u/adiyealage

What exact moment you felt that? Still do you crave for it??

I used to go to office early morning. So used to catch my office cab/bus by 6.30 am.
Since I live in gated apartment bit out of city, takes an hour to reach!
This apartment has jogging area, basketball court and a gym.

So mostly I am the first person to get into this lift 10 mins before everyday. So suddenly one day saw this guy who used to come in lift with me. He was in running shoes, track, t’s. Initially I didn’t speak with him, but overtime we smiled and used to have a mild talk!
He was a gym freak usually talk about workout routine, jogging, skipping ,protein stories etc etc. he also shared his dad works in bank, mom housewife and he was always inclined towards sports!

He told he was working for some mnc remotely!

We sometimes even used to have small chat about tn politics! We became good friends & everyday we both used to talk in lift and walk till parking - me going to office & he for gym and jogging after that

One day he asked me- nama just 10 mins tha daily pesrom nama en oru china outing mari poga kodathu? We have lot to chat and share & dont take me wrong nothing romantic just platonic tha- summa we have some coffee and croissant 🙂

I too felt his intentions were not bad so said okay neeye location solu poiduvom- he told pathutu solre some cozy cafe in bessy maybe? Nu ketan❤️🫣

I told ok and we moved.
Next day we saw and was about to talk & he got a call we smiled and left.
Following day again - he said neeye oru cafe suggest pane , girls selection nala irukum la cafe spot ku nu sonan! I told pathutu solre and we reached ground❤️

Etha cafe bessy la nala irukum nu surf pani 2-3 pathu vachiruthe!

Adutha naal epovum pola sharp aa lift erite, patha avan aal varala, seri not well pola nu I left

This followed in coming days too- avan varave illa
Apdye saturday ee vanthutu so I asked the watchman- Anna oru paiyan varuvangle sports t potutu jogging ku avangaluku ennachu romba naal aale kanom!

Watchman: yaru ma? Apd yarum inga jogging porathu illaye athuvum ivlo early aa!

I was about to leave- suddenly he called irunga ma oru paiyan jogging povan epovum 1 st block la , ana ipo illaye! avanga family oru car accident la eranthutangle 6 months back,
Ipo vara veedu gaali aa tha iruku! Neenga avana tha kekuringala??

jute😳😱

Enana pona June masam oruku poitu vanthe
Mom gave me dosa in hot pack
Actually nethu tha pathe wash panala🫪(more than 50 days)

Ipo enna na mummy varanga inga , enaku hot pack open panave bayama iruku!🤮

How to dipose and remove the smell after washing??

Pls guys very urgent🚨

Mummy ku therija adi polanthuruvanga 🥹 ( modern mummy until it comes to her favourite paathiram)

Hi, I am working in a top Automotive OEM for 10 lpa , now 25 months work ex and resigned (dirtiest politics but conveyed to then moving for Higher studies)

I am a mechanical engineer (F) 2024 passed out with 8.78/10 cgpa & overall profile of 9/7/8 (BC)

During my college days I was preparing for gate ME seriously but after that due to hectic production pressure and politics (used to work 64 hrs/ week)
I didn’t have time to study!

I resigned- Now have a but oscillation

Should I go for Cat or gate. If gate I will opt for PSU Only!

But many of my friends said if you go for CAT you can earn more than PSU & it is comparatively (not so still) easier than GATE ME!

To me- I am somewhat strong in apti ( as In gate that 13-15 marks I usually get- so sorry if I assumed CAT level with that) & strong in core too but didn’t get time for prep for GATE!

Now please give me pros and cons of gate and cat and suggest what I can choose !

Ps: yes I know people may advise me that-I know my life & career more! But now I am asking you guyss as I am too confused 😕 now ! Pls help me 🥺

Rate panugo 😩❤️

Need a referral for role in renault nissan kindly give me referal for role

I am 2.2 years exp in top automobile oem
Planning & cost analyst in production engineering department with vendor management additional

Kindly help me guys

Same people called sangeetha as sl&t & supported trisha for remarks

Inaiku ivangaluku support panraga enna elavu ithula
Sathiyama purila

Voting for him and hinting it!

