jobs, hate their jobs and are miserable and people who are unemployed, wish to get a job and are miserable. So, we are doomed either way?

I am in the second category unfortunately and I cry every day feeling like a complete failure. Will it ever get better?

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 8 days ago

Anyone else have to predict their parents’ reactions and prepare an appropriate response before they confront you?

Like your parents tell you do this. And you don’t do it and u think of how they will react and then you prepare an appropriate response for when they question you. Any stories like that?

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 9 days ago

Afraid of living on my own as a women

Depending on where I get a job, i might have to move to a new city and live on my own. I live with my parents currently. It’s common in my culture to live with parents until you get married. I have never lived by myself not even in college.

I really do want to move out but I am afraid of what might happen. When i get interviews for a role in a new city, first thing i search up is the city’s crime rate and if it’s high, which it usually is, as bigger cities have better job opportunities which tend to have more crime.

How do I get over this fear? Like I know that terrible things u see in movies and tv shows doesn’t happen all the time but it does happen.

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 13 days ago

I have applied for jobs in many different states that I qualify for making sure my resume has all the keywords, but I get auto rejected. Is this because recruiters prefer candidates who live locally and can start immediately? I really wanna move out of my parents’ house and live in a new city, but i hardly ever get interviews for roles in other states. I am even open to relocating without any assistance. How do people get jobs in a state that they don’t currently live in?

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 16 days ago

I graduated with a bachelor’s degree in psychology couple years ago. Then I was unemployed for a bit and then did a year long internship at a company in consumer insights. Internship ended recently but i still cant find a job in this field. I have been getting interviews but no offers. Is it me or is the field just very competitive? I am also trying to get better at interviewing. It doesn’t help that consumer insights is such a niche field that there aren’t too many job postings. What other jobs titles should i look into?

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u/VarietyNo9200 — 16 days ago