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No matter how many mistakes you’ve made, don’t let them convince you that your future is ruined. Learn from them, take the lesson, ask Allah for forgiveness, and keep moving forward.

You can’t change what already happened, but you can change what you do next.

And never forget: Allah is the Most Forgiving. Your mistakes don’t make you beyond His mercy.

Leave the past where it belongs, carry the lessons with you, and keep walking towards a better future.

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Something I’ve been thinking abt after seeing this video:

A LOT of the beauty standards placed on women are weirdly centered around looking young, innocent, hairless, delicate, small, soft, etc.

And when you actually stop and think about it… why?

Why is a GROWN woman expected to have the body hairlessness of a child, the innocence of a child, the softness of a child, the “cute” appearance of a child, while still somehow being expected to look attractive and feminine?

I'm not saying that every person who likes these things is a pedophile. Obviously not. And liking a certain aesthetic doesn't automatically mean anything evil

But the fact that society can sexualize and idealize childlike traits in adult women is something we should be willing to question.

Especially when women are constantly praised for looking younger, smaller, more innocent and more childlike.

And then girls are taught from childhood that there's a very specific way they're “supposed” to look:

No body hair.

Clear skin.

Tiny waist.

Soft features.

Long hair.

Big eyes.

Cute.

Delicate.

Innocent.

Feminine.

WHAT 😭

Who made this checklist??

And the craziest part is that these standards constantly change. A while ago, the men wanted " a thick latina " and now " skinny blonds " are back in trend.

So clearly there isn't one universal way that women are “supposed” to look.

Your body hair doesn't make you less feminine.

Having curves doesn't make you less feminine.

Not having curves doesn't make you less feminine.

Being tall doesn't make you less feminine.

Being short doesn't make you less feminine.

Having acne, freckles, scars, different features, different hair, different skin none of it makes you “wrong.”

And you don't have to look younger, older, smaller, softer, hairless or “perfect” to be beautiful.

So please, girls, don't let some random beauty standard convince you that there's something wrong with you. 🫶🏽

You are supposed to look like YOU.

And I'm saying this super sincerely, every girl I've met here is soo different and cool in her own way and I genuinely love all of you so much so never let a stoopid beauty standard tell you that you're not beautiful, because you are and ilysmmm 🤩🤩🤩💗💗💗✨️✨️✨️✨️😻😻😻😍😍😍🤏🤏