: before election results-Ms. Trash going to Tirupathi!
After results- radhika mam commenting what a gift!
Charmy commenting lucky mascot!

Crying in his ceremony ( sat in first row)
Posting love is always louder- charmy comments gold couple

Kamal comments on their relationship in TG Meet!

Ipd ellame nadathum - sila muttu anils say theg are friends!

Ok they are friends! Apo why other celebs comment them as couples??

Male female friendship theryatha alavu muttal aa namala??

Plus why cheesy captions?

Serious fling over in couple of months and sangeetha withdrawn divorce? So sus!

Ore confusion! Ithela marupadi muttu anils are spreading patch up celebs!

Sangeetha should never forgive him and trash( if this true) idk why she withdrew!

Pls keep aside every polit or support or fan angle and spill some facts behind this!

Itha thiramai la vachu oru use um illa😅
Still stress relief aa iruku ❤️

Recently my friend(senior akkov) got married- nala ponnu nga
Porupana aal!

Ana you know what she got in return:

1. Overwork- she works in office & comes home aai kotify for her husband ,mamiyar and mamanar vagai vagai aa without getting help or support
2. All household work ava tha pakura
3. She likes wearing bodycon, ana ipo athela mamiyar ku pudikatham, so no way only sarees!
4. This girl so pretty nga ana ipo recent aa pathe - pavama iruthanga tired aa restless aa
5. Couple aa veliya pona aunty ku pudikatham so porathu illa
6. Nykaa, myntra nu order pota en ivlo order podre nu kekurangalam!

See after seeing all this marriage mela nambikkai ee illa! Ivlothukum madam ku 7 years aa love marriage!
Not blaming everyone but marriage is a burden extra!

Ithela thevaya

Have been surfing for jobs past 4 months.200+ applies- idk 🤷‍♀️

Any folks working ford? What is error coming page , apply ee pana mudila?? But job posted only a day ago??

Referral irutha help panuga anyone who is mechanical core companies & automotive OEM

- 2.2 years work ex in Top competitive OEM

We are ready to accept a heroine who doesn’t conventionally fit into so called beauty standards but she should not be a tamil actress! Shame

We relax all standards (or make them appear good / talented) for other state girls but when it comes to native tamil girls - even when they fit the beauty standards, even when they are talented we sideline them! 🫪 we are ready to whitewash other state actresses, we are ready ti groom them too!
Why??

Ps: As a girl myself from kerala -Tamilnadu border haves beautiful/ talented girls from both the states!

Athunala mamitha,pooja mari alagana talented aa ponnu ee illa, illa commercial value nu sombu oda vara venam makale😼 (as commercial value is not only proportional to other state actress)

✅Every commercial face actress was once a new comer who got the chance!
Inga native actress atha oru chance ee kedaikala tha solre!!
(As other industries give their girls that chance- nama???)

& they are ready to cast a avg looking, new face with no talent apo commercial value risk edupangapam, !!

Athe mid tier commercial native tamil actresses cast pana market value commercial value poidumam!!
Nala kaathula poo suthunga ra🤐🤐

Hi all,

Never been to gym, not able to take proper pushup also! I have trying for days & Today I took 6 pushups🫪❤️

Since I am in proper weight, family members never told me to go to gym- (they felt it may make me manly, loose feminine features 🫪)

But even though I am not overweight I feel like sloth, I want to energetic, flexible and strong 💪 & be energetic

I am 165 cm, 58 kgs with proper body but highly rigid and hands shake and pain when I take pushup🥺

Suggest me beginner friendly gym tips and exercises routine which makes my body look toned !

As I am new to these- I took have fear(pls dont judge me guys I have been brainwashed like this🥹) even I don’t want to look too muscular, lose boobs or have extreme super drop in weight!

Just a toned body good strength and flexibility within my same weight !

Ps: Kings/ queens who have training for years- pls dont judge me- I am so new & misinformed so pls dont judge help me pardon if I said something wrong pls😩❤️

I have sharing room with a stranger girl, She is my roomie now!
I am a complete teetotaller. I was sleeping and she knocked the door & woke me up, To my shock she was excessively drunk not even able to stand!

And she never locks the main door when she comes late after her drink 😳 (complaint raised by maid)
We are girls living alone , if she is this careless who will pay for our safety! I told her many times and she be like sorry & repeat the same again

Like she didn’t disturb me but as I am completely allergic & uncomfortable around people who drink( like people in that state precisely) I feel very irritated now & lost my sleep too as she comes at 2.00 , 3.00 am.

Kudikurathu kudikathathu its their choice but I don’t know why these people disturb others! Atleast she might have informed me that she will come late!

Ithela naa teatotaller husband venum pray vera panre!
I mean see them- why dont they have sense not to disturb others??

Oru mari tharma sangadam aa ana nilamai 🥹

Wearing wig is never out problem but they wear that & advice to drink more water 🫪
Well summa discussion though

Recently observed preity’s wig more obviously seen in cwc

I've never had a genuine female best friend.😒

During college, I was in a department with very few girls. There were only two of us in the hostel, and I truly thought we'd become lifelong friends.
Instead, I was always the one putting in all the effort.

For her 20th birthday, I even lied to my parents just so I could buy her 20 gifts. I expected nothing in return, but on my birthday, all I got was "Belated HBD." Eventually she spoke behind my back, misunderstood my intentions, & the friendship ended. The worst part? It happened right before one of my toughest sem exams. I cried the whole day, somehow studied at the last minute, and passed. I still remember that day.
Sadly, that wasn't my only experience.
Most of my close female friendships ended in backstabbing, gossip, jealousy, or people being around only when they needed something—from studies to money. I sometimes felt people valued what I could offer more than who I was.

I'm not saying every girl is like this. This has simply been my experience.
I value friendship more than relationships. When someone becomes my friend, I give my whole heart. But somehow, I'm always the giver.

In our hostel mess, hundreds of girls would sit together in groups. And there was me...
Sitting alone with my plate, pretending to scroll through my phone.
Even when I was part of a girls' group, I always felt like the "extra" person—the one who's physically there but never truly belongs.
Ironically, in my final year, I became the only girl who secured the highest placement in my entire college**.** ( Lol alone so got bored )Suddenly, many of those same girls wanted to be friends.
But I never wanted friendships that came after success. I wanted someone who would've stayed before it.
I've always had more male friends, but deep down, there's still a little girl in me who wishes for one emotionally mature, kind, and genuine female friend.
Sometimes I even wonder who my bridesmaid would be.

Maybe My resting face is not a smiling one😁 I either zone out & sit like Vijay Sir or morachify looks 😳😠 (manufacturing defect) athula nama katadurai nenachu vara matikanga pola😎🕶️🥺

P.S. : I saw some comment saying, "OP is such a chill girl to hang out with." It was just one sentence from a stranger, but it genuinely made my day. Sometimes strangers make us feel more understood than people we've known for years.

Saw my feed with tiny kids in hostel!
Some are there for JEE /NEET Prep,

Illa career mukyam tha illa nu solala! But childhood?!

I have seen IIT an and a normal student working for same pay! A doctor without ROI too ,

Even in my school a guy who was brilliant in studies was forced by his father to appear for JEE, he will be allowed to sleep only if he answers a question given by his father!🥺

He used to cry in class! Slowly he started to fail in class and exams too! His parents trued to join in coaching when we were studying 8th class!

His father left everything after his trial of committing suicide❗️

Now he has not cleared JEE/ Neet!

But he lives happily working in his fav product based startup❤️

So, if you personally want a JEE/ NEET Or UPSC try that!
Else parents pls leave your kids ! Dont spoil their childhood leaving your kid at allen kota at 10 years can even make your child clear IIT !

But remember the mental illness & pressure you give to your kids?? Let them live happily! Dont steal their childhood! Dont make them homesick! There is a age for hostel!!

These type of pressurising parents and parents who leave their kids at hostel at very young age-

DON’T FORGET OLD AGE HOMEy IS WAITING FOR YOU 😡